I've been a member for a couple days and I'm sending messages and I'm not getting anywhere. No views or mesages back. I didn't know if I was doing something wrong? Help.

Well your picture is a woman but your profile says you are a man looking for a woman.

You can change it here

http://mingle2.com/user/edit_profile

But, also, your profile says nothing about you really

Thank you. I believe I got it changed. I did add more on the profile but there's not really any places to put more about me.

Hey you, ya it seems slow on here . But you shouldn't be havin trouble give it a little time. If you want to chat drop
Me a line. Have a good day.

send me a msg if ur interested

They'll find you. If you look at your profile in stealth you will see other girls looking for girls as well. You can then look at their profiles. I only recently found this out so you might want to give this a try.

Just log out, then click on your own profile. You will then see girls similar to your settings.

Good luck and watch out for the drooling boys.

you look good :)

From what I've heard from others in your situation, it is not easy to get someone interested in an intimate encounter when one party is married or taken. Most (not all, but most) lesbian women are looking for a relationship and they don't want to be the third party.

Well I'm actually married to a man but I'm looking for a female to play with. Sorry guys I'm not interested at all.

That was my point. There aren't many women looking for a no strings attached sexual relationship. And, please consider the damage this could do to your marriage. Most guys are all for the "threesome" or get turned on by the idea of their wife with another woman. But, these are fantasies they have and the reality can go a bit sideways. Be careful.

We have been married for a few years and have done this since the beginning. We've had no problems abd he never puts me in a situation I feel uncomfortable with. No worries.

Good luck to you.

And the 2 guys above obviously didn't read her profile haha.

you mean we have to read here as well????

You could pretend.

i thought we all did that.

Your profile says what you want but doesn't say you are offering much to anyone else so maybe the people are having a problem with the selfish factor. Or the risky nature of this kind of fooling around. Ssoner or later your situation is probably going to blow up in your face and most people don't want to get cuaght in the cross fire.

I guess I don't follow how this is risky? We've done this for years and we are both ok with this. As for my wants...I'm cut and dry. What you see is what you get and if you don't like what I want don't leave me a message. I never understood why people have to ***** foot around stuff and not get to the point. I'm not here to replace or carry on a relationship. I'm here fun and soley that.

On an open forum your going to get a wide range of opinions and people messaging you regardless of your requests to have them not. I guess what I'm a little surprised at (being pretty open minded) is why are you looking here? There are tons of more exotic sites out there to choose a much wider selection of what you are looking for than the some what conservative Mingle.

I have friends that are into what you are and they wouldn't use mingle as a place to surf for open exotic adventures. Your request are the norm on other sites but a little out there for what I have seen here on mingle since I have been a member.

I think it's cool that you want to be straight forward, but do you see a lot of people here that are potentially into what you are, as opposed to other sites?

I could be way out in left field but it almost seems like a playboy bunny sitting in a southern baptist church looking for someone to get naked with during service don't you think?

You say "I'm here for fun and soley that" but from where I sit, I don't see a lot of that kind of fun on mingle besides the joking that goes on and you seem much more into the quest. Or for you is that the quest to find some takers on a more conservative site?

You just have me curious, maybe even puzzled why you would take a harder route to find what your asking for.