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Topic: What do you look for in a mate?
anoasis's photo
Thu 08/09/07 03:23 PM
Do you have a laundry list of charactoristics you would like or have you narrowed it down to just a few really important things?

theshotgunrule's photo
Thu 08/09/07 03:27 PM
They have to be conscious.

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Thu 08/09/07 03:27 PM

They have to be sober.

Johncenawlife316's photo
Thu 08/09/07 03:28 PM
if you mean as in a relationship ?.

Then well many a few things.

But mainly something in comment is a start.

Being able to laugh and have fun.

and enjoy one another company.

And who knows what else. but I guess that is a start.

theshotgunrule's photo
Thu 08/09/07 03:29 PM
Hey, I think I'm sober! love

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Thu 08/09/07 03:29 PM
I actually have two lists, a "Must Be" and a "Must Not." Neither is very long, but by combining them together, I can effectively eliminate 99.9999% of everybody in the world. That just leaves a few dozen Russian scammer girls, and that's really all I need at this point.


MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Thu 08/09/07 03:32 PM
laugh Lex...

At my age I guess my list is getting shorter...
Nah- they just have to be honest (and sober) :wink: .

stargazer448's photo
Thu 08/09/07 03:37 PM
My list is different.

honesty, respect, a job,

I think in todays world we judge to much and just go by attraction. Even if they're pretty on the outside they still have to maintain it and we all get old eventually.:wink:

creationsfire's photo
Thu 08/09/07 03:37 PM
Be sober
Honest
Loving (which encompasses a lot of things)
Accepting as I am
A realist

Don't cheat
Don't hit
Don't yell
Don't hurt
Don't do drugs!!!

efe's photo
Thu 08/09/07 03:39 PM
Emotionally stable for 1 :) Haha. I love you, I hate, I want to marry you, can we just be friends, etc. Someone who can make up their mind and not make people crazy in the process.

2) Attractive - To me at least. This could be physical or personality wise. Always good to have both

3) Honest.

4) positive - A complainer, no :). In other words, someone pretty good at making lemon juice! :D

Okay I'm done >:)

anoasis's photo
Thu 08/09/07 03:40 PM
Mrs.Bear, Bay and Shotgun: Way to get down to basics.

John: yes "mate" for me implys a relationship.

laugh Sorry to hear it Lex I hear those Russian chicks are mean.


CJBFromDa513's photo
Thu 08/09/07 03:41 PM
a MATE? what are we insects or somethin i look for more than just someone to breed with...lol:wink:

efe's photo
Thu 08/09/07 03:44 PM
One note though...

No one should have too long of a list. That's like hunting for some kind of perfection. Rules will be broken and what a lot of people forget about relationships is that people are people and will make mistakes. An important part of any relationship I think is the ability and willingness of both parties to work through each others shortcomings even when your lover and best friend stumbles.

Ps. As long as it doesn't degenerate into the "Same sh*t different day!" scenario!!! :)

anoasis's photo
Thu 08/09/07 03:53 PM
CJB: or we could move away from the procreative interpretation and think of a mate as a "soulmate".

creationsfire's photo
Fri 08/10/07 11:14 AM
WTF do I need? A mug shot?

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Fri 08/10/07 11:19 AM
You have a mug shot?

creationsfire's photo
Fri 08/10/07 11:38 AM
After I had my Student ID made the other day I can honestly say, without a doubt, YES!

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Fri 08/10/07 11:42 AM
someone who loves me even with all my faults...

someone who I am psychically attracted to....

Someone who has a job

Someone who is not lazy

Someone who doesnt mind that I am a terrible cook

Someone who knows how to cook

Someone who is not addicted to drugs etc

Someone who loves my child and cats as I do

Someone who knows that and accepts the fact that my cats are also my children

Someone who will drive my car for me in the snow and not make me feel bad because I am terrified of driving in the snow


Hmmmm I will think of more later...


:wink: laugh

carebear19622's photo
Fri 08/10/07 11:43 AM
someone exactly like Gypsy but with dogs instead of cats

laugh laugh

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Fri 08/10/07 11:47 AM
lol I like dogs too!!!!laugh laugh laugh They are just harder to take care of when you work the hours I do...:tongue:

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