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Loved, cared for someone so much and yet you knew you needed to not be with that person? Maybe it wasn't the right time in your life (or theirs). Maybe other factors like a job taking you away, or school, or something like that factored in to your decision. How many people here have experienced this?
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I have always put people first - people are important to me, and been criticized for it
my response has been the same. if I have a choice to go somewhere & do something spectacular but it means leaving people I love or not being available to them, then I am prolly not going to do "it" AND I do not see that as a loss or a sacrifice. it makes me happy to be with the people I love and I cannot be happy without them no matter how "special" the circumstances might be so if I understand your question correctly - my answer is no, I have stayed where I am now because my children are here mohammad might be able to move a mountain, but I doubt he'll get me outside of an hours drive of my sons |
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Edited by
ArtGurl
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Mon 01/23/12 08:26 PM
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Yes .... and in many ways it was/is quite tragic
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Absolutely. The love of my life fits in this category. Age difference too big, and neither of us has a secure attachment style. We tried twice, and the same pattern both times. He's not the kind of person to break things off, so I had to. It's just not going to work, and I can't leave my heart locked up for him any more.
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Yes .... and in many ways it was/is quite tragic Oh. gosh I am so sorry to hear that. |
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Yes .... and in many ways it was/is quite tragic Oh. gosh I am so sorry to hear that. Awww thank you sweetestgirl |
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Yes .... and in many ways it was/is quite tragic Oh. gosh I am so sorry to hear that. Awww thank you sweetestgirl well I guess these threads are full of stories, but you seem so at peace with the world - no bitterness. that's remarkable |
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Yes .... and in many ways it was/is quite tragic Lemme guess...he didn't understand your shoe fetish did he? |
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Yes .... and in many ways it was/is quite tragic Lemme guess...he didn't understand your shoe fetish did he? Yeah well ... what's the problem with a 10 x 16 addition to house the shoe room anyway? |
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Yes .... and in many ways it was/is quite tragic Lemme guess...he didn't understand your shoe fetish did he? Yeah well ... what's the problem with a 10 x 16 addition to house the shoe room anyway? Baby....ya give me my man cave, and you can have any size shoe room you want. |
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Yes .... and in many ways it was/is quite tragic Lemme guess...he didn't understand your shoe fetish did he? Yeah well ... what's the problem with a 10 x 16 addition to house the shoe room anyway? Baby....ya give me my man cave, and you can have any size shoe room you want. Bring it baby! |
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Loved, cared for someone so much and yet you knew you needed to not be with that person? Maybe it wasn't the right time in your life (or theirs). Maybe other factors like a job taking you away, or school, or something like that factored in to your decision. How many people here have experienced this? Yeah. Tonight. |
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Loved, cared for someone so much and yet you knew you needed to not be with that person? Maybe it wasn't the right time in your life (or theirs). Maybe other factors like a job taking you away, or school, or something like that factored in to your decision. How many people here have experienced this? Yeah. Tonight. You should text your fellow assassin the deets. |
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I dunno, ask the dolts I tried to love.
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I dunno, ask the dolts I tried to love. Ummmm...scuse me mam. But I was asking you. |
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Loved, cared for someone so much and yet you knew you needed to not be with that person? Maybe it wasn't the right time in your life (or theirs). Maybe other factors like a job taking you away, or school, or something like that factored in to your decision. How many people here have experienced this? I just got out of a relationship just like that. Love him very much but it wasn't meant to be. But I learned a lot from him, and will always be grateful he came into my life. |
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Loved, cared for someone so much and yet you knew you needed to not be with that person? Maybe it wasn't the right time in your life (or theirs). Maybe other factors like a job taking you away, or school, or something like that factored in to your decision. How many people here have experienced this? Yeah. Tonight. You should text your fellow assassin the deets. The details are not important. It's the realization that I needed to make. All is well. |
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I dunno, ask the dolts I tried to love. Ummmm...scuse me mam. But I was asking you. I never answered your question, did I? My bad... Two men came back into my life this year. A ex boyfriend of mine who was more of a friend who lied to me and another who reminded me of my first love who didn't see what he had when it was offered to him. Ahh, that feels good. Now I'll go skinny dipping. |
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Loved, cared for someone so much and yet you knew you needed to not be with that person? Maybe it wasn't the right time in your life (or theirs). Maybe other factors like a job taking you away, or school, or something like that factored in to your decision. How many people here have experienced this? Only every guy I've loved and cared for. I will admit the number is rather miniscule. If that wasn't the case, I'd still be loving and caring for them, wouldn't I? |
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Loved, cared for someone so much and yet you knew you needed to not be with that person? Maybe it wasn't the right time in your life (or theirs). Maybe other factors like a job taking you away, or school, or something like that factored in to your decision. How many people here have experienced this? I did a long time ago. I still miss him, but I also know that I did the right thing. |
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