Topic: Perving your account
Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Thu 09/13/12 10:58 AM
hahah perving an i made a new friend

navygirl's photo
Thu 09/13/12 12:28 PM

Ok. So another member showed me her account and I now realize that each time I went to your profile, there was a notification sent to you. EACH time Lol. blushing That's not good. I go back a lot to read what you wrote in your profiles. So here is my apology.

Then I found out you get notified if I put you in favorites. flowerforyou I put like a ton in there to look at profiles later. Well you are all special ladies.

So I am here wandering how bad this is for you gals. Just an FYI. I get one or two
Views of my profile a day. That's all. I know it veries but you gals usually get more than that.

I would like to know how bad does it get? Don't out anybody here but inform us relatively new people what is proper. And you can out me. I don't care. Who did I perv out there. :banana:


You can perv me anytime. I get lots of views from guys in their 20s and 30s but I usually just delete them.

msharmony's photo
Thu 09/13/12 12:31 PM
Edited by msharmony on Thu 09/13/12 12:32 PM


Who cares what people think? If I see someone on here that I wish to know who they are I just look. That goes for men as well as women. I like to know who is on the same thread sometimes, or I may see an interesting comment or picture that makes me want to see what that person is like. If that person misinterprets that for me checking them out for other reasons so what. To me stealth is a little creepy, but I guess if the person is a little insecure no harm done.


I can see why people use stealth. Sometimes you just want to use the site without people knowing when you're online. I have no problem with that. Not sure how it's creepy, though. What I'd find more creepy is the guy who looks at my profile daily, but never says a word.



thats funny, I do that (well, I dont look at anyone EVERYDAY)

I favorite people just because of something I enjoy about their profile that I Want to come back to and view or read again


its not even always someone that I would want to have any relationship with (often it is someone I wouldnt mind getting to know though)

I just enjoy their profile

Simonedemidova's photo
Thu 09/13/12 12:36 PM
People perv me all the time and add me as a favorite, mostly people who are not even in the forums that have never messages me. I don't let it bother me, I guess it's flattering.

pyxxie13's photo
Thu 09/13/12 03:08 PM

do not hide your emotions
let them flow
life is a gamble take a chance
and it may surprise you
in a way you never know :)

Good wording.

Hikerjohn's photo
Thu 09/13/12 06:38 PM


Ok. So another member showed me her account and I now realize that each time I went to your profile, there was a notification sent to you. EACH time Lol. blushing That's not good. I go back a lot to read what you wrote in your profiles. So here is my apology.

Then I found out you get notified if I put you in favorites. flowerforyou I put like a ton in there to look at profiles later. Well you are all special ladies.

So I am here wandering how bad this is for you gals. Just an FYI. I get one or two
Views of my profile a day. That's all. I know it veries but you gals usually get more than that.

I would like to know how bad does it get? Don't out anybody here but inform us relatively new people what is proper. And you can out me. I don't care. Who did I perv out there. :banana:


You can perv me anytime. I get lots of views from guys in their 20s and 30s but I usually just delete them.



Well I am. It 20 or 30 so don't delete my pervs. Your my fav navy girl. :-)

Hikerjohn's photo
Thu 09/13/12 06:45 PM



Who cares what people think? If I see someone on here that I wish to know who they are I just look. That goes for men as well as women. I like to know who is on the same thread sometimes, or I may see an interesting comment or picture that makes me want to see what that person is like. If that person misinterprets that for me checking them out for other reasons so what. To me stealth is a little creepy, but I guess if the person is a little insecure no harm done.


I can see why people use stealth. Sometimes you just want to use the site without people knowing when you're online. I have no problem with that. Not sure how it's creepy, though. What I'd find more creepy is the guy who looks at my profile daily, but never says a word.



thats funny, I do that (well, I dont look at anyone EVERYDAY)

I favorite people just because of something I enjoy about their profile that I Want to come back to and view or read again


its not even always someone that I would want to have any relationship with (often it is someone I wouldnt mind getting to know though)

I just enjoy their profile


I've perved you a lot because I
Liked your posts and I would go
Back and read you profile. Short term
Memory issues. what

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Thu 09/13/12 06:48 PM
K now is it time to go perving? i mean sleeping? lol

Hikerjohn's photo
Thu 09/13/12 06:59 PM

People perv me all the time and add me as a favorite, mostly people who are not even in the forums that have never messages me. I don't let it bother me, I guess it's flattering.


