Topic: C’mon Minglers, give it up!!!
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Fri 03/29/13 04:29 AM
EVERY SINGLE PERSON IS ALWAYS HIDING SOMETHING FROM THEIR MATE...MY QUESTION IS WHY????


Because every single person is a human being and human beings are not perfect—they have flaws, quirks, problems, issues, you name it. An imperfect creature is going to have some imperfect traits. That's just the way it is and it's never going to be different.

You can't know everything about a person no matter how long you've been with them. There are no guarantees in love, life or anything for that matter, except for God. So if you're putting your trust in Him you have an advantage over the unknown—unless, of course, He shows you something and you go ahead and do it anyway.

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Fri 03/29/13 04:59 AM


I have found my other half on this site when it was JSH. There are some really nice and good people here, but then there are some really bad ones as well. If you read a profile that says "I am incompatible", then there is a REASON. Just be super careful and dont rush things. Everything works out in the end.


hi fineporcelain, I'm not sure if we've met before, but, it's nice to make your acquaintance. That is really good news that you found true love... and I fully believe in the power of slow motion too...


Hello sweetie, it's nice to meet you as well. I am an oldie that just shows up now and then, you know, like that unwanted relative...lol

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Fri 03/29/13 05:02 AM

Any sexy singles in va beach?



How about you go back up to the welcome section and try again? I might not be a regular here anymore, but I know for a fact that these are ladies here and they do not respond to this. The young and dumb might, but the real ladies will not. Nothing personal.

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Fri 03/29/13 05:43 AM



I have found my other half on this site when it was JSH. There are some really nice and good people here, but then there are some really bad ones as well. If you read a profile that says "I am incompatible", then there is a REASON. Just be super careful and dont rush things. Everything works out in the end.


hi fineporcelain, I'm not sure if we've met before, but, it's nice to make your acquaintance. That is really good news that you found true love... and I fully believe in the power of slow motion too...


Hello sweetie, it's nice to meet you as well. I am an oldie that just shows up now and then, you know, like that unwanted relative...lol


I hardly think your presence is ever unwanted... flowers

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Fri 03/29/13 05:47 AM


Any sexy singles in va beach?



How about you go back up to the welcome section and try again? I might not be a regular here anymore, but I know for a fact that these are ladies here and they do not respond to this. The young and dumb might, but the real ladies will not. Nothing personal.


Thank you for addressing this, fineporcelain... I wasn't sure what... I know now to refer these types of posts to the welcome section. Again, thank you... flowerforyou

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Fri 03/29/13 06:06 AM
Well i have pictures to backup who i am and what i look like :) There are some very attractive people around me, but good luck getting a response email.

If i finally did get out to meet one of these people and they aren't what they say they are then they can find a new guy because i won't be interested.

I guess they don't understand what a relationship is. You don't ever lie to your partner or potential partner. You can't build a relationship on distrust.

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Fri 03/29/13 06:17 AM

Well i have pictures to backup who i am and what i look like :) There are some very attractive people around me, but good luck getting a response email.

If i finally did get out to meet one of these people and they aren't what they say they are then they can find a new guy because i won't be interested.

I guess they don't understand what a relationship is. You don't ever lie to your partner or potential partner. You can't build a relationship on distrust.


she probably only wanted you for your car - nice wheelsflowerforyou

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Fri 03/29/13 06:30 AM

Well i have pictures to backup who i am and what i look like :) There are some very attractive people around me, but good luck getting a response email.

If i finally did get out to meet one of these people and they aren't what they say they are then they can find a new guy because i won't be interested.

I guess they don't understand what a relationship is. You don't ever lie to your partner or potential partner. You can't build a relationship on distrust.


Exactly... forget "building", you can't even "begin a real relationship" that's based on fiction of any kind...

and I also agree that when people try to use trickery to get what they want, they obviously don't understand what a "relationship" between two hearts and minds really is... so they lose out completely...

but, perhaps they are posing just to rip people off in some way, rather than to get too close to them...

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Fri 03/29/13 09:43 AM





I don’t understand...if they’re fake, then who is typing the messages they send me? what


Seriously though, I have to assume that I’m not the only person here who doesn’t pretend to be someone else, want to be someone else, or ACTUALLY BELIEVES noway they are someone else.

think Coincidentally, that’s the same response I give when asked if I believe in aliens. The fact that we exist ourselves is the very concept that makes life on other planets probable.

Well that’s just GREAT! grumble Now instead of thinking that only half of you are fake, now I'm wondering if thethe other half areare aliens!slaphead




lmao if im either of those ill eat my underwear
There are underware eaters here too! :tongue: laugh


You asked who writes the messages; I'll mention one place that I tracked down and found it was a factory operation that is still churning out fake people, profiles, emails, fake disaster stories asking for money all over the world by internet dating sites, and at times money,; cash, cheques, cashier cheques,direct wire transfers and even clothes, like fur coats and jewelry are dropped off to this place. I was living in Munich and met a Russian girl; she was absolutely lovely. Russian isn't far from Germany by plane or train. I had several good Russian friends and so I made some inquiries. She was in the town that she said she lived in only the address turned out to be a well known large scam operation in Ilushta, located in the Crimea. They had about 30 to 50 women in shifts on every dating site in the world. They also worked with a local photography studio and a few others in other towns to provide photos for their 'girls' on their profiles. Mine turned out to be 78 years old; widow of a farmer that paid her a percentage of what she brought in. She had a small flat and could not make ends meet with her pension, Her neighbor ran a local brothel in which she also worked as a cleaner. Nearly all spoke several languages fluently and kept huge files on all major cities around the world complete with lists of bars and clubs; anything that would round out he profile address of a city.
Alushta was a nice little town, full of crooks, whores; poverty and the elderly. It was / is also a summer resort on the Black Sea, known for all its totally nude beaches, in fact the entire Crimea, come summer basically goes nude it gets so hot...happy


Wow! Thanks for sharing this Traumer.. it's definitely an eye opener... also makes one think more seriously about who we may be interacting with unawares... spooky...


