Can someone tell me why no.one wants to talk to me i message them and nothing am.i really that bad :-(

There is nothing wrong with you...but perhaps you will have better results when you stop attempting to define your worthiness (or lack thereof) based on other people's degree of response to you.

I read your profile and it did not really leave me the desire to know you. I suggest you talk a little more about what you enjoy and what you are looking for. Keep your profile positive. Maybe a couple more pics may help too. Join the forums and make some friends ..you need to give the site a chance.
Good luck to you

I would like to know the same thing?
I get a couple yeses on mutual meet me but no one responds back,even when I send wink no one gets back to me what's up with that?

Have you tried a bar?

Winks dont do it for me, im sure some ladies feel the same. I like someone to engage me in convo and so I imagine messaging more than one line works better... and if you want to just make a statement (You look nice etc..) try to end with a question ('where is the beach in your pic?', or 'it looks like you have green eyes, is that right?') so they are encouraged to respond.

When they dont message back, its because of one of the many things that makes people not bother, dont take it personally, message a few others.

I do have to say though, I get some winks and when I mail back not many follow up their wink with a message! I fail to understand this sometimes, but guess its just light flirting and they only want to hint to me im fit or something (or winked the wrong guy maybe?!?)