Community > 30 and 40 somethings

Topic: where are the men 35 to 50 ?
Tammy0731 Joined Thu 05/31/12 Posts: 68	Sun 09/02/12 06:45 PM
why do so many people play games with online dating the dating site should only be for dating... serious inquires only!! feel if you want to play games or you just want intimacy with someone.. I'm sure there is somebody in your home town..... I really don't get it either...good point..

80srocknroll Joined Tue 08/28/12 Posts: 8	Mon 09/03/12 09:35 AM
not sure never been ask that before.i guess it depends on how bad you what it.

80srocknroll Joined Tue 08/28/12 Posts: 8	Mon 09/03/12 09:35 AM
not sure never been ask that before.i guess it depends on how bad you what it.

wacdaddy Joined Sun 06/10/12 Posts: 22	Tue 09/04/12 03:17 PM
What if you marked intimate encounters because you hope to eventually be intimate? Not like that is the only thing you want, they ask some vague questions. I have a large vocabulary, and enjoy chatting to get to know a person. 7 years is a long time to be looking, and that is how long I have been. So yes I am looking for intimacy, however it is not the only thing I am looking for.

Tammy0731 Joined Thu 05/31/12 Posts: 68	Thu 09/06/12 04:38 PM
not sure never been ask that before.i guess it depends on how bad you what it. you can plan a trip to meet and see how your chemistry ....LOL HINT....HINT!!!!!!! :)) Later. Tammy

80srocknroll Joined Tue 08/28/12 Posts: 8	Fri 09/07/12 10:13 AM
well your right that could be i way.glad to see your still helping people out.love to read what you have to say.

Tammy0731 Joined Thu 05/31/12 Posts: 68	Fri 09/07/12 05:04 PM
well your right that could be i way.glad to see your still helping people out.love to read what you have to say. something that will help when you reply.....click on "quote" instead of reply....this will copy the quote that you are replying to ...places it just above your clothes so other people know what you're responding to ...... sooo when are you planning your trip to Ohio ??? I'm sure you could get a dog sitter for the weekend and just come hang out ....I promise you would enjoy your day ...lol

Tammy0731 Joined Thu 05/31/12 Posts: 68	Fri 09/07/12 05:16 PM
does anybody have trouble walking into someplace where you don't know anyone??? .... I was just invited to a euchre tournament where there is going to be about 50 to 100 people .....I guess I just feel very uncomfortable.....just one of those insecurities I have ... any advice from anybody ???? and please don't say just be yourself ...lol. I am confident in who I am ....I was always more of the person that start around an observed what was going on around me ......I really would like to break this ...once i get a couple beers in me I'm okay.... I ok... I guess it's just getting to that point that I struggle with . any advice would greatly be appreciated ........

Sneaksintoyourheart Joined Fri 10/16/09 Posts: 19261	Fri 09/07/12 10:43 PM
does anybody have trouble walking into someplace where you don't know anyone??? .... I was just invited to a euchre tournament where there is going to be about 50 to 100 people .....I guess I just feel very uncomfortable.....just one of those insecurities I have ... any advice from anybody ???? and please don't say just be yourself ...lol. I am confident in who I am ....I was always more of the person that start around an observed what was going on around me ......I really would like to break this ...once i get a couple beers in me I'm okay.... I ok... I guess it's just getting to that point that I struggle with . any advice would greatly be appreciated ........ At first I had a hard time going up to a local place to listen to bands then i started to get to know a few people as i went more often ask a friend or someone to see if they can come with u that way u know at least one person there.

ghtallen Joined Sat 09/08/12 Posts: 18	Sat 09/08/12 06:32 AM
I think a most people feel uncomfortable going to functions under those circumstances, i wouldn't call it an insecurity though....I've found the hardest part was arriving, after a few minutes i just start talking to people and the uncomfortable feeling goes away. Not much advice i kn ow...but at least there may be comfort in knowing most of us deal with the same thing

80srocknroll Joined Tue 08/28/12 Posts: 8	Sat 09/08/12 04:55 PM
well your right that could be i way.glad to see your still helping people out.love to read what you have to say. something that will help when you reply.....click on "quote" instead of reply....this will copy the quote that you are replying to ...places it just above your clothes so other people know what you're responding to ...... sooo when are you planning your trip to Ohio ??? I'm sure you could get a dog sitter for the weekend and just come hang out ....I promise you would enjoy your day ...lol

80srocknroll Joined Tue 08/28/12 Posts: 8	Sat 09/08/12 04:58 PM
well your right that could be i way.glad to see your still helping people out.love to read what you have to say. something that will help when you reply.....click on "quote" instead of reply....this will copy the quote that you are replying to ...places it just above your clothes so other people know what you're responding to ...... sooo when are you planning your trip to Ohio ??? I'm sure you could get a dog sitter for the weekend and just come hang out ....I promise you would enjoy your day ...lol i thought you were coming to colo?

