Topic: What to do if you got 2 women after you.
Median's photo
Tue 08/21/12 12:38 PM
No. I think you've completely got the wrong end of the stick. What on earth gave you the idea that my intentions are to just shag anything that moves! And what gave you the idea that coming on here asking for advice is some sort of Juvenile bragging?

So far I haven't met anybody. I've had plans to meet other women that failed and I am meeting someone this Friday to try and get to know this person.


Chazster's photo
Tue 08/21/12 12:49 PM

Generally "dating" is a plural social interaction. You are superficially meeting and getting to know a number of different people over the course of several invitations to do pleasurable things.

In an ideal world you would be exerciseing enough honesty and maturity even self preservation not to be shagging anything that will allow it but doesn't appear to be the case from your juvinile bragging. I actually hope you don't end up gut sick like a unteatherd child in a candy store.

However I think quickly your very public reputation, you are self-promoteing will catch up with you and your social desireability will collasp if your health doesn't.

May actually have other social consequences as employers who do read these sites for entertainment even unoffiacial screening of candidates for employment or promotions see you as just not worth the emotional wake you leave behind.

It might be stateing the obvious but I would suppose the young ladies in your area are having a grand laugh but hope that all who read this take note that just because you have the right to shag anyone you please it may end up to be a very public thing and they are often just being used for a very temporary measure and means very little if anything to some people.

I just hope you realize how you have publiclly stated in a un-retractable medium your activities and if any of these ladies do in fact choose to pursue you for any of a number of consequences that could occur you could be up to your neck in lawsuits. Considering that at least a few of them may have brothers, parents, or for that matter friends of any age, gender, or background I think I would be watching my scrawny behind. lol






What exactly is wrong with casual sex with a few partners if that's what you want? Some countries it's commonplace

markc48's photo
Tue 08/21/12 06:04 PM


Generally "dating" is a plural social interaction. You are superficially meeting and getting to know a number of different people over the course of several invitations to do pleasurable things.

In an ideal world you would be exerciseing enough honesty and maturity even self preservation not to be shagging anything that will allow it but doesn't appear to be the case from your juvinile bragging. I actually hope you don't end up gut sick like a unteatherd child in a candy store.

However I think quickly your very public reputation, you are self-promoteing will catch up with you and your social desireability will collasp if your health doesn't.

May actually have other social consequences as employers who do read these sites for entertainment even unoffiacial screening of candidates for employment or promotions see you as just not worth the emotional wake you leave behind.

It might be stateing the obvious but I would suppose the young ladies in your area are having a grand laugh but hope that all who read this take note that just because you have the right to shag anyone you please it may end up to be a very public thing and they are often just being used for a very temporary measure and means very little if anything to some people.

I just hope you realize how you have publiclly stated in a un-retractable medium your activities and if any of these ladies do in fact choose to pursue you for any of a number of consequences that could occur you could be up to your neck in lawsuits. Considering that at least a few of them may have brothers, parents, or for that matter friends of any age, gender, or background I think I would be watching my scrawny behind. lol






What exactly is wrong with casual sex with a few partners if that's what you want? Some countries it's commonplace
And America is one of them:wink:

markc48's photo
Tue 08/21/12 06:14 PM
But I have a Question for you. What do unemployed men to on dates. Mooch.

irisheyes79's photo
Thu 08/23/12 09:30 AM
screw em both whoa

Bigblackxxx's photo
Thu 08/23/12 09:44 AM
[color=] Not only two, even if another two come within ur radar, strike up a good friendship with them all :-) and as time goes on, you do your final selection and find a decent way to say good bye to the excess :-)

Benmedwaylad's photo
Thu 08/23/12 09:50 AM
Some guys get all the luck.The way i do things when i am on dating sites is when i am sexually active i keep off the dating sites.If things don't work out then i come back on the sites.I had fantastic sex Saturday,Sunday and Monday.Things didn't work out so i am looking again.I am loyal so would never two time anyone.

wux's photo
Thu 08/23/12 09:56 AM

Ask them both if they wanna have a threesome?


If only one of the two girls says "yes", then please feel free to count me in for the threesome.

wux's photo
Thu 08/23/12 10:00 AM

The way i do things when i am on dating sites is when i am sexually active i keep off the dating sites.


