I was thinking, it's hard finding the right person. So i want to find a way to start a connection. For example i'm from Gatneau quebec. you view my profile, but your not interested, so normally you move on. I wanna change that mentality. Maybe i dont apply to you, but maybe you have a family member who is single that does? A friend or co-worker? Id like us to start a thread here with the city, and what we want. And i want us thinking of people we know that can find love, and get them registered here. In essence im trying to increase everyones chances, and telling people to set us up with others, if we arent for you. Just an idea.

Im male, 33, gatineau quebec, looking long term. know anyone who might be interested? set us up!

I don't mean to be rude but you almost sound desperate and needy. JMO

I just made a few friends here and I already have a interest in someone. Problem is he doesnt know it. And, I am not given him away
to anyone Yet.

Hi Ddupuis..Welcome to Mingle!

I think that sounds like a great plan and a good way to meet people in your area...Did you know you can add your specific area to your forum settings and start a thread for people in your area? If you have not set this up yet, when you do, you may find some Canadian threads have already been started!....To customize your forum settings, click on account, settings, forum settings, check the box marked regional, click on "add more regions", find your area and add it! DON'T FORGET TO SAVE CHANGES IF IT ASKS FOR THAT

I wish you luck, love, and happiness!

desprate? no no, its to help everyone, doesent have to benifit just me. im glad its your opinion, and i respect that, but im sorry your wrong. And to toodygirl, i said if you werent interested in said person. wow nevermind i said anything. i got a judgemental answer from 1 person, and a defensive answer from somone else who missed my point. must have been a bad idea, or im a too good a person. was just trying to help. nevermind, carry on.... lol WOW

thanks leigh, no i didnt know. im sure that willl help a lot of newcomers

How is that desperate? Let the guy try what he wants.

You said "Love Connection" and I was waiting for Chuck Woolery to come out.

You mean that he isn't?

I used to like that show!

Better to stay love connected

Lol godbless

I never said he couldn't try what he wants. I just misunderstood his post. My bad.

Sorry about that. I misunderstood what you were saying. I thought you meant that you wanted us to help you find someone for you and that you wanted us to ask a family member, co-worker, etc. I just read it wrong and for that I do apologize.

lol no i dont need help for myself. im not perfect but im a damn good guy. someone will notice. IF i did ask all of you just to help me, then ya that would be lame. lol but rest assured, i dont need help loving others. if i can love on my own, i can find love on my own. im good looking (at least i think) im nice, caring considerate, funny. all i need help with is removing the negitive thoughts around me. im working on that. sorry i snapped at you :

No worries and I deserved it as I said something very inappropriate. You know something though; I believe you when you say you don't need help loving others. I find it hard to believe that you have a negative attitude though as that is not what comes across on this thread. If anyone is negative about love; it would be me but I have had years of disappointment and being rejected. Suppose there are worse things in life than not being loved. Hoping the best for you.

I agree!
However, I am not a matchmake online or off, so this still wouldnt be a good idea. IMO

come on ladies. are you kidding? you know something I wrote a post a while back saying I was depressed found it hard to believe in myself blah blah, and you people in these forums are who helped me get out of it. now Im ready, to be the best I can be, and make someone special happy. and all I did was say, well lets help each other, and you guys are saying well Ive had bad luck I cant find someone, or I can't give advice on love. I see a lot of good people here, that believe in others, but not themselves. Thats ok I get it, I felt that way. But maybe it's time, so stop feeling sorry for bad experiences, ourselves, fate, fear,and just go for it. Now your gonna say yea well I could get hurt. Yep, you could. But can you honestly say being alone right now is not hurtful? Your here for a reason. Ok let's assume you do get hurt in a year, or 2 even. 2 years of happiness is worth 2 months of hurt no? Im just saying Im done, your all worth it. Its scary. But dont give up. Cause if you do Ill find you. then youll have to deal with me, lol and you dont want that. LOL WE WILL FIND LOVE TOGETHER. all of us. some will be faster than others. in the mean time Im here, if any of you wanna talk, even privately mail me.if your shy. Now that Im tackling life, im ready to help, as I was helped.

You know I have all the love in the world from my friends and family; so no I don't feel alone; I feel blessed.