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Topic: Have you ever.....????
Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/23/12 07:35 PM
Loved, cared for someone so much and yet you knew you needed to not be with that person? Maybe it wasn't the right time in your life (or theirs). Maybe other factors like a job taking you away, or school, or something like that factored in to your decision. How many people here have experienced this?

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Mon 01/23/12 08:22 PM
I have always put people first - people are important to me, and been criticized for it

my response has been the same. if I have a choice to go somewhere & do something spectacular but it means leaving people I love or not being available to them, then I am prolly not going to do "it" AND I do not see that as a loss or a sacrifice. it makes me happy to be with the people I love and I cannot be happy without them no matter how "special" the circumstances might be


so if I understand your question correctly - my answer is no, I have stayed where I am now because my children are here

mohammad might be able to move a mountain, but I doubt he'll get me outside of an hours drive of my sonslaugh

ArtGurl's photo
Mon 01/23/12 08:24 PM
Edited by ArtGurl on Mon 01/23/12 08:26 PM
Yes .... and in many ways it was/is quite tragic

Bravalady's photo
Mon 01/23/12 08:47 PM
Absolutely. The love of my life fits in this category. Age difference too big, and neither of us has a secure attachment style. We tried twice, and the same pattern both times. He's not the kind of person to break things off, so I had to. It's just not going to work, and I can't leave my heart locked up for him any more.

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Mon 01/23/12 08:49 PM

Yes .... and in many ways it was/is quite tragic


Oh. gosh I am so sorry to hear that.

ArtGurl's photo
Mon 01/23/12 08:56 PM


Yes .... and in many ways it was/is quite tragic


Oh. gosh I am so sorry to hear that.



Awww thank you sweetestgirl flowerforyou

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Mon 01/23/12 09:01 PM



Yes .... and in many ways it was/is quite tragic


Oh. gosh I am so sorry to hear that.



Awww thank you sweetestgirl flowerforyou



well I guess these threads are full of stories, but you seem so at peace with the world - no bitterness. that's remarkablewaving

Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/23/12 09:01 PM

Yes .... and in many ways it was/is quite tragic


Lemme guess...he didn't understand your shoe fetish did he? :tongue: flowerforyou :wink:

ArtGurl's photo
Mon 01/23/12 09:04 PM


Yes .... and in many ways it was/is quite tragic


Lemme guess...he didn't understand your shoe fetish did he? :tongue: flowerforyou :wink:



Yeah well ... what's the problem with a 10 x 16 addition to house the shoe room anyway? grumble :wink: :tongue:



Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/23/12 09:07 PM



Yes .... and in many ways it was/is quite tragic


Lemme guess...he didn't understand your shoe fetish did he? :tongue: flowerforyou :wink:



Yeah well ... what's the problem with a 10 x 16 addition to house the shoe room anyway? grumble :wink: :tongue:





Baby....ya give me my man cave, and you can have any size shoe room you want. :wink:

ArtGurl's photo
Mon 01/23/12 09:13 PM




Yes .... and in many ways it was/is quite tragic


Lemme guess...he didn't understand your shoe fetish did he? :tongue: flowerforyou :wink:



Yeah well ... what's the problem with a 10 x 16 addition to house the shoe room anyway? grumble :wink: :tongue:





Baby....ya give me my man cave, and you can have any size shoe room you want. :wink:



Bring it baby! :wink:

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 01/23/12 09:24 PM

Loved, cared for someone so much and yet you knew you needed to not be with that person? Maybe it wasn't the right time in your life (or theirs). Maybe other factors like a job taking you away, or school, or something like that factored in to your decision. How many people here have experienced this?


Yeah. Tonight.

Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/23/12 09:28 PM


Loved, cared for someone so much and yet you knew you needed to not be with that person? Maybe it wasn't the right time in your life (or theirs). Maybe other factors like a job taking you away, or school, or something like that factored in to your decision. How many people here have experienced this?


Yeah. Tonight.


You should text your fellow assassin the deets. :wink: laugh

MariahsFantasy's photo
Mon 01/23/12 10:02 PM
I dunno, ask the dolts I tried to love.

Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/23/12 10:18 PM

I dunno, ask the dolts I tried to love.


Ummmm...scuse me mam. But I was asking you. :tongue: laugh

ybcat1's photo
Mon 01/23/12 11:02 PM

Loved, cared for someone so much and yet you knew you needed to not be with that person? Maybe it wasn't the right time in your life (or theirs). Maybe other factors like a job taking you away, or school, or something like that factored in to your decision. How many people here have experienced this?


I just got out of a relationship just like that. Love him very much but it wasn't meant to be. But I learned a lot from him, and will always be grateful he came into my life.

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 01/24/12 06:17 AM



Loved, cared for someone so much and yet you knew you needed to not be with that person? Maybe it wasn't the right time in your life (or theirs). Maybe other factors like a job taking you away, or school, or something like that factored in to your decision. How many people here have experienced this?


Yeah. Tonight.


You should text your fellow assassin the deets. :wink: laugh


The details are not important. It's the realization that I needed to make. All is well. :smile:

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 07/26/12 02:45 PM


I dunno, ask the dolts I tried to love.


Ummmm...scuse me mam. But I was asking you. :tongue: laugh


I never answered your question, did I? My bad...

Two men came back into my life this year. A ex boyfriend of mine who was more of a friend who lied to me and another who reminded me of my first love who didn't see what he had when it was offered to him. Ahh, that feels good. Now I'll go skinny dipping.
:tongue: bigsmile

misswright's photo
Thu 07/26/12 03:47 PM

Loved, cared for someone so much and yet you knew you needed to not be with that person? Maybe it wasn't the right time in your life (or theirs). Maybe other factors like a job taking you away, or school, or something like that factored in to your decision. How many people here have experienced this?


Only every guy I've loved and cared for. I will admit the number is rather miniscule. If that wasn't the case, I'd still be loving and caring for them, wouldn't I? :tongue: ohwell

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Thu 07/26/12 04:06 PM

Loved, cared for someone so much and yet you knew you needed to not be with that person? Maybe it wasn't the right time in your life (or theirs). Maybe other factors like a job taking you away, or school, or something like that factored in to your decision. How many people here have experienced this?


I did a long time ago. I still miss him, but I also know that I did the right thing.

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