Hehehe..... Make Me Like It!!!!!

You know....you have to do what you feel after thought.....I have gone back to an Ex and EX he should have stayed.......and I had a wonderful experience with my other EX......so I cannot say what is best for anyone else or even myself at times.....I do know this....relationships are work commitment love caring devotion up downs pain laughter tears happiness anger forgiveness and so many wonderful things......it is making the commitment to see it through that most seem to have issues with....working together that's what it's about

Since you were so "young" the first time around, maybe time and space has given you both a different perspective. I don't think there's anything wrong with working on the friendship first, and seeing where it goes. That gives you lots of opportunities to talk things out with her, and find out if there's anything worth pursuing.

SOmetimes we have ex's that we don't to be ex's...

Did it long ago, and thought she was it for me. Many years later, she cheated. Lesson learned.

Any person can break your heart.
whether it is an ex or not.
I guess if it was me, I would decide if I really cared about her, or if it was just because she is a good memory.
If you go for it, just give it your all and enjoy yourself, don''t worry, no relationship is ever assured of working. but if you don;t give it a chance you know that it is going to fail for sure.

Will you always look back and wonder would it have worked
. If it fails, will you be able to move on.

Anyway, thats just me.. whatever you decide, make sure it's something that you can look back on and be happy with.

dating an ex is usually just rebound sex, or it could work cause better the devil you know than the one you don't

Ask me on another day...I'll def deliver

Dating an ex... ew. Something wrong there as far as I am concerned.

i just sleep wit em after

Why be so negative? It COULD work. Only time will tell that for sure. Go with what your heart wants, i say. You are you. Nobody else is you.

I've only one time dated a guy I broke up with. And I gotta go with what others have said - they're an ex for a reason!

dating an ex?


see the above...

'd love to just start over and move on but there are a lot of things that will need to be addressed from our time together before.

^ your words

if u can't accept her as she is? no
if u expect to change her into someone else? no
if you have control issues related to the above? no

if u can let go and love her and receive what she brings and gives to you with an open heart? yes

how can you tell when the elephant has been raiding your fridge??

how can you tell when the elephant has been raiding your fridge??

HELLO??? HE WAS A SOPHOMORE??? Cut him some slack. It's not like they were grown adults. It could work out. It's not like they tried to axe murder each other. I have exs from when I was very young that there was and is nothing wrong with. I can think of three at least. One was a very successful drummer in a very popular band. I broke up with him because "he practiced too much". DUH. Another moved away due to things beyond his control. NOT HIS FAULT. Another because he was a religion that his mother did not like him dating outside of but he didn't care and I didn't feel comfortable around his mother which makes no difference now because he has left that faith and lives on his own.

This is what I thought before the rug was pulled from underneath me and I landed on my fat a$$. Sometimes love just ain't enough, I learned that from Patty Smyth and Don Henley.