I am sorry... what does this mean. I read it seven times and it turns out that when you are sexually active, then you are on dating sites and you keep off the dating sites at the same time and in the same respect.

I respectfully submit that that is impossible to do.

Benmedwaylad's photo
Thu 08/23/12 10:46 AM
Ha ha laugh I put the wrong thing down.I meant when i belong to dating sites the moment im sexually active i don't go looking.

no photo
Thu 08/23/12 11:12 AM

OK. Well it seems the situation is sorted. Me and Jenna are just going stay friends, even though she still want's to see me and have sex with me which I'm completely gutted about, but not cos' at least I know now and she still wants sex.

I'm going to see where things go with me and Kaylee. And I'm hoping that we can meet up this week for a coffee and she's going to come visit me at my home. Really hope I get on with her, she's a Virgo and I think Scorpios (me) are supposed to get on together.

Kaylee is 19 and Jenna is 22. I just hope Kaylee is a mature 19 year old.

Wish me the bust of luck!

Peace!


So you're going to be friends with one of them and have sex with her while seeing how things go with the other? Are you going to at least be honest with them both and not lead them on?

irisheyes79's photo
Thu 08/23/12 01:35 PM


Ask them both if they wanna have a threesome?


If only one of the two girls says "yes", then please feel free to count me in for the threesome.
whoa

no photo
Thu 08/23/12 01:56 PM

the worst way to start a relationship is by leading someone on,
using someone as the fall back, or not being honest, you are
setting yourself up for all of those. it sounds like you are being
easily distracted by interest from others, so you might want
to consider backing up a bit and putting it out there that you
are just dating, which to me, doesn't make you exclusive.


^^ And this is why I love this girl!

be straight with both and you will find out more about them and more about yourself

no photo
Thu 08/23/12 02:03 PM

No. I think you've completely got the wrong end of the stick. What on earth gave you the idea that my intentions are to just shag anything that moves! And what gave you the idea that coming on here asking for advice is some sort of Juvenile bragging?

So far I haven't met anybody. I've had plans to meet other women that failed and I am meeting someone this Friday to try and get to know this person.



I think sometimes when writing on a forum things that are said take on their own interpretation till an understanding is reached. Don't worry about if someone doesn't get what you mean, it happens a lot. Main thing is that there will be some comments that will strike the right cord with you and help you make a choice.

I'm sure a lot of people have faced this same issue and it's good you brought it up. Hope it works out for the best.

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 08/23/12 02:21 PM



Generally "dating" is a plural social interaction. You are superficially meeting and getting to know a number of different people over the course of several invitations to do pleasurable things.

In an ideal world you would be exerciseing enough honesty and maturity even self preservation not to be shagging anything that will allow it but doesn't appear to be the case from your juvinile bragging. I actually hope you don't end up gut sick like a unteatherd child in a candy store.

However I think quickly your very public reputation, you are self-promoteing will catch up with you and your social desireability will collasp if your health doesn't.

May actually have other social consequences as employers who do read these sites for entertainment even unoffiacial screening of candidates for employment or promotions see you as just not worth the emotional wake you leave behind.

It might be stateing the obvious but I would suppose the young ladies in your area are having a grand laugh but hope that all who read this take note that just because you have the right to shag anyone you please it may end up to be a very public thing and they are often just being used for a very temporary measure and means very little if anything to some people.

I just hope you realize how you have publiclly stated in a un-retractable medium your activities and if any of these ladies do in fact choose to pursue you for any of a number of consequences that could occur you could be up to your neck in lawsuits. Considering that at least a few of them may have brothers, parents, or for that matter friends of any age, gender, or background I think I would be watching my scrawny behind. lol






What exactly is wrong with casual sex with a few partners if that's what you want? Some countries it's commonplace
And America is one of them:wink:


True and in some parts of America, as many parts of the world, the response to this kind of activity has the same kind of harsh results I suggest as this person may incur where he is from. I know some of the people of his country would find his behavior less than endearing representation of how men treat dating; especially when it includes their co-workers, neighbor's, friend's, sister's, and daughter's; adults or otherwise. I read the tread from the begining and if I drew conslusions that are not accurate then my apology. I seriously doubt it and my post stands.

