first off, i do not judge... but i do speak my mind...

what if you were browsing profiles and ran into one from your wife/husband? how would you react? how would you feel about that?

i get irritated when i see profiles stating married but looking for sex. wow! if things are that bad, i suggest either A) to try to work things out with your marriage. or B) end it! dont cheat, end things first then move on in the direction you choose.

id never tell someone to just end their marriage, but ive been on the other side of the fence and its not a pleasant or nice place to be.