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Topic: why is it so hard to fine love?!
londrino22 Joined Sun 10/07/12 Posts: 1	Fri 10/19/12 06:55 AM
I understand, had the same happen to me, was in a very long long time relationship. We just have to take it one day a time.

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Fri 10/19/12 07:16 AM
It happens we learn and grow from it.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Fri 10/19/12 02:28 PM
It's not hard to find love , hard to find REAL love

Precious-Man Joined Thu 10/13/11 Posts: 88	Sat 10/20/12 12:30 PM
Thinking all the good ones are taken... OH NOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! THERE ARE STILL GOOD GUYS AROUND, LIKE MYSELF.

Precious-Man Joined Thu 10/13/11 Posts: 88	Sat 10/20/12 12:32 PM
DON'T WORRY BE HAPPY!!!!! AND AT IT PERFECT TIME ALL THINGS WORK TOGETHER FOR GOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Sat 10/20/12 02:58 PM Edited by wux on Sat 10/20/12 03:09 PM
It hurts and scars us and its so hard to find but when you do its truly paradise on earth!!! Well... I, personally, would not go that far. If I needed to classify the feeling, I'd say it's "pretty good". To me paradise on earth would be debt free, not having to go to a mindless job, and having money to enjoy life. Love isn't all that important to me. According to this, I live in paradise. Well, paradise is not all it's cracked up to be, folks. But on the upside I don't have to got work every day in blood-soaked clothes after my creditors shake my body bloody. Heck, I never knew I had it so good. That's why my opinion: paradise is not where it's at.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Sat 10/20/12 03:01 PM
It hurts and scars us and its so hard to find but when you do its truly paradise on earth!!! Well... I, personally, would not go that far. If I needed to classify the feeling, I'd say it's "pretty good". To me paradise on earth would be debt free, not having to go to a mindless job, and having money to enjoy life. Love isn't all that important to me. You mean: "If I was richer, I'd still be witcha? Man ain't that some **- Oh **! She's a gold-digger, just thought you should know... I guess he's an X-box and I'm more Atari... Nobody under 40 even _knows_ what you talk about when you say Atari.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Sat 10/20/12 03:06 PM
Well let's see... I was once in love back in college. I was in a relationship with her for about 3 months. At some point, she broke up with me with the lame 'I was too good for her' excuse. Granted, her last boyfriend before me had a dad that would smuggle drugs into the country, but still a lame reason to break up with someone. To you it may sound lame... to break up with that line, but to most of us it's boiler plate... you know, that they stamp on an outgoing item from a factory, like warning labels of mattresses: stating the obvious, "you should not take this arsenic-based rat poison internally" and such. I am not being jaded (just for once), it is a deeply felt wisdom I am imbuing you with.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Sat 10/20/12 03:07 PM
I understand, had the same happen to me, was in a very long long time relationship. We just have to take it one day a time. Erm... what about two days at a time. Much more time efficient.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Sat 10/20/12 03:08 PM
It's not hard to find love , hard to find REAL love Ya kiddin? I can't find even sex, let alone real love. In this g-dforaken town I can't find even a hooker, or even a used and discarded condom. I'm done with, I'd say. Over and out, 10-four. Roger.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Sat 10/20/12 11:21 PM
It's not hard to find love , hard to find REAL love Ya kiddin? I can't find even sex, let alone real love. In this g-dforaken town I can't find even a hooker, or even a used and discarded condom. I'm done with, I'd say. Over and out, 10-four. Roger. You see? my point exactly! LOL

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sun 10/21/12 12:40 PM
It hurts and scars us and its so hard to find but when you do its truly paradise on earth!!! Well... I, personally, would not go that far. If I needed to classify the feeling, I'd say it's "pretty good". To me paradise on earth would be debt free, not having to go to a mindless job, and having money to enjoy life. Love isn't all that important to me. According to this, I live in paradise. Well, paradise is not all it's cracked up to be, folks. But on the upside I don't have to got work every day in blood-soaked clothes after my creditors shake my body bloody. Heck, I never knew I had it so good. That's why my opinion: paradise is not where it's at. I guess to each his/her own. That would be paradise to me. To do what ever I wanted to and not have to waste me day at work. I could persue my music, persue my costume making, persue my theatrical make up, catch up on reading, go back to school, put in more times for my work outs, not be tired from my volunteer work. So much to do but that stinking job gets in the way. I also found a partner gets in the way too. I see my friends have the life sucked out of them because of love and relationships. They truly don't seem as happy as when they were single. Its almost as though they no longer can have fun because of the person they are dating. I found that too when I was in a relationship. Felt more like a child answering to daddy when I had a boyfriend. It truly sucked.

k931 Joined Mon 09/17/12 Posts: 1	Sun 10/21/12 04:59 PM
some times its quite hard to find love,may be because now heartbrokers are every where...but one day everyone will get there love,,

SimplicityAtItsBest Joined Mon 09/10/12 Posts: 960	Mon 10/22/12 12:51 PM
some times its quite hard to find love,may be because now heartbrokers are every where...but one day everyone will get there love,, I hear ya... I also know the secret on how to spot those heartbreakers.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Mon 10/22/12 12:53 PM
some times its quite hard to find love,may be because now heartbrokers are every where...but one day everyone will get there love,, I hear ya... I also know the secret on how to spot those heartbreakers. Just send $29.95.

SimplicityAtItsBest Joined Mon 09/10/12 Posts: 960	Mon 10/22/12 12:54 PM
some times its quite hard to find love,may be because now heartbrokers are every where...but one day everyone will get there love,, I hear ya... I also know the secret on how to spot those heartbreakers. Just send $29.95. Hah! Can't tag a price on secrets like that.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Mon 10/22/12 12:59 PM
some times its quite hard to find love,may be because now heartbrokers are every where...but one day everyone will get there love,, I hear ya... I also know the secret on how to spot those heartbreakers. Just send $29.95. Hah! Can't tag a price on secrets like that.

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Mon 10/22/12 02:31 PM
You all just need to stop stealing each other's Pretzels and Peanut Butter. Then you and your previous lover would have worked together in harmony. Asone. But noooooooooo. The s*** always ends up hitting the fan ;)