Ok so i am over the x. have been for a while. but what i am finding more and more is a lot of girls always mad because they cant find that guy that treats them right. and i watch so many friends of mine go from guy to guy and they are the same guys and they cant figure it out.i am sure that there are other guys like me that get looked over. and we wonder why. and i am not the best looking guy. i am a little bigger but i am not fat. but i am also not "ripped". so basicly. what are the girls looking for then? they just gunna go from hot guy to hot guy until maybe some day that hot guy turns up that thinks like us real guys. if so then why make yourself go through all that hurt.? i know lots of questions, but i am interested to see what anyone has to say.