Readin lots of posts on sites from women saying that there no good guy out there that want a real commited relationship. I Say thats just not the case, thoughts?

I can say guys my age are reluctant to get into a committed relationship but I totally understand as most have been through a nasty divorce.

"Girls sayin there no commited guys?"

a lot of women think a lot of guys should be commited...

And then a guy shows up who actually IS looking for a committed relationship, and he is resoundingly ignored.

So it doesn't pay to take any of it too seriously.

There are definitely a lot of guys looking for "fun."

I am "she who runs into traffic without looking away from real commitments and esp. engagement rings".

There is a difference between what guys will screw and what guys will commit to. That's just a fact.

I have been proposed to so many times. The one who did not really propose is the one I married.

He bought me a condo and I said on the way to my parents "So are we getting married or what?" He said something really romantic like, "Ya I think so........" A year later we were married. And they say there is no romance in the world. LOL. I was with him half my life.

I play with people. Well, I did until I committed to Kevin. I tossed around the L word (Love not Lesbian). I talked about living with people. It was all hypothetical and me playing and the stuff that fueled bad poetry.

But really, I commit to Kevin because he doesn't demand anything of me. EVER. I knows the good and bad of Terri and loves me anyway. And though he's younger, he's more mature than me. Almost all my social graces that I have come from Kev.

He knows darn well the fastest way to make me run away is to try to put a commitment on me. Though he tells me he loves me and he does not throw that around. He says even if we break up, we are friends for life. Kev knows I love because I am more like a guy and don't so much use the words but show him.

Sometimes you can't tell anymore. Traditionally committed men are dropping like flies.

Define "traditionally committed" please?? To me that is just monogamy which is alive and well. What does it mean to you? You have me curious.

This is another reason why you're so lucky to have me.

They fail to mention who they really want to be committed to. You may be the wrong type.

Honestly, where I live, the majority of guys my age aren't looking to commit. That, or they are already taken. And I totally understand because around here, people my age are:

A. Have just gotten married for the first time.
B. Got married young and are going through their first divorce and have NO desire to go through all that again. lol
C. STILL aren't ready for anything serious. I mean, I live in a smaller town. If I dated you when I was sixteen and you couldn't commit then, and STILL can't commit...keep on walking, buddy.

But that's just here for my age group. Don't know about anywhere/anyone else.

Not all women think the same as what those women wrote on the forums. You'll always bump into someone who doesn't want to commit. If you do, i suggest finding a good quality woman, not just any old female.

i wonder why da comited grl dnt meetz da comitd boy. .May b itz deir fate. Bt i stil feel dat if u r nt gona b honest, u btr b frnk to ur partnr,else u wil hrt hm or her.

I have not met a woman yet that will commit to a serious relationship.

I've met plenty of them, but it always has to be on their terms, no exceptions. Not really worth it....

I am a "Traditional" Committed Man..........

Just can't find the right Lady to be" Committed" with....

Maybe she is already........"Committed"

I should hang out at the asylum!!!!!!!!!!