Topic: Dealing with pregnancy and trust problems. | |
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What exactly is the parenting issue in this thread? The issue is being a single parent now, unexpectedly, and wondering if you will always be a single parent because guys are weary of women with children. Actually, if she was never married to the father of her child, then her having a child may make her more attractive to some men. Some but in accordance with her post, she says, " all the men I have met, seem to have a problem with my pregnancy" She didn't say whether or not she was ever married to the father of her baby, and she doesn't have her marital status listed on her profile. |
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you had a man like me then you wont have worry bout being lied to cheating on
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i lost my son in the war, most man are dogs,but all i am going to said i will be back on my feet soon , when i do i would be gald to set up a 529 fund for your kid for college mine dead, i dont want anything, sound like you have a good heart you will fine a great guy one day but you have alot of frogs on the way, its going to take about 5 months to rebuild but i would like to do that for you whenn i back in action again,billy
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Edited by
PacificStar48
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Fri 11/30/12 10:11 PM
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i lost my son in the war, most man are dogs,but all i am going to said i will be back on my feet soon , when i do i would be gald to set up a 529 fund for your kid for college mine dead, i dont want anything, sound like you have a good heart you will fine a great guy one day but you have alot of frogs on the way, its going to take about 5 months to rebuild but i would like to do that for you whenn i back in action again,billy Yea and if she believes this you have some Brooklynn Bridge property you will give her too; Right? People displace by natural disasters recieve assistance from numerous resources. Does it mean it is glamourous recovering from Sandy or anyother situation like this ? No but useing a natural disaster for sympathy when you had enough resources to go somewhere else was your choice. You could have stayed and worked with in the systems there. Thousands are. You are in a tough spot young lady and advertiseing it on line you are painting a great big red bulls eye on your back for every wolf on the planet earth to drool about getting your identity or worse. BE CAREFUL! |
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If I was you, right now I would just worry about having your child and not worry about men. You will find out after your child is born that it takes a lot of your time to raise your son and you are going to enjoy spending time with him.
Men always have this way of lying and saying they will be there for you, there is one person you can always count on and that is yourself. YOU will be number one for your child so focus on your baby and don't worry about finding a man right now. You have plenty of time to find Mr. Right and fall in love and get married. Enjoy being a mom, time really does go fast!!! ENJOY AND CONGRATS!!!! |
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There is a train of thought that you don't generally know what you want with in a year of a huge life transition and I would say having a child is an excellent example of this.
I know it has to be tough having a child alone. But it would be soooooooh much worse to have a relationship tank out from underneath you when somewhere down the line your and your baby have your life fall apart because he doesn't have a clue what he is getting into because one or both of you are so "romantic" about what being pregnant and you try to make a relationship work because it sounds like a solution to a problem rather than be something that is on it's own the real deal. Give yourself a year to get your feet under you on this "Mom" relationship a good guy will not dissappear if you are "the one" and vice versa. |
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What exactly is the parenting issue in this thread? The issue is being a single parent now, unexpectedly, and wondering if you will always be a single parent because guys are weary of women with children. Actually, if she was never married to the father of her child, then her having a child may make her more attractive to some men. Some but in accordance with her post, she says, " all the men I have met, seem to have a problem with my pregnancy" She didn't say whether or not she was ever married to the father of her baby, and she doesn't have her marital status listed on her profile. Regardless she is having trust issues with men, because she got pregnant and he left her. Now she is left to raise the baby on her own and wonders if any guys will want her being a "mom" it really has nothing to do with a "certificate" labeled as a commitment. Many people have ceremonies and some don't. |
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Hey guys I'm 19 and still pregnant. Can anyone tell me does it get easier for a woman to trust men after being heartbroken, lied to, cheated on and everything else all throughout my life. All the guys i seem to like have a problem with my pregnancy and having a child to someone else. Does it change once bub is born? I'm lost Yup, your BS meter will get better with time :) I promise. Hell your still a baby yourself! |
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