I have been here a long time, i almost purchased the Premium thing but you know i have not had any luck at all. Honestly i am extremely unlucky with women, at first i was thinking it must be looks, so i started dieting and pay for a stupid Gym membership to get in shape (Yeah no ****, i really am trying lol).

Then i was thinking am i too shy? Well i noticed since i have been getting healthy i feel a lot better about myself more confidence and i do things i would not normaly do. Women don't really intimidate me anymore, i am chill and not nervous at all i just act 110% normal and confident, i even have been dancing recently and i use to be that shy guy that wanted to slow dance at school dances, now i am out there busting a move and dancing and yet no luck with that despite dancing and talking with women WTF!

I really am starting to go crazy, i don't smell or come off weird, i have tried every personality ploy (nice guy, bad boy etc) and none work even when i am just being myself calm and confident i have no luck with the few women i have talked to.

Now onto the internet, i have honestly sat forever going through the quick match thing and even sending out loads of emails and not but 2-3 replies that end in one message never talking again. I really don't know what to do. I have some sort of stupid cosmic bad luck BS and i guess i am destined to FAIL! I even got as close as was suppose to meet a girl for lunch, we both talked forever before then and she was not even that great looking, a bit on the heavy side but it didn't matter. Anyway she just stopped talking all together even after we left on a good note. I was like WTF!

So yeah my life sucks dick ATM!!!

three months is a long time?
puhlease.

You know how complicated the world is these days. lol. This is why I never have expectations. I think if you expect something, but it doesn't happen, it's setting yourself up for dissapointment. Nobody likes to let themselves down. Just another day in this dog eat dog world hey? :) Some are too fussy, and others, not sure. At least they spared you wasting any more time on them. I'm not sure what to advise. Just keep your life goals in focus, and do yourself proud. Sorry this happened to you. Typical.

No simply hitting up bars and social gatherings, working and staying active at the gym then when the day is over sitting on the computer for a few hours. Done it for about 5 months with no luck.

Oh. I thought you were meaning it happened on here. Yes it's hard to weed people out at times.

Same here too, not much happens and had one date that ended up dropping. Why i have no idea.

They should at least let you know why. It's kinda dodgy if someone just takes off like that.

What realy got me was she was not that good looking. She was on the heavy side but i still gave her the chance to get to know someone. We talked for a few days a lot before we both decided to meet up.

Then she would not reply back i found it odd lol

It certainly does sound odd. You're right. It's a behaviour I'll never understand. What do they even gain from it anyway? No wonder they're single. People catch on to weird behaviour.

Yeah i have noticed a few wierd things in my searches. Honestly i realy dont want to go to a bar to pick up women. I have been to a few and i am not impressed, could be my area i live. You know that could be all my problems. This area sucks lol.

lol. Yeah it could depend on where you live too, sometimes. Hard to pinpoint the reason if they don't give you one. Going to the gym myself, this morning. Sorry to leave. It's just I gotta tidy the house and other shiz before my family come and visit. *sigh*. Hope you feel better as the day goes on

yeah you too :P

I've been on a number of sites for 8 to 10 years and I haven't had any luck either.

Try the 'rate my profile' thread. I have a few suggestions for you.

Yeah it all realy sucks, i am at a loss. I guess maybe if i just turn into an utter piece of trash i can pick up women then. Because at this point in time being a great loving person that can take care of someon is not working lol >.>

You are so young..why on earth are you trying so hard? I am exhausted just reading about all you have done. Try just making friends. The rest comes naturally.

Chill. You are just having a bad day. We all have them. You have a lot to offer the right woman. Timing and attitude are everything. May I give you a few profile suggestions?

Thats the thing, i never get that far to even make friends. I also do not feel like i am that young. I had a GF in HS i was 16-17 and that was the last time i had any sort of attention. I am by myself 90% of the time, at the gym, in town etc and then i work. If i go out to a bar its by myself, i visit with a few people but thats about it.

I have been to a few social gathering and the last one i danced my *** off. Had so much fun, i did'nt even worry about hooking up just goofed around danced with some girls played pool and had a good time. I sat and had a nice clean conversation with this girl for about an hour, she ended up getting pulled away by her friends and left.

I wake up the next day alone and no closer. I was one of those shy guys the ones that would not dance or even take the initiative to talk to women. Now i get in a "i dont care" attitude and just talk away and enjoy myself, sure i am more confident but it didnt get me any farther than when i was the shy guy lol.

So basically to sum up most of my oh woe me.

I made the effort to not be shy to not be lazy to get myself in shape and i did it all. I can walk up and talk to who i want and be myself and make others laugh yet i am still alone.

Suggest away, but i like my profile as is. I realy doubt id meet someone here, i just like reading around and whatnot. Its better than stupid facebook and myspace.

chill dude...try n try harder,,,you will definitely get someone spl..