One woman says that she's FOREVER the optimist. As SOON as she is SURE one relationship ends, she is losing no time to seek another. It will ALSO erase the pain of returniling to loneliness. That's HOW all should handle this situation

ANOTHER woman says NO!! you should REMAIN ALONE until you forget that firt previous lover B4 you attempt ANOTHER connect-up. They used the word: "Heal." That's HOW all should handle this situation

WHAT IS YOUR ADVICE?
Broken hearts will appreciate your early contribution!!??

i say, get reaquainted with yourself first. when in a relationship, ppl tend to lose themselves in the other person and the line of who you are and who they are get blurred. as it should to a point...it's called compromise. but once single again i think you should reflect on what your new needs and wants are.

I think everyone needs sometime to heal before starting a new relationship... but the time is different for each person... If you don't allow yourself that time then any relationship you try to be in will be doomed...

i say live on

if you meet some one you want go for it

if not

wait and """heal"""

whatever heal means

seems more like the relationship i was in was with a heel a
already

(((((robin))))))


Re-mating, Like dogs??

hope yer day in the country riding went well my dear

what word should I have used instead of re-mating. Please advise?

well, re-mating got my attention

that word is ok w/me

not like ya said breeding

My thoughts are you need to move on and enjoy life

Does not matter if one waits 1 day or 16 years each person is different and will be with another when the time is right for each one. They will know how long it takes for each in order to hb able to move on.

Sorry, I was just bein a azz...


I didn't go...

well well then

get over here and bend over my knee

Best way to get over one man is to get under another

Seriously. I need time to re-think myself and that relationship so I don't make the same mistake twice. Depends on the relationship of how fast I jump back in the pool....could take a week, a month, a year or longer....

Mistake Baby! Sometimes U did not make a mistake. The person CHANGE in flight. And you get STUCK WITH a different person.

that they changed to

I think people should enjoy their own company and LIVE.To many people need a partner to feel validated.I am content alone or in a relationship.I would like a man in my life but I am not going to rush to get involved.

Well Cutey, I believe when the Manufacturer (the Almighty) DISCOVERED, that it is NOT good for man (Humans)to be alone, so he MADE a help meet (one like him but fe-male, to help him)So He further found out and instructed: "Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother and stick unto his woman."

It means in English: "It is BAD for for Humans TO BE LONELY." Some will go CRAZY, some will die from grief. Some will be irritable all the time, some will be unhappy and some will TRY to cope UNTIL they get a MATE.