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Topic: Not Interested
MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 11/30/12 05:25 PM Edited by MariahsFantasy on Fri 11/30/12 05:26 PM
How do you get a guy to stop being interested in you? I once told a guy I was a part of a doomsday call and he still came after me. Are there rules to this?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Fri 11/30/12 05:40 PM
Don't worry. Your troubles will be over on Doomsday.

Suzanne20 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 9261	Fri 11/30/12 05:45 PM
I just tell them I am not interested in sexting/cybering and that usually stops them.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 11/30/12 05:52 PM
How do you get a guy to stop being interested in you? I once told a guy I was a part of a doomsday call and he still came after me. Are there rules to this? yes repeat after me: "sir I am not interested, thank you."

laughsandgiggles Joined Sun 10/28/07 Posts: 3560	Fri 11/30/12 06:28 PM
Tell him you love him and want to get married tomorrow and have babies right away- the breeze will knock you down as he hauls azz! lol

Mannyyachts Joined Thu 11/29/12 Posts: 1	Fri 11/30/12 06:38 PM
Tell him you have a penis.

price211957 Joined Thu 10/06/11 Posts: 10	Fri 11/30/12 06:42 PM
hello laugh you told me that howbfast do you want me to move in

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Fri 11/30/12 06:44 PM
stalk him.

laughsandgiggles Joined Sun 10/28/07 Posts: 3560	Fri 11/30/12 07:01 PM
hello laugh you told me that howbfast do you want me to move in you talkin to me??? im too old to have babies!! lol Im just here for the buffet!! lol

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Fri 11/30/12 07:11 PM
How do you get a guy to stop being interested in you? I once told a guy I was a part of a doomsday call and he still came after me. Are there rules to this? be less hot.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 11/30/12 09:00 PM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Fri 11/30/12 09:04 PM
like this?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 11/30/12 09:10 PM
I let him know that I am not interested and move on.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Fri 11/30/12 09:38 PM
How do you get a guy to stop being interested in you? I once told a guy I was a part of a doomsday call and he still came after me. Are there rules to this? Well it depends on what you call interest, and who it is. Is this person going to be a good thing in your life; or bad? Or is it one of the people that is just there that can be given a little space and human dignity? Nothing wrong with trying to give people a little grace as long as you don't send out confuseing messages. No body wants "pity" attention or being played. If the person even gives you a whiff of a bad vibe though get serious about getting the message across NOT INTERESTED. Keep repeating it and if they keep coming get serious and use whatever force you need to protect yourself. Someone getting in your personal space uninvited or keeps coming when you tell them to stop then don't play around. If you keep finding yourself getting attention from people you don't want you may want to do a personal audit and see what you might be doing to give out signals that you want their attention.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sat 12/01/12 12:29 AM
Tell him you love him and want to get married tomorrow and have babies right away- the breeze will knock you down as he hauls azz! lol A sure fire response. He may find the underlying sarcasm a turn on still. But this usually works.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sat 12/01/12 12:30 AM
stalk him. A viable option.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sat 12/01/12 12:32 AM
How do you get a guy to stop being interested in you? I once told a guy I was a part of a doomsday call and he still came after me. Are there rules to this? be less hot. Oh stop! Seriously now.....you flatter me

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sat 12/01/12 12:40 AM
I just tell them I am not interested in sexting/cybering and that usually stops them. I think this good advice to todays teens.

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Sat 12/01/12 01:44 AM
I just tell them the truth...I am not interested and IF you keep bothering me, I am going to get mean about it. IF they keep calling I pick up the phone and just hang it back up with out saying a word. After a while they do get the hint. IF THEY CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH THAT YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED THEN YOU HAVE TO BE READY TO BE MEAN ABOUT IT!!!

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Sat 12/01/12 03:54 AM
I tell them that I'm not gay.

amaria90 Joined Thu 11/03/11 Posts: 2806	Sat 12/01/12 04:57 AM
How do you get a guy to stop being interested in you? I once told a guy I was a part of a doomsday call and he still came after me. Are there rules to this? Well it depends on what you call interest, and who it is. Is this person going to be a good thing in your life; or bad? Or is it one of the people that is just there that can be given a little space and human dignity? Nothing wrong with trying to give people a little grace as long as you don't send out confuseing messages. No body wants "pity" attention or being played. If the person even gives you a whiff of a bad vibe though get serious about getting the message across NOT INTERESTED. Keep repeating it and if they keep coming get serious and use whatever force you need to protect yourself. Someone getting in your personal space uninvited or keeps coming when you tell them to stop then don't play around. If you keep finding yourself getting attention from people you don't want you may want to do a personal audit and see what you might be doing to give out signals that you want their attention. I like this Idea best If that doesn't work... I ignore and eventually they get the message and stop permanently