I would like to hear from anybody who was tricked into having a child. This goes both ways. A woman who the guy poked holes in the condom. A guy who she swore up and down the street to Jesus and Moses that she was on the pill but was not.

I know most of you would not hold it against the child. At least those of you whom I am friends with do not think that way.

Anybody tricked into a child and it turned out okay in the end with the S.O. I just wonder if anybody made the best of it. I do not know anyone in real life who that S.O. did not go on to betray in another way.

I am not talking about accidentally serendipity type pregnancies. I am talking about blatantly someone forced someone else into a child.

On both sides of the coin whether you were the man or woman. How did you feel?

My friends in real life who this happened to DO NOT regret the child but they went on to go through heck with the S.O. who did this because it is NOT a rational person.

Ohhh I thought this was going to be tips on trapping kids in the wild.

I know someone who was seeing a girl for seven years, the girl then returned home to Mexico because of Visa restrichions and 'discovered' she was pregnant with...wait for it...twins! The guy initially before he knew they were twins was going to ask her to abort it but he was in a loose-loose situation from the start on that because it is illegal to abort babies in Mexico! He has accepted them never the less and supports them but is no longer with the partner because of distance and other issues.

How about the opposite?

Guy going on and on and on for ages about how much he wants a kid, and then when the woman gets pregnant, he has a sudden change of heart.

I dont see how these things can work. Too much damage done.

Maybe with therapy