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Giving advice when asking for it is different than a person judging you or judging your situation without even knowing your situation...which is the point i was making. As far as posts go...if it bugs me like said i'm going to speak my mind...it is what it is. ..and if it bugs me..it doesn't necessarily mean that it had empowered me to the point that i'm in a corner crying. I speak my mind..thus hopefully preventing judgmental people from even attempting a 'friendship' with me....i don't want to be surrounded with simple minded people. ...it was just a rant. Annnnnywho..
....anyone know how to make french toast....annnnnd would anyone like to make me some? 
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Ok i thought there was a place for 'rants and raves' So i just got my panties in bunch over comments to a post i just read and had my little venting session. Why? Why are people so judgmental? Especially when you don't have all the facts..WHY? You do know that your so called "opinions" can hurt right? My thing is, it is ok to have an opinion...You SHOULD have an opinion on your own, but don't be smart about your judgment. There are always two sides to a story, no matter what the situation is. Sometimes an outsiders perspective can be good, when once again YOU KNOW ALL THE FACTS. Idk...I guess it just made me mad cause i was in a situation and still kind of am with these haters that don't know me, the true story, or my situation but yet they spread their "opinion" to others about me which obviously isn't a very nice one. I'm a very open person, if you want to know something then just ask...dont make assumptions and then spread your infectious negativity to others just because you THINK you know what your talking about. Get a life and stay out of mine...especially since i didn't ask you for your opinion to begin with. UUGGGHHHHHH -ok- Exhale Annnnnnd... -wuuusaaaah- 
im judging you. just thought you should know ;-P Stop it stop it stop it stop it!!! Aaahhhhh 
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Ok i thought there was a place for 'rants and raves' So i just got my panties in bunch over comments to a post i just read and had my little venting session. Why? Why are people so judgmental? Especially when you don't have all the facts..WHY? You do know that your so called "opinions" can hurt right? My thing is, it is ok to have an opinion...You SHOULD have an opinion on your own, but don't be smart about your judgment. There are always two sides to a story, no matter what the situation is. Sometimes an outsiders perspective can be good, when once again YOU KNOW ALL THE FACTS. Idk...I guess it just made me mad cause i was in a situation and still kind of am with these haters that don't know me, the true story, or my situation but yet they spread their "opinion" to others about me which obviously isn't a very nice one. I'm a very open person, if you want to know something then just ask...dont make assumptions and then spread your infectious negativity to others just because you THINK you know what your talking about. Get a life and stay out of mine...especially since i didn't ask you for your opinion to begin with. UUGGGHHHHHH -ok- Exhale Annnnnnd... -wuuusaaaah-
Everyone one has a standard of conduct or preconceptual concepts that they judge others by. Everyone is guilty, although we try not to, it's an automatic thing that people choose friends by or dhoose not to have friends by......it is who you ar as much as you try not to you always will |
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I am judgemental about smokers, people with tattoos. So I try to change a little but it ain't easy.
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I am judgemental about smokers, people with tattoos. So I try to change a little but it ain't easy.  I am a smoker...and covered in tattoos. 
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Me too Hippie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How the hell did we get to be friends??????
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When you post on a site like this, you will get opinions from others whether you ask for them or not. You will not agree with some opinions, but that's life. Don't always assume that people are out to get you or are trying to be mean. Some people are just straight forward and will say what they think. It isn't always meant as an insult.
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When you post on a site like this, you will get opinions from others whether you ask for them or not. You will not agree with some opinions, but that's life. Don't always assume that people are out to get you or are trying to be mean. Some people are just straight forward and will say what they think. It isn't always meant as an insult. I agree here. I am in direct control of how I will allow people and their opinions to affect me. Bottom line is.. if I allow it, I am simply poisoning my life and happiness. Therefore, I don't. Even when someone disagrees or says hateful things, I listen and move on. |
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Edited by
Torgo70
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Fri 04/20/12 10:21 AM
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I know I am, but what are you? the perviest. An understatement. |
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If someone doesn't like you for whatever reason, they're not worth giving two hoots about. I'd rather spend my time on friendlier people, to be fair.
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I am judgemental about smokers, people with tattoos. So I try to change a little but it ain't easy. I am a smoker...and covered in tattoos.
And absolutely gorgeous. |
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Me too Hippie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How the hell did we get to be friends??????
Because I am like anything else, I am constantly changing. |
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If someone doesn't like you for whatever reason, they're not worth giving two hoots about. I'd rather spend my time on friendlier people, to be fair. Did someone mention hoots? I have plenty to spare! |
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