someone is really interested in you and you aren't interested in being with them and no matter how many times you tell them that they are still persistant about their feelings for you?

block them if they are on the site. In real life, get a restraining order!!!

^^^^^^^^^^^^what she said

Hey Gypsy

thanks for answering, i was thinking no one was going to

You have to be honest ... tell them you just aren't feeling what you need to be feeling to pursue a romantic relationship with them and that it is not going to change. If he is persistent then all the more reason for you to be firm and clear.

Good luck.

just tell him how u feel and say that u dont like him that way and just as fiends

well thanks ladies, I have told him i am not interested in a romantic relationship, and was clear and firm.... after i did that he was still persistant....

I tried the friends way and he just seemed to get more persistant.

but thanks again

Has it become a real life stalking issue or is it online?

its online, but i still dont feel good about it.... it was the reason for a break from here

Claudette..email me

Well you can have a scream/smack down session in a thread like I did and then almost get banned for it!!!! But I dont always recommend it!!!

nah i wont do that Gypsy, It wouldnt be me to do that

the best idea is to pretend like you're interested in them.

Only, stop showering or using deodorant. Or brushing your teeth. Also, make comments about your scat fetish and how much it turns you on when your lover rubs your feces all over himself.

If it's online, only the last option has any chance of working. So you may just have to kick it up a notch, and talk about your necrophilia fetish, and how that has gotten you into trouble in the past, and is the main reason none of your previous relationships lasted more than a few weeks (because decaying bodies smell bad).

ok thanks for the tips aj

@aj

No problem.

Also, there's a chance this guy might be a werewolves. If you see any suspicious behaviour, especially that which coincides with the full moon, email me and I'll take care of him. Somewhere I still have nerf gun with silver nerf darts.

ok i will keep that in mind aj

If he doesn't get it and you are getting uncomfortable ... just cut off contact

ok thanks ArtGurl, I have done that, i still feel hmmmmmmmm thrown off when I see him posting