So, choosing a specific body type to you is more important than clear pictures? Pictures say much more than a word or two ever could.

its all about honesty actually, i dont know why that is so hard for people to understand. so easy to label me shallow when the real problem on here for me has always been lack of honesty on this subject. If i were dating you and the first thing out my mouth was an obvious lie, then how much further would I get that night?

This was on another thread, but i thought it was interesting.,..

Im 28 n don't know if im cute


You don't need anyone to validate who you are but yourself. Do you feel like a beautiful 28 year old woman? If not, you should work on the issues that are preventing you from acknowledging your own beauty. The issues would be on the inside. Give yourself an honest assessment, don't be afraid if you notice things you don't like, you can fix what ever you don't like. You just have to honestly look at yourself, from the inside.


Such good advice, now that we have accepted ourselves(our bodies) when will a man see through the skin and into the heart?

i think you are very attractive.. fyi. Is that your art on your page? iTS VERY GOOD.

I'm not saying you're shallow. We all have preferences. However the body descriptions do not have specific guidelines. So I rely on clear pictures to see what someone looks like. Now if they were dishonest when it came to pictures, I'd definitely be mad about that.

I KNOW I WAS JUST SAYING.. in general.

a clue... if your arm is bigger than most peoples leg, you are not "average". if you cant see your feet, you are not "average". if you look like a holocost victim you are not athletic.... if you have 18 pics of your face you appear to be hiding something.... or ashamed of yourself.

Funny you should mention this. I was at a bar the other night and there was a woman who caught my eye. She came up to me and said "Stop staring at my t!ts"! I told her I wasn't. I was just trying to see through her skin and into her heart. She slapped me and threw a drink on me. So much for that theory.......

i like to put a woman on a pedistal.... just high enough to look up her dress. lol.

Most of them were drawn for me, I did a couple of them, a friend did a couple, the animated ones are characters from anime...thank you.

Uh huh, way to avoid to reality of what a woman has to deal with.

Oh come on buck up little buckaroo. It can't be that bad.......

If you have to use a forklift to pick her up, then that isn't a dress that she is wearing. It is a tent.

Are those acrobats under the big top?

At what point does a person go from "Average" to "A few extra pounds"?

At what point does a person go from "A few extra pounds" to "Stocky" or "Heavyset"?

For those of you who are worried about the correct use of these body types, what are the guidelines you're using?

Maybe some women are honest about their size, it's some men who refuse to have anything to do with women who aren't a perfect 10 shape? I can tell 10 guys I'm fat and I'll never hear from 8 of them ever again.

My late wife was overweight when I met her.
I don't expect a perfect shape.

dude you went about that all wrong.take it from a pro


wear sunglasses into the bar/club and they can't se you checking out their chest.that's what i do