That I do. Polka anyone???

What is oh soooooo wonderful about openess, Or the honest effort of making a conviction to where u stand in regards to friends/companions and where you might find one, is ur aware people do view things to be different in their world.

Myself it is a risk everytime I walk out the front door. So its not about taking a risk. And well, its all in how see your world and how far your willing to go to have a friend. I have cherished friends close to me, cherished friends close to my heart that have left the state, that take a plane trip to see. ::shrug:: Nevertheless, some people feel rooted regardless to what others see. You cant see thru ones eye, or feel what someone else's heart feel. You cant "will" someone to feel a certain way.

I agree love has no geographic range, has no face, see's no time, nor no place. Yet, I am here, not there, and this is where they'd have to be for it to ever be an us. (period!)


Respectfully,

I know everyone has there opinion and I do respect that and this is true that not everyone is going to see the same things as I or anyone else does. Walking out your door is a whole different experience then falling inlove with someone. So as you see taking a resk is different for me. The hart is a sensitive thing and most are afraid to open that up these days and let somone in. So in that matter it is to most taking a risk. Life will always happen but to find that one will not.

I agree with you Shadow, if you find that right person for you, you need to decide what is important in your life, material things or being with the person that makes you happy. Right now I have a house trapping me here and my dad, but once the house is sold, I will have freedom, and my dad could be moved to a nursing home closer to my brother, I have had sole responsibility for him for 4+ years now, let baby brother step up to the plate for awhile. If I met the right person, I would look at moving, life is too short to not look at going for some happiness in my life finally. I was looking for a job when I got this one and I have good job skills.

I absolutely agree, if you find the person that will make you happy, then do whatever you need to, to make your life together a reality, if they can't come to you, then you go to them. Some people can't, but then hopefully their intended could make the move to them.

i agree, however i do own a house, hold a fulltime job...none of which would hold me back! what would? my children!!!
i can not drag them around chasing guys. and to relocate them far from their father (who is 2 hours away) would not be right.

I agree w/Nurjoyce.. I have two teens that will be finishing h.s. in the next few years. Stability is very important within a family to me. Another thing I would like to express.

I believe there is NOT just one person made for each individual. I believe there are many for each of us. It is not as easy as recognition when u cross paths, its just not the way it works. Trials and choices are presented to us throughout our life and I kno for myself I would have to make the best possible choice based on my present situation,(real life situations, ya kno the things u can touch, and look at in real time..) I feel it(love) will present itself if it was meant.. Im not so sure 94838377377489493993 miles away is love presenting itself.., That is my belief..
TY..

Good luck..


Respectfully,

I agree with both you, Cali and Joyce too. I am at a different point in my life than you are, my daughter is 32, so not an issue in my life. I see things differently than you do. I was stating from my point of view. We all have to make our own choices and do what is best for us and our families. I know you will make the best choices for you when the time arises. Good luck.

nurjoyce I agree with you you just can't just chase every "tom'that comes in your life when you have kids. There are many situations where most are not ready for that move or shell we say change.

Cali66 brang up an interesting point. She said,I believe there is NOT just one person made for each individual. I believe there are many for each of us.

Looking at that and knowing my life, what I been through and who I met as far as relationships go. This may of happen to some and I mean very few that may have been lucky enough to run into a couple of the many that are made for us. Hm but in reality most will only find the one "once in there life" and if we were to run into the many that are made for us. These sites would have no purpose other then to make friends.

See my whole thing on this topic is based on people that have that chance and will not take it because there afraid of change. It don't matter where you live,who you are or what you really do in life. In any relationship you have to be willing to give 100% of you in order for it to work. There is none of this ill meet you half way. Both have to be willing to make that change or it will never work.

True ya can't move around when the kids are growing up they must have a stable place. For me my kids are grown but would still be hard for now I have my grandbaby too lol

I traveled from coast to coast to be with the one i could not live without. Even though the relationship ended the greatest love of my life came along. My child. I am unable to travel due to the state custody laws for now. But that doesnt mean at a later time I couldnt. Would i do it all over again for love? You dam skippy i would!!!!