so I need some advice about this women I work with, not sure if she is giving out signals, or just being flirty. So this is how it began.


one day as I was working the late shift putting a cart back.
I passed her at subway she was eating at the table she said
hey to me we made small talk like whats up. Just now getting
off stuff like that. She was waiting for ride.

To avoid getting in trouble at work I said talk to u later.
Next week I clocked out for lunch started playing my ipod
watching a movie. Heard knocks on table looked up there she
was sitting at another table. With her friends she said hey
my friend I waved at her next week I was working she passed
me and said hey to me smiling later that night i saw her on
my way to clock out she waved to me

me the next week got off early walked overto talk to her
and ask her her name I could not say it or spell it for the
lifeof me. She ignore's me. Last time I got a plate, she smiled.
And just said hey.

How could I know her name? The badge is fliped around.
This has been bugging me becasue the waves she did just
seemed like she was flirting with me. Just need some advice
here. I plan on talking to her more. Saying I'm sorry for
not knowing her name(Is that the right move?)

giving out signals pretty much is being flirty

DK why she ignored u

but just keep up the light conversations - don't be concerned about your next "move"

it is not a game - just be yourself and ask for her name - and her # if u are comfortable enough to ask for both

JMHO

Well, to me it seems like yes she is giving you signals. She spoke to you several times. I think telling her honestly that you didn't know her name and you're sorry is a good thing to do. Tell her about her badge being turned over so you couldn't see it. It sounds like you know what to do from there on. If she's just flirting meaninglessly, you'll be able to tell pretty soon. Good luck. :)

I think the reason why she ignored me. Is becasue i didn't know her name. Talked to her all this time. She knew mine. I'm not a very self confident person.

She is NOT giving you signals and don't confuse women being friendly at work(or who you know from work) with them giving out signals.

well try to make the next time you talk one where you are able to be one on one without having either of you rushing back to work & ask her name - then you will have time to talk a little and if she seems friendly & sticks around ask for her #

A t as if nothing negative happened, ask her to go out casually, even with a group of friends if necessary, bring a box of condoms and lube and something else kinky, and don't be assuming, after years of marriage you will still not get into her head well enough, don't pretend to be there now! Good luck, mistakes are a spice of life!!!!!

Agree. She's being friendly even possibly flirty but this doesn't mean that she wants you to act on it. Wait and see what she does next.