It is a public forum and I am entitled to post my observations. If it hurts your pride that someone doesn't find you charming; deal with it.

no photo
Thu 08/23/12 02:24 PM


Generally "dating" is a plural social interaction. You are superficially meeting and getting to know a number of different people over the course of several invitations to do pleasurable things.

In an ideal world you would be exerciseing enough honesty and maturity even self preservation not to be shagging anything that will allow it but doesn't appear to be the case from your juvinile bragging. I actually hope you don't end up gut sick like a unteatherd child in a candy store.

However I think quickly your very public reputation, you are self-promoteing will catch up with you and your social desireability will collasp if your health doesn't.

May actually have other social consequences as employers who do read these sites for entertainment even unoffiacial screening of candidates for employment or promotions see you as just not worth the emotional wake you leave behind.

It might be stateing the obvious but I would suppose the young ladies in your area are having a grand laugh but hope that all who read this take note that just because you have the right to shag anyone you please it may end up to be a very public thing and they are often just being used for a very temporary measure and means very little if anything to some people.

I just hope you realize how you have publiclly stated in a un-retractable medium your activities and if any of these ladies do in fact choose to pursue you for any of a number of consequences that could occur you could be up to your neck in lawsuits. Considering that at least a few of them may have brothers, parents, or for that matter friends of any age, gender, or background I think I would be watching my scrawny behind. lol






What exactly is wrong with casual sex with a few partners if that's what you want? Some countries it's commonplace


I don't think there's anything wrong with it as long as you're honest about what's going on.

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 08/23/12 02:40 PM



Generally "dating" is a plural social interaction. You are superficially meeting and getting to know a number of different people over the course of several invitations to do pleasurable things.

In an ideal world you would be exerciseing enough honesty and maturity even self preservation not to be shagging anything that will allow it but doesn't appear to be the case from your juvinile bragging. I actually hope you don't end up gut sick like a unteatherd child in a candy store.

However I think quickly your very public reputation, you are self-promoteing will catch up with you and your social desireability will collasp if your health doesn't.

May actually have other social consequences as employers who do read these sites for entertainment even unoffiacial screening of candidates for employment or promotions see you as just not worth the emotional wake you leave behind.

It might be stateing the obvious but I would suppose the young ladies in your area are having a grand laugh but hope that all who read this take note that just because you have the right to shag anyone you please it may end up to be a very public thing and they are often just being used for a very temporary measure and means very little if anything to some people.

I just hope you realize how you have publiclly stated in a un-retractable medium your activities and if any of these ladies do in fact choose to pursue you for any of a number of consequences that could occur you could be up to your neck in lawsuits. Considering that at least a few of them may have brothers, parents, or for that matter friends of any age, gender, or background I think I would be watching my scrawny behind. lol






What exactly is wrong with casual sex with a few partners if that's what you want? Some countries it's commonplace


I don't think there's anything wrong with it as long as you're honest about what's going on.


"Few" being the operative word. (And hopefully practiceing safe sex but that is a whole another thread.) For those who are older and wiser and point out that these shall we say "revelations" (even if it is about one actual sexual partner) are not fair; especially if you are the one whose private life is being bandied around, is an opinion and he did ask for opinions how he should handle his "situation" not just endorsement. I wonder if one would like their reputation to be linked with this guy?

no photo
Thu 08/23/12 02:43 PM
Edited by singmesweet on Thu 08/23/12 02:44 PM



"Few" being the operative word. (And hopefully practiceing safe sex but that is a whole another thread.) For those who are older and wiser and point out that these shall we say "revelations" (even if it is about one actual sexual partner) are not fair; especially if you are the one whose private life is being bandied around, is an opinion and he did ask for opinions how he should handle his "situation" not just endorsement. I wonder if one would like their reputation to be linked with this guy?


If the guy is honest about how he's just looking for sex and that he's having sex with more than one person, I see no problem with it. If he's lying and being sneaky about it, hoping they don't find out, then it's a problem.

markc48's photo
Fri 08/31/12 08:43 PM
Honesty is the best policy.

metalwing's photo
Fri 08/31/12 09:03 PM
I'm just a pig.happy