Why does having nobody hurts us but loving someone also hurts?

Just knowing how we are all taught that when it all said and done, the end of the rainbow should be a pot of love for someone or for you. In persuing this mind set, some of us are going too end up gravitating tward what we would call oposites. Remeber oposites atract. That should say enough. Think about it, and from this aproach too any relationship, to be oposites is just aking for LOVE THAT HURT. On the other spectrum where being alone bring on that other ALONE LOVE HURT, comes from being taught too fast too seek the love of others verses seeking the love of self first. Too help us identify others ones with the same love we have for ourselves. Oh yes there is more than one LOVE. REAL OR MEMOREX LOVE. We have a thing for the memorex love in people. Last but not least. Our ways blow the whole concept of love. which could cause us too wake up one day too realize were abusing each other and ourseles in the name of love. Our way,, I don't know if you're christian or any religion, I tell you my heavenly father way is a more exellant way. Even his love. If we stick too that concept alone his way we would be good with someone or not with this thing called love. Thewind2 Keeping it real

Because you allow it.