Why be lonely just because its Christmas eve? Its a day like any other.

I agree. I am not really into players, but if someone was interested in remaining mongamous but had a "colorful" history I'd be more interested that he is no longer in any type of relationship or regular contact with past partners

JT is a huggie bear....it's hard for huggie bears to be alone on Christmas. It is a day for many of us that is filled with reminiscence, celebration and time for family and close friends, and for many there is also religious significance. Jesus' birthday may have been in Sept. but we celebrate now (some kind of compromise made by the catholic church many centuries agoand some celtic winter festival I believe...) anyway, it's fine if it's just another day to some, but that is not the case for others

I think its mostly physcological about feeling lonely at Christmas. Of course all the hype on tv and department stores only add to make people feel they are missing out on something merely because of an arbitrary date picked for the birth of Christ. Actually; yes families do get together and most of them will end up fighting to the point of calling the police. You have relatives that will get drunk and ruin the day. Then the let down after the hype; and of course the mounting bills from the money you spent. To add to this; you don't even know if your job will be still be there after Christmas; so its nothing but stress. Personally; I always felt the most lonely in Spring time as that is the time people were out walking hand in hand, listening to the birds sing, and enjoying the sunshine. Now; its just a time for me to clean up my yard and get in some great cycling. Sorry if I seem a downer but I no longer see any joy in a holiday that is based on greed and glutenay.

I prefer a woman that's been around the block many times. These women have a better idea about what pleases a man in the bedroom. I see it as every lover in her past has been preparing her for me.

a huggie bear?really?

I was in a relationship where the girl wanted to know...so I told her my number. She quickly responds with hers which was two lower than what I stated mine was. Come to find out weeks later that she lied. Her number was higher, and the only reason she lowered hers was cause she felt I would judge her on the number. She came clean with the lie, but the thing was that she always preached how she was a straight shooter. To me, this was such an insignificant thing to lie about. I could care less about her past sexual partners. I just cared that she didn't have a disease and all.

Anyways, because of this incident, when asked about partners I just say that I am disease free and that I have had some sex. Lol.

This question always hits me as soooooh stupid.

If you have to a set quota of who, how many, and when especially how recently your next partner has gotten laid by then you are one) too controling for me; or two) too insecure; or three) just a voyer and I don't care to tell you so you can get your stuff off.

I have yet to hear a normal person enjoy hearing the details of their lover's previous love life wheather it is the details of an innocent first kiss to a violent criminal rape and anything in between.

True I really don't want to bed down with someone that has been with every hootchie in the book because I see that as deviant behavior and a health risk but it only takes exposure to one person to make a person a risk. I tend to take a lot from the person's behavior with me. If he is just busting his buttons to get in my britches I hardly think that is unique behavior to me alone so it is hard enticeing behavior.

I assume a potential mate has had sex and probably would not believe him if he tried to sell that balogne that women get told about how "looooong" it has been but I don't think most guys nail near as much as they want any of us to believe either.

It is just smart to be careful now days. Use protection and if someone does not care enough about you to get a check up well are you willing to bet your life on it? Not me.

I don't ask...cause I don't want to know! I prefer Not to be asked cause I don't want to say! I'm not embarrassed about anything or anyone Ive done but you never know what is considered" too many" for guys.

No, no and no.

I am interested in my partner's past as a whole because it has made him who he is today. But, the particulars and whether or not I would agree or disagree with any specific choices he made are not important to me. Our future together and the man he is now is all that matters.

It matters not at all to me. As long as they don't have an STD and are committed to me like I will be to them.