Topic: torn between 2
dungonmasterRJ's photo
Thu 07/26/07 11:54 PM
ok there are 2 women in my life that mean the world to me would rope the moon for them love them in 2 very dif ways one has stod by my side for 6 yrs through up and down and has been a wonderfull friend that is my everything then theres my H.S sweetheart who i love and will always love but not in that way she just cant get it through her head that that is over and have ran out of ways to tell. then there the other one i was tell you about she is gettin ready to move to was has a BF that she has been with for 6 months that she seem happy with i so badly want to tell her how i fell but i dont want to roun a relationship what to do

any advise plese fell free
thnks RJ

Marie55's photo
Thu 07/26/07 11:59 PM
Sounds like you only have one chance to tell her how you feel or it will be too late. Once she has moved in with the boyfriend, it is too late. Better tell her now or risk losing her forever.

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Fri 07/27/07 12:05 AM
Obviously you are here to move on on both of them. J/K Well, dude do what is right in mind and true. Good luck!

LAMom's photo
Fri 07/27/07 12:10 AM
((RJ)))))

Sweetie follow your heart,, listen to your Soul your answers are within,,,,

I can say if it were me I would tell her,, sometimes in life we only get one chance,,

Ohhhhhhhhhh Its nice seeing you again, its been a while

Blessed Be Sweetie flowerforyou flowerforyou

dungonmasterRJ's photo
Fri 07/27/07 12:19 AM
ok think you guys

LA nice to see you 2 yeah ive been hideen kind of alot to think about i guess

LAMom's photo
Fri 07/27/07 12:21 AM
Yeah I would say so,,, Good Luck flowerforyou flowerforyou

dungonmasterRJ's photo
Fri 07/27/07 12:27 AM
thnks LA

WhispersandWinks's photo
Fri 07/27/07 04:52 AM
RJ: It seems oversimplified, but there's a reason for it. It is simple......Nothing ventured, nothing gained.....

Tell her.....you haven't been totally honest with her by holding back...who's to say she's with "dude" because she doesn't think you are an option???

Go for the gold, son.........

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 07/27/07 07:12 AM
Even tho we all say tell her the reason is so there is no what if's later it will at least get it off your mind and you will know you did what was needed to do. Not that we all do as we say we know what is right but then at times don't have the guts ourselves to say to someone what we should when we could.

So ya tell her now or forever hold your tongue.bigsmile

bamabeecee's photo
Fri 07/27/07 08:17 AM
Never be afraid to love. Even if it doesn't work out, love always makes you better, stronger, if you learn about yourself from it.

ladynluv2be's photo
Fri 07/27/07 10:12 AM
Follow your heart, if you want to be with her tell her before it is to late

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Fri 07/27/07 05:47 PM
Tell her how you feel.you may only have 1 chance.You have gotten some good advise here RJ..Follow your heart!

(((((((((Denise))))))))flowerforyou

dungonmasterRJ's photo
Fri 07/27/07 10:46 PM
thank you all for your great addvise