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cuz guy a is more fun than guy b!!
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But lets be real. Honesty and trust come later but initially the spark has to be there, the physical attraction, the omg he's cute attraction needs to be there. Or else there will never be the moment to find out if he's a player or a keeper. So you think looks are more important. Eh, there's some people who feel that way, but what about if you flip it, how many really hot guys do you see with average women, and what do you think then? No im not saying looks are more important, but i think in the end of the day people say well i just want x y z and blah blah blah and it doesn't matter what they are from the outside. And as far as really hot guys with average women. She better be loaded lol 
But in all honesty if your an average looking guy and if you want approach an above average looking girl then maybe your average looks might not be enough. Unless if you have a super personality and they somehow manage to talk to you and then get to know your personality then it might be a different story. I think She's probably really good in bed. 
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Here to start an open discussion on WhatWomenWant? LOL But seriously my question to you out there is, what does a women look in a man. How important is looks? What are other things which facilitate the attraction? How important is money(not talking about him mooching off you), but do you look for financial status? What makes you pick guy a over guy b, taking into consideration that they are both not too bad on the eyes. Hope to get this ball rolling. :) I know what I want in terms of wanting someone who's honest/open, reasonably attractive, employed etc and there's been quite a few men that met my criteria but what's missing a lot of the time is chemistry. |
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I'll be really honest. I am extremely attracted to smart guys. My last boyfriend was not attractive in the least, but I fell head over heels with his brain. Making me laugh is a huge plus too. I can't stand it when a guy takes himself so seriously that he won't smile or laugh.
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but I fell head over heels with his brain.
Did you keep it in a jar? |
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I wish I had. It was his best feature. No, we had a mutual friend and so we started talking. I did not find him attractive AT ALL until I started talking to him. Unfortunately, he peaked at the brain.
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Well, he could have peaked at the spleen... welcome to Mingle
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Every woman wants something different, same as men. There's certain commonalities like honesty, trust, communication, make me laugh, etc but some ppl need to see the goods before they decide if they even want to talk to that person (many men are this way, and women can be too)and others are happy enough getting to know someone first and letting nature take its course.
There's no right or wrong answer, no "one size fits all". For me, I enjoy getting to know someone because honestly who cares if they're hot when they can't hold a decent conversation? Life and relationships don't happen in the bedroom 24/7 even if we want it to lol. You usually have to talk to the person once in awhile ;) |
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I think freedom to be yourself with a man is important. I go for humour, inelligence, a man who can think outside the square, motivated, kind, same values, confident, sociable, he speaks his mind yet is gracious, playful & adventurous :-)
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Every woman wants something different, same as men. There's certain commonalities like honesty, trust, communication, make me laugh, etc but some ppl need to see the goods before they decide if they even want to talk to that person (many men are this way, and women can be too)and others are happy enough getting to know someone first and letting nature take its course. There's no right or wrong answer, no "one size fits all". For me, I enjoy getting to know someone because honestly who cares if they're hot when they can't hold a decent conversation? Life and relationships don't happen in the bedroom 24/7 even if we want it to lol. You usually have to talk to the person once in awhile ;) I agree with you, i think women will over look the looks if the person has something else to bring to the table , but a man will be on his primal instinct of mating every time they see a women 
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there's been quite a few men that met my criteria but what's missing a lot of the time is chemistry. |
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I don't believe in these algorithms at all, they are a guesstimation of how two people will be based on the question they answer.
you can't base it on a test. We all know that people lie on a test, and some of them make you answer so many question that you get tired and just pick what ever. |
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Maybe being good looking just makes it easier to "get your foot in the door"? But IF, and a BIG IF there, a guys gets his chance to "shine" regardless of how he looks, and he actually has something to "shine" through,....then you will see those couples that have you questing...I posted this statement in another thread on another sorta related topic..but....I have had 10's become 1's with only a few minutes of conversation with them. Its whatever is inside. It has a way of leaking out!
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I'm looking to have a soft place to fall. Someone that will have my back and not disappear when the going gets rough.
My last bf was extremely tall and attractive, but not much of a heart. I have found that extremely good looking men are self centered and rude. |
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Maybe being good looking just makes it easier to "get your foot in the door"? But IF, and a BIG IF there, a guys gets his chance to "shine" regardless of how he looks, and he actually has something to "shine" through,....then you will see those couples that have you questing...I posted this statement in another thread on another sorta related topic..but....I have had 10's become 1's with only a few minutes of conversation with them. Its whatever is inside. It has a way of leaking out! that sums up what I think pretty well. I usually notice a guys teeth first...I go for beautiful, white shiny teeth. I imagine for guys you call "average" it's easier to find a partner at work,school, etc. ...anywhere where women get to know him better as a friend. Friends make the best lovers anyway ;) |
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0h..i d0nt care ab0ut m0ney matters f0r i can w0rk f0r myself..i just need a guy wh0se caring en0ugh..the one wh0 can stick with me but n0t stick to many when i cant see..haha..s0me0ne wh0 can make me feel special..im m0re of an em0ti0nal pers0n s0 i need s0me0ne wh0 sh0ws affecti0n a l0t..haha..age d0esnt matter to me als0..
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A confident man is sexy, and I don't mean over the top 'confidence'; someone who is confident in their own skin as an adult male. And decisiveness in a man is very attractive. For me, making informed decisions (doesn't mean he will always be right) shows a man's leadership traits; that trumps physical looks, etc. Because someone like that will bring value to one's life and of, course women should be willing to bring value to men's lives too.
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Why would I bother dating someone who is only good-looking or rich if they are mean? No thanks. A rich guy once came up to me in a bar, and demanded [not even asked first] that I need to hire a hotel room with him. He had all the money, but that doesn't gaurantee you're datable. Rich guys are always some assumption that as long as they have a lot of money a woman will put up with him no matter how he acts. Well I'm sorry, but money CAN'T buy me love. POLITE rich men? Yes. DOWNRIGHT RUDE rich men? No thanks.
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