R u SERIOUS your shocked I know what an upgrade is? Girl you need to get smarter friends! It doesn't take a genious to figure how to navigate this or any site for that matter! Also you've been on this site for how long??? Haven't found "the one" yet or just looking for a "casual encounter"? I'm sorry honey ... 5 yrs ???? Wow that's sad.
Oh and if your going to comment on something that I post please don't talk " dating site lingo" remember your talking to an educated woman who's "new "to this Internet dating so speak to me in plain old English. All I wanted was a answer to my question, not some catty group of girls who use the Internet to talk ish to other females no do that in person. I may look sweet but trust me I don't play well with catty little girls.