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Topic: LOVE or LUST?
Kahurangi's photo
Fri 02/01/13 03:43 AM
^^^^...what she said

When the honeymoon of lust has dissipated...love remains.

Or not.


OkiHeadDoctor's photo
Fri 02/01/13 04:06 AM
Edited by OkiHeadDoctor on Fri 02/01/13 04:07 AM
I STILL stand by my statement! When you are in lust, endorphins and other gooey gooey are flowing about. The same hormones are present when in love.

The other explanations work too since love means different things for different people - and we're all different.

Love = The mere thought of living, boating, sleeping, running, sitting, screwing, etc, without that person gives you serious pause. You're like, "what?" I couldn't do THAT without <insert target loved one here> stop that crazy talk...

msharmony's photo
Fri 02/01/13 06:11 AM

what makes you know if you are feeling inlove or just lust?


lust is usually accompanied by the constant thought of physical intercourse,,,,and receiving/having physical pleasure, its more of a 'what I want to have',,,thing

love is usually accompanied by a desire to make another happy, spend quality time with another, regardless of whether intercourse happens or not..its more of a 'what I want to GIVE'...thing

Zimzane2's photo
Fri 02/01/13 07:11 AM
Love your lover sincerely in the lust.laugh

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 02/01/13 10:25 AM
My attraction goes beyond the Physical.

oldhippie1952's photo
Fri 02/01/13 10:43 AM
If I love her, I don't want sex right away. If it's lust, I can hardly wait to get her in the sack.

Taimane2012's photo
Fri 02/01/13 11:56 AM


what makes you know if you are feeling inlove or just lust?


lust is usually accompanied by the constant thought of physical intercourse,,,,and receiving/having physical pleasure, its more of a 'what I want to have',,,thing

love is usually accompanied by a desire to make another happy, spend quality time with another, regardless of whether intercourse happens or not..its more of a 'what I want to GIVE'...thing


Very well discribed! :) now for repentence! haha.. jk!

Solace84's photo
Fri 02/01/13 01:37 PM
When someone is in love,he/she can't explain why he/she is in love,but can sense the strong feelings. Lusting after someone is being attracted to someone cos of some physical attributes like beauty and sexy whatever.........if those attributes fizzule out, the lust infected feelings would take the exit door.

Solace84's photo
Fri 02/01/13 01:38 PM
When someone is in love,he/she can't explain why he/she is in love,but can sense the strong feelings. Lusting after someone is being attracted to someone cos of some physical attributes like beauty and sexy whatever.........if those attributes fizzule out, the lust infected feelings would take the exit door.

SimplicityAtItsBest's photo
Fri 02/01/13 02:57 PM

If I love her, I don't want sex right away. If it's lust, I can hardly wait to get her in the sack.



...Making a mental note of this...

happy

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 02/01/13 08:50 PM
love is usually accompanied by a desire to make another happy, spend quality time with another, regardless of whether intercourse happens or not..its more of a 'what I want to GIVE'...thing

Like the way it was with my late wife and me.
If only I had another lady to GIVE to . . .

ashryn's photo
Sat 02/02/13 05:02 AM


I get butterflies :)


The last time I had butterflies, it turned out to be just gas sad


LOL laugh laugh laugh

sshassan's photo
Sat 02/02/13 05:06 AM
both would be the perfect recipe

chas730's photo
Sat 02/02/13 01:20 PM
If you have to ask......it's lust.

Traumer's photo
Sat 02/02/13 10:03 PM

what makes you know if you are feeling inlove or just lust?



What it comes down to is that 'in love', you regard the other person as human with an identity and all the rest of it; in 'lust' simply means that the other is disposable...life is tough; wear a helmet.

whattheheywastaken's photo
Sun 02/03/13 01:24 AM
Lust: Right now.

Love: The rest of our lives.

no photo
Sun 02/03/13 01:49 AM
In my relationships I'm not sure the desire ever faded. Seems like when I'm in the real deal the lust (passion) only gets stronger. I have had times when I did the lust boo boo and realized we were just friends in lust but I think this is pretty easy to spot. I must also say though that love goes way beyond the physical and that lust can go way beyond the touch.

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