Jane, I think you already knew the answer to your question anyway. But
I guess you needed some reassurance too. I know when you don't have much
of any other choices one tends to wonder about something that seems too
good to be true. I know when I was strapped for cash, I got a letter
with a check in it for a large sum of money as a loan from a Bank. I was
soo tempted to just cash it and pay off my debts. But I held off because
somehow I knew it would be a mistake. I told a friend about this loan
and he said if he would kill me if I tried to cash it cause he knew it
would ruin me. So I never cashed it and now I'm not too bad in debt so I
was glad to at lest get some feed back about that loan.

THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH HIM AND ALSO THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH
YOU TO HAVE LET THIS MAN HANG UP ON YOU MORE THAN ONCE I WOULD NOT EVEN
EMAIL HIM OR TALK TO HIM ANYLONGER YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THAT AND
EVERTHING TAKES TIME MEETING SOMEONE IS EASY BUT MEETING SOMEONE THAT IS
RIGHT AND CAN COME CORRECT AT YOU IS NOT I WOULD NOT RECOMMEND GIVING
ANYONE YOUR NUMBER SO FAST IT MAKES YOU SEEM DESPARATE AND YOU REALY ARE
NOT YOU DESERVE TO BE TREATED RIGHT AND FOR SOMEONE TO COME AT YOU REAL
IT ALSO SEEMS TO ME THAT IF HE CAN NOT HANDLE YOU BEING HONEST WITH HIM
THAN THAT WOULD REALY BE A PROBLEM IF YOU AND HIM WERE TO GET INTO A
SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP HE WOULDNT LET YOU BE YOURSELF SO WITH OUT
ACCEPTANCE AND HONEST COMMUNICATION THERE REALY ISNT ANYTHING GOOD TO
COME OUT OF IT IT WOULD JUST BE AOMETHING OF CONVENIENCE AND IT WOULD
NOT BE REAL AND THERE MOST LIKLEY WOULD BE ALOT OF ARGUMENTS OR JUST
NOTHING AT ALL ITS A TWO WAY SREET NOT A ONE WAY SO I HOPE THAT
EVERYTHING TURNS OUT OK AND IT WILL JUST CONTINUE BEING WHO YOU ARE AND
KEEPING IT REAL BEING HONEST IS REALY A GOOD QUALITY TO HAVE

I'm hearin ya Lovel, we had talked for sometime over the net prior to my
handing over the digits. Things seemed to get weird after that. I'm
not real experienced with this online dating crap, but I know better
than to hand out personal info too quickly. I thought he was worthy, it
was only until later on as I said, he got weird. It was definately a
learning experience. And you are right, after the first hang up, he
should have never been given an opportunity for a second one.

J

Hey Jane,
I will tell you a short story and hopefully make a point along with it.
First of all having doubts even before you meet in in person is reason
enough to drop the whole thing. Why does everyone say on their post
"looking for someone with no drama and no games yet we fall prey to the
dramam and games.
Story,
While in the Marines I was assigned as a store manager for one of the
stores on base. Had a yonug lady ,married with thow kids and her husband
was abusive and had to kick him out of the store several times and told
him I would have him locked up next time. I tried you dont know how many
times to get it thru her head that the man was going to hurt her. Always
heard what I am hearing from you. " He smoothed it over, he said this or
said that, he called me and he found me and on and on. One day I am
called by the office to let me know he shot and killed her in front of
her kids. She had the nagging feeling about the whole thing but didnt
trust her instincts.
So I say to you again, you have your answer just by posting the topic.
If hes hot tempered already and hangs up on you already damn girl. Get
on with it. Block him and dont give him ammo to bug you. Last thing we
need is to hear from someone that you went to meet this guy and he hurt
you somehow. Then who do I bug? I wont have anybody to act silly with.
:-)

this guy sounds like he is hiding alot not only that but just the fact
that he has gotten angry about an answer he didn't like i think that the
man you are talking about is a very tempermental and violent man the
reason i say this is i have know people that have done the same thing
the people i know that act like that simply put are
violent,controling,women beating, no good for nothing pieces of shit my
advice stay the hell away form him and be careful