its a qustion i have often asked myself.. i am truly interested in your oppion thank you.

"hate" is a strong word. why bother saying a thing...if you don't like her kids, don't even try dating her. it's not fair to her OR her children.

I agree with LuLu

am just making fun of other post, i would never date a women if didnt like her kids...gigles

but if i dont like thier kids i dont think iw ould tell her either

Show some backbone, tell her you don't like her kids. As one of the few men who has custody of his kids I can guarantee you she will tell you if she hates your kids.

if i was with a man and he told me streght out that he hated my kids.. i would kick his ''f butt to the curb, as my kids were there before he ever was..my mom was with a man like that as well he couldnt expect his own kids and she finally left his butt.

Here, Here, Lulu, you have my VOTE.

can you tell that queene really wants to use the other word for butt? he he...just kiddin' :D!

Quennie, please do not hold back. Tell us how you really feel.

sorrie to here that queen i wonder why men like that dont date barren women.

dude why or how could you hate anyones kids,they are innocent and so cute. they need somone to look up to. yeah if they get annoying that happens sometimes but hate. HATE is a big word man.i Love all kids.

dating a woman with kids is a package deal. The lady and her children, if you don't like the kids, it will only hamper the relationship.

Yes, kids can be saccharine and annoying to downright spawn of Hell (I haved 2, occasionally)

Tell a woman that her offspring are an annoyance to you and you have told her that a very LARGE part of her life is of no use to you.

Love it or leave it

From the sound of things, some things are better left unsaid.

But if the truth hurts that bad to say hey I'm sorry this thing between you and me would work but the kids and all I think I would have to find somebody else, things just aren't working between your kids and me.

I guess if I would put it nice like that then hopefully that women would understand.

To be honest I wouldn't know, I try to get a long with every body and any one if things just don't work out then maybe it wasn't meant to be.

There are always better ways around this whole thing any how, your either right forward or you beat around the bush and just make something up and or if all else fails then say hey things are working out and sorry.

But from the sound of things other women wouldn't like it from if a guy told them that they " hated " kids.

I'm just guessing here though since I'm unsure and never had dated any one so I'm a lost soul here lol.

Yeah sure tell her....Then wait for the fall-out!!!!!!!!

Are you big enough to take on their father.

never ever tell a woman you "hate her kids" are you suicidal?

you could never come between a woman and her kids at least that is my opinion if you tell her be prepared to end any and all communication

if you are dating a woman and hate her kids, then when another one (yours) comes along, I suppose you will hate it also if for no reason other than she is mother to it. stay away from women altogeather then you have no problem.

NEVER, EVER, TELL A WOMAN YOU HATE HER CHILDREN. IT'S LIKE MESSING WITH BEAR CUBS.

Scenario: F: honeu you have been so distant lately, whats wrong? M: I dunno I just really HATE your kids. I just dont ever see that going well at all