Topic: why go for love
paterafan's photo
Thu 08/24/06 09:36 PM
SHIT I FEEL THE SAME WAY IM SO TIRED ,IT REALY WEARS YOU DOWN AFTER BEIN
BURNED SO MANY TIMES,IM 30 NOW AND THE RIGHT ONE STILL HASNT COME ALONG
SO I HAVE ACCEPTED ITS NOT GOING TO,AND SEX IS SELDOM BUT I LIKE IT THAT
WAY

cooldud01's photo
Thu 08/24/06 09:52 PM
WOW! Danny you have turned out to be quite the chat master.confidence
man you got it!

moomoo64's photo
Thu 08/24/06 09:58 PM
good luck paterafan i have been married twice and i have been on my own
now for almost 3 years i am still looking for mr. right i would even
settle for mr. half right lol

no photo
Fri 08/25/06 02:15 PM
ya man cuz i ask the right shit and man im sayin why do shit to get
hurt why it make u feel like shit u dont want to do shit and at that
point in time u feel like everyone u like does not want to get to know
u see life sucks and every one knows it

paterafan's photo
Fri 08/25/06 04:49 PM
WELL ME PERSONALLY IVE NEVER TRIED TO CHANGE A MAN,I WOULD NEVER ALLOW
ANYONE TO DO THAT TO ME SO WHY BE THAT WAY YA KNOW??I BELEIVE IN GIVING
A GUY FREEDOM TO DO WHAT HE LOVES,BE WITH HIS BUDDYS ETC.NEVER BE WITH
ANYONE THAT HOLDS YOU FROM WHAT YOU LOVE TO DO! THATS WHY IM SINGLE

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Wed 08/30/06 05:55 AM
see thst is what i been tryin to say this hole time

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Wed 08/30/06 06:12 AM
life doesn't suck man..trust me, i never ever thought i would find
someone that i would love but when i did it was the most unbelievable
thing i have ever experienced. the relationship ended badly after a few
years but if i could go back in time and not do it cause i knew how it
ended i would still do it again. the fact that your still putting
yourself out there is a good thing too i mean you say it hurts but the
people that you are dating are getting the real you. there are alot of
people who are too scared to be hurt and them people are gonna have a
hard time finding true love so keep your head up man...it'll come.

paterafan's photo
Wed 08/30/06 11:08 AM
WHEN YOU GET TO BE MY AGE THO,YOU REALY HAFTO LAY YOUR OPTIONS ON THE
TABLE AND PUT THEM IN ORDER,LOVE IS LAST PRIORITY TO ME,YOU CAN SAY IVE
LOST FAITH IN IT CAUSE IT HAS NEVER BEEN A GOOD EXPERIENCE FOR ME,YES
WHEN I WAS IN LOVE,IT WAS GOOD BUT EACH TIME I WAS CUT FROM IT
SUDDENLY,SO IVE COME TO EXPECT TO BE BURNED.I GUESS THATS LIFE

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Wed 08/30/06 02:21 PM
but if you could go back and not do it(knowing how good it was)
just because it ended bad, would you?

paterafan's photo
Wed 08/30/06 03:02 PM
NO I WOULDNT DO IT OVER AGAIN....IF I KNEW AHEAD OF TIME HOW BAD IT WAS
GONNA HURT ME I WOULD HAVE NEVER DONE IT

lionsbrew's photo
Wed 08/30/06 03:04 PM
hell i think its always a learning experiance especially the bad ones

paterafan's photo
Wed 08/30/06 03:42 PM
YEAH I LEARNED NEVER TO GET CLOSE TO ANYONE,AS FAR AS ROMANCE GOES BUT
MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS KEEP ME GOING

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Wed 08/30/06 03:49 PM
so your not looking for dating here then just friends?

paterafan's photo
Wed 08/30/06 04:04 PM
YEAH JUST FRIENDS,I REALY DONT BELEIVE IN LOVE ANYMORE

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Wed 09/06/06 02:20 PM
see what i found out if u keep ur self goin and dont stop u wont give ur
self time to think about the fucked up shit that is what is workin with
me right now i just dont stop

paterafan's photo
Wed 09/06/06 03:00 PM
WELL LOVE IS A FOUR LETTER WORD...ITS ALL FUCKED UP AS FAR AS IM
CONCERNED

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Thu 09/07/06 09:46 AM
ya it is

FrankO's photo
Thu 09/07/06 09:51 AM
Sex is consumation of pure unadulterated committment and ought not be
taken lightly. When you have sex with someone on conscious and
subconscious levels, you imply security, safety, and refuge in your
arms. In those private moments, where it truly is making love, souls
connect to souls, flesh connects with flesh, and heart connects with
heart. Humans can delight in the sexual experience yes, but it is an
outward declaration of an inward committment. This is of course when you
have a partner you truly care about. If you are just sleeping around
then it is complete and total selfishness.

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Thu 09/07/06 09:53 AM
ya did the hole carein sex thing but that just gets thowin in ur face

FrankO's photo
Thu 09/07/06 09:54 AM
Then my friend you are in the wrong company on the relationship
level....