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Topic: Taking Chances
PacificStar48's photo
Tue 10/02/12 08:45 AM
I am the typical Irish gift for gab type gal that can chat with almost anyone. Will be the hostess and try to see everyone is having a great time at any party or place I go to.

Well except when I really am super attracted to someone then I do a lot of chokeing and crushing from afar. I may screw up my courage for one subtle pass but if the guy is too shy to pick up on the signal and ask for that all important first date that says "Yea I dig you too" well we usually end up in the friend zone and I let my feelings fade.

Frusterateing because I have several friends that given a chance would have probably ended up treating like Kings and surpriseing the heck out of once the "romance" thing kick in to gear.

I really believe that a good percentage of the Mingler's that are thinking themself "Terminally Single" just need to streach a little and reach out and grab the brass ring so to speak.

navygirl's photo
Tue 10/02/12 03:53 PM
Edited by navygirl on Tue 10/02/12 03:54 PM

Do you put yourself out their by messaging or approaching someone you are possibly interested in? Or do you just wait in your safety bubble?

I use to be a bubble girl but I'm slowly venturing outside my comfort zone and sending emails or occasionally approaching someone.



Me, I have never been a bubble girl; always sent messages out to guys but they never answered; so I got the hint. Yes; I approached guys too but they were never interested. Not losing any sleep over it though. bigsmile

wux's photo
Tue 10/02/12 03:56 PM


Do you put yourself out their by messaging or approaching someone you are possibly interested in? Or do you just wait in your safety bubble?

I use to be a bubble girl but I'm slowly venturing outside my comfort zone and sending emails or occasionally approaching someone.



Me, I have never been a bubble girl; always sent messages out to guys but they never answered; so I got the hint. Yes; I approached guys too but they were never interested. Not losing any sleep over it though. bigsmile


Everybody wants to bargain their life or their body "up". I am the same way. It's human nature.

But it sure results in a big number of rejections or ignoring the advances.

navygirl's photo
Tue 10/02/12 03:56 PM



Do you put yourself out their by messaging or approaching someone you are possibly interested in? Or do you just wait in your safety bubble?

I use to be a bubble girl but I'm slowly venturing outside my comfort zone and sending emails or occasionally approaching someone.



Me, I have never been a bubble girl; always sent messages out to guys but they never answered; so I got the hint. Yes; I approached guys too but they were never interested. Not losing any sleep over it though. bigsmile


Everybody wants to bargain their life or their body "up". I am the same way. It's human nature.

But it sure results in a big number of rejections or ignoring the advances.


Yes, this is so true.

wux's photo
Tue 10/02/12 04:50 PM




Do you put yourself out their by messaging or approaching someone you are possibly interested in? Or do you just wait in your safety bubble?

I use to be a bubble girl but I'm slowly venturing outside my comfort zone and sending emails or occasionally approaching someone.



Me, I have never been a bubble girl; always sent messages out to guys but they never answered; so I got the hint. Yes; I approached guys too but they were never interested. Not losing any sleep over it though. bigsmile


Everybody wants to bargain their life or their body "up". I am the same way. It's human nature.

But it sure results in a big number of rejections or ignoring the advances.


Yes, this is so true.


Wanna get married, beautiful? You are the first in a very-very long time who agrees with me so seamlessly and without putting up a fight first.

In fact, I can see us make love any time I want to, if the trend continues. Please, no more frequently -- that would be pushing the buck.


BTW, I meant this offer seriously, but I have to rescind said offer, and therefore I officially rescind it, out of consideration to habit and to my fear of the great unknown.

jacktrades's photo
Tue 10/02/12 05:03 PM
Im more braver when I know they don't live near me. I uaually do not make the first move. But I gotta admit that message about the jugs sounds good

navygirl's photo
Tue 10/02/12 05:42 PM





Do you put yourself out their by messaging or approaching someone you are possibly interested in? Or do you just wait in your safety bubble?

I use to be a bubble girl but I'm slowly venturing outside my comfort zone and sending emails or occasionally approaching someone.



Me, I have never been a bubble girl; always sent messages out to guys but they never answered; so I got the hint. Yes; I approached guys too but they were never interested. Not losing any sleep over it though. bigsmile


Everybody wants to bargain their life or their body "up". I am the same way. It's human nature.

But it sure results in a big number of rejections or ignoring the advances.


Yes, this is so true.


Wanna get married, beautiful? You are the first in a very-very long time who agrees with me so seamlessly and without putting up a fight first.

In fact, I can see us make love any time I want to, if the trend continues. Please, no more frequently -- that would be pushing the buck.

BTW, I meant this offer seriously, but I have to rescind said offer, and therefore I officially rescind it, out of consideration to habit and to my fear of the great unknown.


Aww; I have been dumped again. I seldom fight about much as I think people get upset over the dumbest things. I think as long as no one died or got hurt; what is the deal? As for making love; I never turn that down and I usually keep aspirin by my beside just in case the guy has a headache. laugh

new_to_markle_IN's photo
Thu 10/04/12 11:54 AM
Normally stay in my own little bubble, trying to change that though just like you. So far so good......

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