inked4life77 Joined Sun 09/09/12 Posts: 3	Sun 09/09/12 06:23 AM
im 34 turning 35 next month im single from bundaberg qld have tattoos i seem to have trouble finding someone always seem to get the same answer or excuse from women ive met your too affectionate, or too clingy,or im not ready for a relationship or it wont work out

inked4life77 Joined Sun 09/09/12 Posts: 3	Sun 09/09/12 06:28 AM
forgot to mention im in australia i do like tattooed women too seems to be hard to find any single tattooed women

inked4life77 Joined Sun 09/09/12 Posts: 3	Sun 09/09/12 06:28 AM
forgot to mention im in australia i do like tattooed women too seems to be hard to find any single tattooed women

Tammy0731 Joined Thu 05/31/12 Posts: 68	Sun 09/09/12 10:52 AM
does anybody have trouble walking into someplace where you don't know anyone??? .... I was just invited to a euchre tournament where there is going to be about 50 to 100 people .....I guess I just feel very uncomfortable.....just one of those insecurities I have ... any advice from anybody ???? and please don't say just be yourself ...lol. I am confident in who I am ....I was always more of the person that start around an observed what was going on around me ......I really would like to break this ...once i get a couple beers in me I'm okay.... I ok... I guess it's just getting to that point that I struggle with . any advice would greatly be appreciated ........ At first I had a hard time going up to a local place to listen to bands then i started to get to know a few people as i went more often ask a friend or someone to see if they can come with u that way u know at least one person there. [/quote I don't have any girlfriends...I guess the reason is because I do not trust females .....I side with the man as far as the views on female behavior....I cannot stand.. cattiness, snobbiness, game playing too Faced females ....I know not all females are like this but the ones that I have met tend to be that way . I have not been able to overcome my insecurities going into a unknown environment where I don't know anybody.....I know I need to get a grip on this and just buckle down and do it ..... I really want to go to this euchre party... I just hope I don't talk myself out of it. thanks for the input your right ..the party is September 22nd just give me some encouragement as that time gets closer okay . many thanks in advance ... until next time . Tammy

Tammy0731 Joined Thu 05/31/12 Posts: 68	Sun 09/09/12 11:02 AM
I think a most people feel uncomfortable going to functions under those circumstances, i wouldn't call it an insecurity though....I've found the hardest part was arriving, after a few minutes i just start talking to people and the uncomfortable feeling goes away. Not much advice i kn ow...but at least there may be comfort in knowing most of us deal with the same thing wow... really??? many people deal with going into unfamiliar territory. I never would have guessed that. I thought it was Just an insecurity of mine....well I can say I have a little better hope knowing that going forward ...thanks for the confidence boost ..give me some encouragement as time gets closer to September 22nd .... thanks a bunch . Tammy

Tammy0731 Joined Thu 05/31/12 Posts: 68	Sun 09/09/12 11:12 AM
im 34 turning 35 next month im single from bundaberg qld have tattoos i seem to have trouble finding someone always seem to get the same answer or excuse from women ive met your too affectionate, or too clingy,or im not ready for a relationship or it wont work out welcome to our little community ....feel free to speak your mind ...anything goes and you can comment on anybody's comment ..... where is Bundaberg ??? you need to know what you love languages is....then you need to search for females that have the same language you do .....there is a book called 5 love languages ..I encourage you to research that online ..you are attracted to the wrong love language ....what you know your love language then you will know what to look for ...I can go into more detail if you would like ...ust let me know if you have any questions.... I'm glad to help .. until next time . Tammy

Tammy0731 Joined Thu 05/31/12 Posts: 68	Sun 09/09/12 11:17 AM
well your right that could be i way.glad to see your still helping people out.love to read what you have to say. something that will help when you reply.....click on "quote" instead of reply....this will copy the quote that you are replying to ...places it just above your clothes so other people know what you're responding to ...... sooo when are you planning your trip to Ohio ??? I'm sure you could get a dog sitter for the weekend and just come hang out ....I promise you would enjoy your day ...lol i thought you were coming to colo? I would love to come to Colorado ....what kind of entertainment do you have there (keep it clean)...lol ....are you near the forest fires ??? besides movies or live music ....what tourist attractions could you show me ?? I cannot wait to hear your responses ......lol

Tammy0731 Joined Thu 05/31/12 Posts: 68	Sun 09/09/12 11:22 AM
forgot to mention im in australia i do like tattooed women too seems to be hard to find any single tattooed women I don't know many single women with tattoos ....what happens if you find your perfect woman and she has no tattoos ....do you turn her away ???? why are you so much into tattoos ?? I have not read your profile yet... but did you include that you like tattoos women in your profile.. maybe there is a link to dating tattoo women on the internet have you tried of research that.... keep me posted . Tammy