I just perved you. Nice gun drawing. Thanks for the encouragement to perv you.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 09/13/12 07:04 PM

Ok. So another member showed me her account and I now realize that each time I went to your profile, there was a notification sent to you. EACH time Lol. blushing That's not good. I go back a lot to read what you wrote in your profiles. So here is my apology.

Then I found out you get notified if I put you in favorites. flowerforyou I put like a ton in there to look at profiles later. Well you are all special ladies.

So I am here wandering how bad this is for you gals. Just an FYI. I get one or two
Views of my profile a day. That's all. I know it veries but you gals usually get more than that.

I would like to know how bad does it get? Don't out anybody here but inform us relatively new people what is proper. And you can out me. I don't care. Who did I perv out there. :banana:


Honestly this is like Christmas morning to me. In the beginning I used to get flooded with all kinds of guys from every continent. It was a hoot. Never got their names sadly. I keep the ones from Australia and the UK strictly because of their sexy accents.

Hikerjohn's photo
Thu 09/13/12 07:05 PM


do not hide your emotions
let them flow
life is a gamble take a chance
and it may surprise you
in a way you never know :)

Good wording.


Perving with pyxxie. That rhymes. .

pyxxie13's photo
Thu 09/13/12 07:08 PM



do not hide your emotions
let them flow
life is a gamble take a chance
and it may surprise you
in a way you never know :)

Good wording.


Perving with pyxxie. That rhymes. .

You goof

Hikerjohn's photo
Thu 09/13/12 09:31 PM
Lol well that was a fun day. Nudged to death. See you make a guys day. I know you cannot show some guy attention without creating a stocker. Sad. Girls make good friends too. Thanks for verifying the perving doesn't really bother any of you.

styk's photo
Sat 09/15/12 02:08 PM

I Love it. I've been perved nudged hugged and kicked in the butt all in one mornig. I feel loved now. I am going back to perving. Oh and who wants to send me my first kiss? flowers
you lucky man, lol

styk's photo
Sat 09/15/12 02:26 PM



do not hide your emotions
let them flow
life is a gamble take a chance
and it may surprise you
in a way you never know :)

Good wording.


Perving with pyxxie. That rhymes. .
i like perving pyxxie

styk's photo
Sat 09/15/12 02:27 PM

Lol well that was a fun day. Nudged to death. See you make a guys day. I know you cannot show some guy attention without creating a stocker. Sad. Girls make good friends too. Thanks for verifying the perving doesn't really bother any of you.

i totaly agree with his statement here

josie68's photo
Sun 09/16/12 08:52 PM
I look at all the newcomers in the Community threads and go back and recheck friends to see if they have put new pictures up or changed their profiles, so I have no worries about others checking mine out otherwise you are talking to people you dont know anything about.

eileena9's photo
Wed 09/19/12 10:40 PM
I'm in stealth and I perv all the time... Otherwise I have gotten nasty emails asking me why I am looking at them if I have found my man. Guess I am supposed to become a hermit now and not talk to anyone else......**cough-cough-bullshyte-cough-cough**whoa

Hikerjohn's photo
Thu 09/20/12 08:55 AM

I look at all the newcomers in the Community threads and go back and recheck friends to see if they have put new pictures up or changed their profiles, so I have no worries about others checking mine out otherwise you are talking to people you dont know anything about.


Well I would perv you more but dude, your boyfriend has huge arms. spock

Lol. Seriously it's great you two have found each other. It's encouraging to the rest of us.

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 09/20/12 09:34 AM
Perving is where it is at! Honestly some get upset when others perv them I'm flattered myself.... I use to do the stealth mode now heck I want them to know I have looked.. I look at profiles mainly due to what they have wrote in the forums. I see something that is interesting they have said and off to the profile I go..

But at times since I'm a mod and they see me perv them they wonder if they are in trouble...:laughing: :laughing: Have actually had a few e-mail me and wonder what they did..:laughing:

Also when some ask questions I check out their profile to get a feel of what that person is like.

Ohh and when you look at profiles that are of the same sex those views do not show up..well that is if they are looking for the opposite sex...now if they are looking for the same sex and your that same sex then yes it does show that you viewed them...

Myself I delete those that have viewed me or nudged me every day...