Why is it that almost every single time Ï´ve told women that they´re gorgeous in the first message on online dating and mean it, I rarely get a response even when the message seems to be very good? Maybe I´m just new to this and more used to interacting in person.

because they don't give a **** if you find them attractive or not.

Try reading profiles first, then sending messages based on what caught your interest. Give the women something to respond to as well.

Aside from focusing on their appearance, also write about some other things from reading their profiles. I think a lot of guys on there don't really take time to read about what others write about themselves. For instance, I wrote on my page : "I don't really do nudges online, so just write me", but I still get tons of those everyday..

If you write something that shows them you actually take time to read their profile, and that youre interested in them not ONLY because of their look, I think you will get response without a problem.

Good luck.

perhaps because we know that so many of us cannot be georgeous. it gives away your emphasis on the physical and seems shallow - perhaps the women you have messaged do not wish to be valued primarily for what they look like- hey u asked, remember that


try a sincere attempt to get to know someone

Because we already know that ,Tell us something we don't know .

Because we have been told by 900 other men so it's kind of boring. Tell us something more interesting that you have observed about us.

Let's think about this a moment. You e-mail some woman and tell her she's gorgeous. What is she supposed to say in return? "Oh, I know, everyone says that"? "What's wrong with you, I'm not gorgeous"? Neither of those has much of a future as conversation, do they?

I suppose you'd like to hear, "Oh my, how sweet of you to say so, no one has ever told me that before. You're so gorgeous, too." Well, on the minuscule chance that would ever happen, you STILL don't have a conversation going.

Say something that has a future in it, and remember any woman who has been on here for any length of time has probably gotten a good number of insincere emails and nudges and whatnot from guys who only want sex.

Telling her something about yourself, and asking something about her, are the best ways to go.

Change up your presentation. Tell her how you think she smells! Be creative. All women like fruit so pick a fancy one. Don't use watermelon. For some reason, women don't like to be compared to watermelons.

I like a man to say, I'm gorgeous in a first message. Then I will take time to read his profile to see if he really interests Me. Then I will respond to whatever I feel.