As many have said we all have our own preference in things we do as well as those we choose to be with...I'm sure many would not think my preferences are the right ones. But.....then the way I see it I'm not making choices in my life for them! It is what it is when those that question me for my choices I just ask if they have none of their own they follow by in life... Maybe I will miss out on a few things in life due to my choices but then I'm the only one that has to deal with my choices in the end...

Again thank you all for such objective feedbacks ,
Happiness to you all !

Not that I'm suggesting date someone with low confidence, but at the same time, don't settle for someone who is so far up their own ***. Just settling for just anyone, isn't exactly a wise move. Humble people have very different behaviour traits to other types. I can normally spot it. If someone TELLS me that they're humble or whatever else they think I'm silly enough to buy, I'm never convinced enough. It shows through actions. If a cleaner looks like they're cleaning, they probably are. If someone just says they're a cleaner and not got any cleaning equipment with them, well then don't be so shocked that I wasn't buying it ;)