Topic: How many times can you fall in love?
Ruth34611's photo
Tue 08/21/12 01:59 PM

I saw this beautiful younger woman at the mall.
My old heart just started busting at the seams.
She was pregnant.
Looked about 8 & 1/2 months along and had the most awesome profile.
And the way she moved, moved me.
I fell in love.
I went over and told her how beautiful and graceful I found her.
She told me she was honored and my comment made her day.
She gave me a big hug and we walked away.
It's possible to fall in love every day.


That was really sweet. Thanks for sharing. flowerforyou

BettyB's photo
Tue 08/21/12 02:13 PM
One thing I really don't understand is all this talk of open hearts and closed hearts.Far as I know my heart doesn't have doors on it that I can open and close at will.Sometimes love gets in ,sometimes it doesn't but why it does or doesn't I still have no clue why,it just happens.

Simonedemidova's photo
Tue 08/21/12 02:21 PM




Kind of helps to have a map but sometimes the best journeys are the ones you do by the seat of your pants and you have no where to go but up.

I don't think any love deep or minor leaves you completely and the traces on your soul will be help make you a better person.


Very nice advice, it feels true, the ones by the seat of your pants are the best they are more exciting and not sought after or planned out, they just happen...naturally

redmustang26's photo
Tue 08/21/12 02:24 PM
i believe that in every since of the word because every relationship is different and you never know unless you try and see where it goes from the start of the relationship. that is my take on it.

Simonedemidova's photo
Tue 08/21/12 02:24 PM

One thing I really don't understand is all this talk of open hearts and closed hearts.Far as I know my heart doesn't have doors on it that I can open and close at will.Sometimes love gets in ,sometimes it doesn't but why it does or doesn't I still have no clue why,it just happens.


I think closed hearts is more on the other thread for those who have given up n love. I guess for me, I am just confused how I can have loved someone and been so wrong, I believe in falling in love with someone new. I have an open heart policy.....I await new journeys, but sometimes I believe we have one soulmate we are truley destined for. Maybe even more....

BettyB's photo
Tue 08/21/12 05:30 PM


One thing I really don't understand is all this talk of open hearts and closed hearts.Far as I know my heart doesn't have doors on it that I can open and close at will.Sometimes love gets in ,sometimes it doesn't but why it does or doesn't I still have no clue why,it just happens.


I think closed hearts is more on the other thread for those who have given up n love. I guess for me, I am just confused how I can have loved someone and been so wrong, I believe in falling in love with someone new. I have an open heart policy.....I await new journeys, but sometimes I believe we have one soulmate we are truley destined for. Maybe even more....

Maybe, but I sort of feel like love will happen if its suppose to no matter what your heart wants atm. Just because I have an open heart does not mean I will find love, or if its closed as they say I won't. That is something I just do not buy into.
As far as how many people you can fall in love with I really don't know the answer to that.
I know what you mean about loving someone and being so wrong about them, but at the same token I am glad I did have that feeling for awhile.It was nice while it lasted, but in life and Love there are no guarantees of anything.I just don't worry about it anymore, life is still good.

andrewzooms's photo
Tue 08/21/12 06:04 PM
I fall for girls all the time. Just don't make the mistake of rushing into marriage before living with a significant other.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Tue 08/21/12 08:41 PM
It's bigger when you're IN love.

Smaller when you fall OUT of love.

The world I mean.
bigsmile

Simonedemidova's photo
Tue 08/21/12 09:07 PM

It's bigger when you're IN love.

Smaller when you fall OUT of love.

The world I mean.
bigsmile


Nice Haiku! flowerforyou

Simonedemidova's photo
Wed 08/22/12 03:48 PM
Maybe some people never fall into true love. A psychic told me this once. sad sad2

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 08/22/12 03:57 PM

Maybe some people never fall into true love. A psychic told me this once. sad sad2


Whhhaaat??? shocked

Nooooo! sad

Simonedemidova's photo
Wed 08/22/12 04:00 PM


Maybe some people never fall into true love. A psychic told me this once. sad sad2


Whhhaaat??? shocked

Nooooo! sad


I know, now I have that looming in the back of my mind forever!

grumble noway grumble

But anyone who knows me, I am not one to give up on things!drinker

Mirage4279's photo
Wed 08/22/12 04:26 PM
I get crushes all the time every now and then they go for it. Being a quiet guy you have to look at things optimistically. Or however you spell it.

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 08/22/12 04:42 PM


I know, now I have that looming in the back of my mind forever!

grumble noway grumble

But anyone who knows me, I am not one to give up on things!drinker


Then I won't give up either. :smile:

BettyB's photo
Wed 08/22/12 04:46 PM
I wonder, is not caring anymore the same as giving up?
Its been a very long time since I loved somebody so I am not sure I even know the difference anymore.

pyxxie13's photo
Wed 08/22/12 04:52 PM
I am not certain you can put a number on that. Every relationship is different.

Simonedemidova's photo
Wed 08/22/12 05:35 PM



I know, now I have that looming in the back of my mind forever!

grumble noway grumble

But anyone who knows me, I am not one to give up on things!drinker


Then I won't give up either. :smile:


Yes we can tough it out together!flowerforyou

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 08/22/12 05:40 PM

I wonder, is not caring anymore the same as giving up?
Its been a very long time since I loved somebody so I am not sure I even know the difference anymore.


No, it's not the same thing. Giving up means you close yourself off to the possibility of a serious relationship. Not caring means you're still open but you don't care anymore if it comes along or not. I'm in the not caring category with you. I've seen people who have given up and I decided I don't want to be like that.

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 08/22/12 05:41 PM




I know, now I have that looming in the back of my mind forever!

grumble noway grumble

But anyone who knows me, I am not one to give up on things!drinker


Then I won't give up either. :smile:


Yes we can tough it out together!flowerforyou


flowerforyou

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 08/22/12 05:42 PM


It's bigger when you're IN love.

Smaller when you fall OUT of love.

The world I mean.
bigsmile


Nice Haiku! flowerforyou


I does what I can. :tongue: