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Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sat 08/04/12 04:26 PM
Hmm ..a man approaches me on the subway... no thanks. Try a better place. there is no subways here where i live but if i was living in portland oregon which is a large city i would deffently be truly leary if someone tried to pick me up now here in salem i have had guys say hello for a nice gester which is fine but still be leary if someone tried to ask me out by the busses especially if u never met them before.... thats a NO

TattooedDude81 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 1403	Sat 08/04/12 04:28 PM
I do the opposite, I NEVER approach women, I'm intimidated by females. Sure, I have good qualities, but I don't have a ton of money, a Ferrari, and a way of means to keep a high maintenance woman on hand, that's a turn off for me. I like simple women, that have things in common with, which for me, seems almost damn near impossible to find. So just take it day by day my friend. Something may spark up or may not. You never really know. You don't need a Ferrari or money to talk to women, you need to have the balls in place for that. Smart women want something special in a man. Women don't want fast cars and money? Damn, I must be high. I have BALLS for your information, I just don't care to walk up to women. Do I confidence? No I do not, but there's many laying reasons for that, that I will not post here in the forums.

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Sat 08/04/12 04:36 PM
I'd give you money to drive 5000 miles, just to see it be done. I wanna know where it is that you plan to drive too.

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Sat 08/04/12 04:37 PM
There have been several times that I have saw these beautiful ladies on the subways and when I started speaking with them they usually get nervous. Is it common that ladies get nervous when I handsome guy approach them? I would be more nervous that someone approached me on the subway. Just not the place that I would want to meet someone.

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Sat 08/04/12 04:40 PM
There have been several times that I have saw these beautiful ladies on the subways and when I started speaking with them they usually get nervous. Is it common that ladies get nervous when I handsome guy approach them? don't feel bad.when i walk up and stare at their boobs and drool,they get nervous too

TattooedDude81 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 1403	Sat 08/04/12 04:45 PM
There have been several times that I have saw these beautiful ladies on the subways and when I started speaking with them they usually get nervous. Is it common that ladies get nervous when I handsome guy approach them? don't feel bad.when i walk up and stare at their boobs and drool,they get nervous too

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Sat 08/04/12 04:47 PM
There have been several times that I have saw these beautiful ladies on the subways and when I started speaking with them they usually get nervous. Is it common that ladies get nervous when I handsome guy approach them? don't feel bad.when i walk up and stare at their boobs and drool,they get nervous too You probably get a crazy look in your eyes,hahaha

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sat 08/04/12 05:56 PM
I do the opposite, I NEVER approach women, I'm intimidated by females. Sure, I have good qualities, but I don't have a ton of money, a Ferrari, and a way of means to keep a high maintenance woman on hand, that's a turn off for me. I like simple women, that have things in common with, which for me, seems almost damn near impossible to find. So just take it day by day my friend. Something may spark up or may not. You never really know. You don't need a Ferrari or money to talk to women, you need to have the balls in place for that. Smart women want something special in a man. Women don't want fast cars and money? Damn, I must be high. I have BALLS for your information, I just don't care to walk up to women. Do I confidence? No I do not, but there's many laying reasons for that, that I will not post here in the forums. if i wanted money i would had stuck around the guy i met sometime ago that drove a dang jag the car was nice but the money didnt impress me we had a great conversation(8hours of talk) if i was rich i would be happy to live in a log cabin

TattooedDude81 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 1403	Sat 08/04/12 06:47 PM
I do the opposite, I NEVER approach women, I'm intimidated by females. Sure, I have good qualities, but I don't have a ton of money, a Ferrari, and a way of means to keep a high maintenance woman on hand, that's a turn off for me. I like simple women, that have things in common with, which for me, seems almost damn near impossible to find. So just take it day by day my friend. Something may spark up or may not. You never really know. You don't need a Ferrari or money to talk to women, you need to have the balls in place for that. Smart women want something special in a man. Women don't want fast cars and money? Damn, I must be high. I have BALLS for your information, I just don't care to walk up to women. Do I confidence? No I do not, but there's many laying reasons for that, that I will not post here in the forums. if i wanted money i would had stuck around the guy i met sometime ago that drove a dang jag the car was nice but the money didnt impress me we had a great conversation(8hours of talk) if i was rich i would be happy to live in a log cabin That was the problem..he drove a Jaguar..it's all about FERRARI baby!

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 08/04/12 06:51 PM
the charm , style, swag,,, of the approacher means much more than the location in which they approach,,,

TattooedDude81 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 1403	Sat 08/04/12 06:53 PM
the charm , style, swag,,, of the approacher means much more than the location in which they approach,,, Well, that pretty much throws me overboard...

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 08/04/12 06:59 PM Edited by msharmony on Sat 08/04/12 07:00 PM
the charm , style, swag,,, of the approacher means much more than the location in which they approach,,, Well, that pretty much throws me overboard... lol, I doubt that but attraction doesnt happen because of location,,it happens in spite of it,,, (unless you are a bachelor/bachelorette contestant,, those locations give anyone a pretty unfair upper hand....lol)

RandyCooper Joined Sat 07/28/12 Posts: 43	Sat 08/04/12 07:07 PM
I'd give you money to drive 5000 miles, just to see it be done. I wanna know where it is that you plan to drive too. Lol, I drove from NY to Costa Rica and I lived many experiences during the trip. I don't recommend that to any body. But for me it was fun anyways.

RandyCooper Joined Sat 07/28/12 Posts: 43	Sat 08/04/12 07:11 PM
the charm , style, swag,,, of the approacher means much more than the location in which they approach,,,

TattooedDude81 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 1403	Sat 08/04/12 07:37 PM
the charm , style, swag,,, of the approacher means much more than the location in which they approach,,, Well, that pretty much throws me overboard... lol, I doubt that but attraction doesnt happen because of location,,it happens in spite of it,,, (unless you are a bachelor/bachelorette contestant,, those locations give anyone a pretty unfair upper hand....lol) The charm - Look at my guitar The Style - Heavy metal t-shirts or sports t-shirts and either shorts or jeans The Swag - Sit down, shut up, and watch me shred this guitar. That's how I roll

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Sat 08/04/12 07:48 PM
There have been several times that I have saw these beautiful ladies on the subways and when I started speaking with them they usually get nervous. Is it common that ladies get nervous when I handsome guy approach them? is there something you're not telling us? Maybe you carry a knife around in public. Hence the look of horror on their faces!

RandyCooper Joined Sat 07/28/12 Posts: 43	Sat 08/04/12 08:06 PM
There have been several times that I have saw these beautiful ladies on the subways and when I started speaking with them they usually get nervous. Is it common that ladies get nervous when I handsome guy approach them? is there something you're not telling us? Maybe you carry a knife around in public. Hence the look of horror on their faces! Lol, since kung fu and wrestling are some of my hubbies I don't need to carry a knife.

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sat 08/04/12 08:20 PM
There have been several times that I have saw these beautiful ladies on the subways and when I started speaking with them they usually get nervous. Is it common that ladies get nervous when I handsome guy approach them? is there something you're not telling us? Maybe you carry a knife around in public. Hence the look of horror on their faces! Lol, since kung fu and wrestling are some of my hubbies I don't need to carry a knife. sense your hubbies are kung fu and wrestling i can see the spelling was a mistake

RandyCooper Joined Sat 07/28/12 Posts: 43	Sat 08/04/12 09:30 PM
There have been several times that I have saw these beautiful ladies on the subways and when I started speaking with them they usually get nervous. Is it common that ladies get nervous when I handsome guy approach them? is there something you're not telling us? Maybe you carry a knife around in public. Hence the look of horror on their faces! Lol, since kung fu and wrestling are some of my hubbies I don't need to carry a knife. sense your hubbies are kung fu and wrestling i can see the spelling was a mistake Lol "Hobbies" Hey, Did you mean since? Don't worry, we all have mistakes ;)

Teri11215 Joined Sun 07/22/12 Posts: 65	Sat 08/04/12 09:47 PM
I hate to be the one to be so blunt on this approach. Here's my take on it, coming from NY women have to be careful about men approaching them on the subway, regardless of what they look like. The subways aren't very safe here. I haven't been on this site very long myself, but welcome to you! Good luck!