I want to explore this about all you men and women about this phrase...I WANT HER/HIM BACK!!!...I've been in different relationships and when the relationships is OVER...IT'S OVER!. You will never see me pressing the rewind button and go back to the relationship in the past or see me moving in who I once lived with, it just won't happen. You know when it's done it's done and theirs a pretty good reason why you dumped him or her and I don't understand why anyone wants to go back. I may understand if they were a good piece of ASS or incredible in the sack I understand all that but theirs other people who are incredible in the sack, if you have confidence in your self and have game and you know in some point you will meet somebody else and move on with your LIFE!. But I heard from men and women who wants to go back I mean THAT'S CRAZY that's crazy, you left that person for a reason or more importantly THEY LEFT YOU! for a reason...RIGHT!... He or she cheated on you, nag all the time, had an argument He or She left you for a reason that you couldn't understand...TAKE A HINT....IT'S DONE!...RIGHT...IT'S DONE! And yet I talked to guys and I hear this not just once, not just twice, all the time (WHINING) I WANT HER BACK AND I'M GONNA DO WHAT EVER I HAVE TO DO TO GET HER BACK...WHAT EVER I HAVE TO DO I'LL GET HER BACK. C'mon I mean nobody is worth that when she cheated on you with your best friend, humiliated you on front of her friends, made you miserable, she disappears on you, all they remember about all the positive things like you remember the laughs but, what about the negative things. I think it's human nature to forget about the bad stuff that happen to you but, you got you remind yourself. I remember I was in a 7 month relationship with somebody with allot of laughs allot of fun, a fun person, a person who lighten my life when I'm feeling pretty down just having the best time but later on, things changed later on she would always trying to command to buy things for her later on she would constantly nagging, nagging, nagging and never listen to a word I said. I couldn't believe what happen on night and I just remember about this...I remember on night I was with friends and I got this call from my ex begging me to go back with her and if I wouldn't she would kill herself, and later she would never answer her cell phone, didn't answer her home phone friends didn't know where she was or didn't want to tell me where so I immediately called 911, and the police got involved and they were searching for her. She told she was gonna do it, she's gonna do herself in. Ultimately it turned out that she was at a local bar, had driven herself to the local bar I may add, getting herself drunk and guys were groping all over her and this is her way to get herself attention. Later I got a call from her she couldn't talk and couldn't get herself off the bar stool asking me to pick her up at the local bar...LOL!!

Now doesn't matter how much fun we had together how much laughs we shared together...she had the opportunity be with me already, and does not deserve the bait.

So I know theirs allot of you guys or girls out there uses the phrase: I WANT HER/HIM BACK!

I want to know if this is YOU!

i agree with you rob if speed limits on freeways are above 75 people are tempted to push limits so of course they are going to go 15 MI over the actual speed limit plus the traffic flow anyway

No.......I like fresh meat!!!

Gypsy.....
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ya !! I agree !

I know a woman who found out her husband had been having an affair with another woman for 12(read that) twelve years!!! they split up... but then she got back together with him! All because she couldn't maintain the lifestyle that she was accustomed to...how crazy is that?

lol gypsy ...........

When it's over it is over why re live the drama......

no thanks.part as friends and be done with it.

You know....there could be extenuating circumstances as to why you would go back with someone. Not all things are so cut and dry, is all I have to say...

Nope. No jumping out of the frying pan and back into the fire for me. After being proverbiably getting struck by lightening twice I decided to through the lightening rod away. Third time is not always charm; It is sometimes the survival instinct kicking in while there are still a few marbles to play with.