And I was only joking! GOOD GRIEF! tears frustrated rant :angry: explode Oh well...indifferent

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Fri 03/29/13 12:08 PM






I don’t understand...if they’re fake, then who is typing the messages they send me? what


Seriously though, I have to assume that I’m not the only person here who doesn’t pretend to be someone else, want to be someone else, or ACTUALLY BELIEVES noway they are someone else.

think Coincidentally, that’s the same response I give when asked if I believe in aliens. The fact that we exist ourselves is the very concept that makes life on other planets probable.

Well that’s just GREAT! grumble Now instead of thinking that only half of you are fake, now I'm wondering if thethe other half areare aliens!slaphead




lmao if im either of those ill eat my underwear
There are underware eaters here too! :tongue: laugh


You asked who writes the messages; I'll mention one place that I tracked down and found it was a factory operation that is still churning out fake people, profiles, emails, fake disaster stories asking for money all over the world by internet dating sites, and at times money,; cash, cheques, cashier cheques,direct wire transfers and even clothes, like fur coats and jewelry are dropped off to this place. I was living in Munich and met a Russian girl; she was absolutely lovely. Russian isn't far from Germany by plane or train. I had several good Russian friends and so I made some inquiries. She was in the town that she said she lived in only the address turned out to be a well known large scam operation in Ilushta, located in the Crimea. They had about 30 to 50 women in shifts on every dating site in the world. They also worked with a local photography studio and a few others in other towns to provide photos for their 'girls' on their profiles. Mine turned out to be 78 years old; widow of a farmer that paid her a percentage of what she brought in. She had a small flat and could not make ends meet with her pension, Her neighbor ran a local brothel in which she also worked as a cleaner. Nearly all spoke several languages fluently and kept huge files on all major cities around the world complete with lists of bars and clubs; anything that would round out he profile address of a city.
Alushta was a nice little town, full of crooks, whores; poverty and the elderly. It was / is also a summer resort on the Black Sea, known for all its totally nude beaches, in fact the entire Crimea, come summer basically goes nude it gets so hot...happy


Wow! Thanks for sharing this Traumer.. it's definitely an eye opener... also makes one think more seriously about who we may be interacting with unawares... spooky...


And I was only joking! GOOD GRIEF! tears frustrated rant :angry: explode Oh well...indifferent


laugh you're just too darn cute... :thumbsup:

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Sat 03/30/13 07:53 PM
Ah the scammers......I must have a sign on my profiles on several different dating sites i have tried that says *pick me*.
And guys I think are real and send a contact to never bother to get back to me even to say no thanks what
maybe my profile looks like a scammers????

I have a finely tuned radar for most scammers now....had one with atrocious grammar who's profession was "architectural" now i think an american guy would know his profession. oops

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Sat 03/30/13 08:18 PM

you're just too darn cute... :thumbsup:


I'll second that :)

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Sat 03/30/13 10:04 PM



How about you go back up to the welcome section and try again? I might not be a regular here anymore, but I know for a fact that these are ladies here and they do not respond to this. The young and dumb might, but the real ladies will not. Nothing personal.


Now this is a very welcome compliment. Happy Easter, btw. The best compliment I've had in years :)

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Sun 03/31/13 05:07 AM
Are you talking to me?

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Sun 03/31/13 05:12 AM




How about you go back up to the welcome section and try again? I might not be a regular here anymore, but I know for a fact that these are ladies here and they do not respond to this. The young and dumb might, but the real ladies will not. Nothing personal.


Now this is a very welcome compliment. Happy Easter, btw. The best compliment I've had in years :)


Happy Easter to you too, Rawrr_Girl...flowerforyou and I agree with you about the "real ladies" compliment.... cool... :thumbsup:

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Sun 03/31/13 05:16 AM

Ah the scammers......I must have a sign on my profiles on several different dating sites i have tried that says *pick me*.
And guys I think are real and send a contact to never bother to get back to me even to say no thanks what
maybe my profile looks like a scammers????

I have a finely tuned radar for most scammers now....had one with atrocious grammar who's profession was "architectural" now i think an american guy would know his profession. oops



Welcome to Mingle, womaninperth... I'm with you on the finely tuned radar when it comes to scammers... they are so plentiful and predictable...

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Sun 03/31/13 05:17 AM

Are you talking to me?


Sorry... is "who" talking to you??

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Sun 03/31/13 05:28 AM
I am just as slippery in real life, too.:smile:

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Sun 03/31/13 05:32 AM

I am just as slippery in real life, too.:smile:


biggrin Happy Easter, Trout...

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Sun 03/31/13 05:44 AM

Sorry... is "who" talking to you??


The person above me.