yeah see he did call but it was on hos buddies phone hes not a normal man he doesnt act like one and i like that..it just hard because well you basically have to read the email he sent me last nite...

Just remember that people who are dating and serious are in the "courtship" part of the relationship, they are putting their best foot forward, treating their partner the best they can, because they love that person and want to show that person they love them. If it leads to marriage, then it gets really hard, and the "courtship" is over and every day problems and drudgery take over. If he is acting this way now in the "courtship" phase when he is supposed to be winning you over, I would be really nervous about wanting to married to someone like that.

well he told me in the email last nite that "Over the years I've hidden who I am,
so that EVERYONE gets a different side of me
. No one gets to know the real me,
no one tries to look. So I started using puzzles to
show who I am to those willing to
look at things with an open mind and ability to think
. Years ago I decided that when I
found someone who could completely unlock who it is I
really am, I'd spend eternity with them."

Talk is cheap. I've met plenty of guys who were all talk and no action and IMHO they are all nothing but a bunch of sorry ass excuses for human beings.

OK, rant over. That last e mail is stranger than fiction. Please be careful, this guy sounds like a nutter to me.

actions some times do speak louder that words
especially if you fart before speaking!!

Well that somebody should be someone that loves you...He is throwing you crumbs darlin when you deserve the whole pie! You are eating up his crumbs like they are love...when in truth if he loved you...his actions would match his words..... When they conflict he is not being genuine!

And not the yummy kind you eat. :)