Ok, I have a problem, which I'm pretty sure I can't do anything about but I wanted to get some opinions. My ex best-friend/boyfriend's daughter called me just now. Long story short, we were best friends, started a relationship after my husband and I split up, he broke up with me for a new woman a few months ago (psycho biotch from hell or pbfh) (it's much more complicated than that, but you get the gist). She's very jealous, controlling, etc. Anyway, we hardly ever talk anymore but he did call on Thursday to say hi. His new pbfh went through his call list on his cell phone and found out he called me, proceeded to drink a fifth of JD (according to his daughter), raise heck, I don't even know what is going. Daughter is 15, hysterical, scared to death. She called from her dad's phone and we got cut off. I tried to calm her down, told her to go lock herself in somewhere and suggested she call her mom. I've tried calling back but they're not answering. All I know is they're somewhere in North Carolina and I'm in Virginia and I feel so helpless right now. I don't have her cell phone number and can't find her mom's number.

I don't know what to do.

Easy! Say a prayer for them all.(God watches over children and fools) .....cut off the ex completely and move on with YOUR life.

she is right cut him off and if he keep doing this to u call the police

I can handle myself and I can handle the psycho ex, but what I'm worried sick about is his daughter, she's only 15 and certainly doesn't need to get dragged into the middle. I've distanced myself and they live in another state and I know there's nothing I can do for her now but what I've done, but, I still feel terrible. I'm not responsible, of course, it's his problem to deal with and he's made his choices and now has to live with the consequences but it just seems terrible to me to make her live with them as well.

its not you its him..........

I know that. And, I guess I was so upset before, I didn't really make myself clear. My relationship with him is over, it was really over from the beginning, for a lot of reasons. But, I do really care about his daughter and I just wish I knew that she was ok. I know the new girlfriend's gunning for me but people like her, no big deal, I just don't get involved in other people's drama. She's a drunk, she's insane and she's not my problem. But, I have a hard time with dragging kids in, I went through this as a kid with my mom and I really hate seeing her go through this.

Which is why my son won't ever meet anyone I'm dating until I'm damn sure I'm going to be with that person forever and that he'd be good for and with my son and if my son didn't like him, well, my son comes first, at least until he's of age and moved out.

BTW, doc, it seems my manners have left me for the moment, thank you!