Topic: Let the ratings begin...
kale68's photo
Tue 02/28/12 06:18 PM
Ok...Be gentle...LoL...what

kale68's photo
Fri 03/02/12 05:11 PM
No comments...? Is that a good or bad thing...LoL

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Fri 03/02/12 05:45 PM
Great selection of pics but you have the four words that I really don't like to read in a profile...long walks, candlelit dinners, the rain and beaches..instant turn off.

Other than the fact that you like cooking/can cook and you're a romantic, I didn't really get a gist of who you are and the type of person that you are hoping to meet. Maybe that's because I couldn't get past what I consider to be clichés...

This is just my opinion...good luck in your search.



kale68's photo
Fri 03/02/12 05:48 PM

Great selection of pics but you have the four words that I really don't like to read in a profile...long walks, candlelit dinners, the rain and beaches..instant turn off.

Other than the fact that you like cooking/can cook and you're a romantic, I didn't really get a gist of who you are and the type of person that you are hoping to meet. Maybe that's because I couldn't get past what I consider to be clichés...

This is just my opinion...good luck in your search.



Thank you and noted...Im new to this whole thing and believe me I sat here so long wondering what to say...LoL

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Fri 03/02/12 06:06 PM


Great selection of pics but you have the four words that I really don't like to read in a profile...long walks, candlelit dinners, the rain and beaches..instant turn off.

Other than the fact that you like cooking/can cook and you're a romantic, I didn't really get a gist of who you are and the type of person that you are hoping to meet. Maybe that's because I couldn't get past what I consider to be clichés...

This is just my opinion...good luck in your search.



Thank you and noted...Im new to this whole thing and believe me I sat here so long wondering what to say...LoL


You're not alone in that...not really knowing what to write :smile:.

My suggestion would be to not write something that you think women want to hear as you'll only come across as fake.

Start off with a few short paragraphs that you can build on at a later time once you're more certain about what you want to say about yourself and the type of person you hope to attract.

Welcome to the site.

kale68's photo
Fri 03/02/12 06:08 PM



Great selection of pics but you have the four words that I really don't like to read in a profile...long walks, candlelit dinners, the rain and beaches..instant turn off.

Other than the fact that you like cooking/can cook and you're a romantic, I didn't really get a gist of who you are and the type of person that you are hoping to meet. Maybe that's because I couldn't get past what I consider to be clichés...

This is just my opinion...good luck in your search.



Thank you and noted...Im new to this whole thing and believe me I sat here so long wondering what to say...LoL


You're not alone in that...not really knowing what to write :smile:.

My suggestion would be to not write something that you think women want to hear as you'll only come across as fake.

Start off with a few short paragraphs that you can build on at a later time once you're more certain about what you want to say about yourself and the type of person you hope to attract.

Welcome to the site.

I changed my profile so do you mind looking again and reply...

kale68's photo
Fri 03/02/12 06:09 PM

Ya, looks good other than the abundance of cliches. Just be you. write about stuff you really like and what you want.

There is also a mixed message thing goin on...you say your looking for friendship but gush about how into romance you are. What are you saying really? its a little confusing/contradictory.

Of course the bottom line is that you should have whatever you feel comfortable having in your profile. Just some ideas here.
Will you read my changes and tell me what you think...

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Fri 03/02/12 06:17 PM
Edited by 42BlackBBW on Fri 03/02/12 06:18 PM
:thumbsup: 100x better.

Your revision makes you come across as genuine, interesting and tells me that you've got a brain behind those shades :smile:.

kale68's photo
Fri 03/02/12 06:21 PM

:thumbsup: 100x better.

Your revision makes you come across as genuine, interesting and tells me that you've got a brain behind those shades :smile:.
Hahaha...Thank you...The shades are scripts as all my glasses...Instead of thinking this time I jus wrote...:smile:

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Fri 03/02/12 06:28 PM
Ah, so they serve a practical purpose and not just there to emphasise that you're an attractive man laugh

Don't mind me, I get flirty when I'm tired laugh

kale68's photo
Fri 03/02/12 06:32 PM

Ah, so they serve a practical purpose and not just there to emphasise that you're an attractive man laugh

Don't mind me, I get flirty when I'm tired laugh
Haha...Yep I need'em and Thank you very muchhappy

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Fri 03/02/12 06:38 PM


Ah, so they serve a practical purpose and not just there to emphasise that you're an attractive man laugh

Don't mind me, I get flirty when I'm tired laugh
Haha...Yep I need'em and Thank you very muchhappy


No worries...and I'm so not offended that you didn't return the compliment laugh rofl. That settles it, I'm to bed. I'm just gonna get worse if I stay up much long.

Nice chatting to ya waving

kale68's photo
Fri 03/02/12 06:41 PM



Ah, so they serve a practical purpose and not just there to emphasise that you're an attractive man laugh

Don't mind me, I get flirty when I'm tired laugh
Haha...Yep I need'em and Thank you very muchhappy


No worries...and I'm so not offended that you didn't return the compliment laugh rofl. That settles it, I'm to bed. I'm just gonna get worse if I stay up much long.

Nice chatting to ya waving
I dont know whats proper yet on here...Dont wann offend or over step boundries you know...Good nite young lady...:)

mardi_gras999's photo
Thu 03/08/12 08:46 PM
i just read your comments,suggestions and perception as well and i found it interesting..ur such a good conversationalist.i love people like u,it make sense really

kale68's photo
Fri 03/09/12 05:22 AM

i just read your comments,suggestions and perception as well and i found it interesting..ur such a good conversationalist.i love people like u,it make sense really
Thanks mardi_graflowerforyou

kale68's photo
Fri 03/09/12 06:23 AM

Love poems make me uncomfortable in the early stages of a relationship.

Including one in the profile seems inappropriate but thats just me.

Again, you say you look for friendship and throw in romance poem. Really should pick one.

jmo
its an old writ...just showing who i am...Shows part of my character...an insight of me...some people will like it and others wont but thats what makes us all different and without making friends how you ever gonna find that romance...