how can v know that she is in love or wana b in a relation with a boy

Did you try asking her?

If not, I'd start there.

In my opinion u shall not ask anyone directly if there are no symptoms observed by you through his/her body language.

I also think that u shall not keep thinking of someone if u don't have any clue about his/he likes about you,as this is the main reason which confuses u.

Or that.

Walk away.
If you do, take his advice, move on.
Don't regret it.

Thinking about it, can consume you.

Leap of faith, brudda man

Choice.

true of your talk.. But guys could really be tough for girls to read their mind, but when they fall in love, everyone knows...

Y most females hide their feelings....?

OP, How do you expect to form any kind of relationship, if you takes you so long to figure a woman out? Just saying. First she has to know she can trust you. That doesn't happen easily.

Communication (in all it's forms) is the key to any relationship IMO.

Theoretically.

If you tried to spend your time trying to 'read a girls mind', you wouldn't literally waste your life away because each and every woman is entirely different.

Their minds, even if you did crack them, are far too complicated and complex for, no offense ladies, even them to conclude what they see as their 'ideal' man.

9 chances out of 10 (9/10 if you like fractions better) a happily married woman will have met her husband by mere chance; a connection through 'something'. Whether this occurred in school, the mall, online, a porn shop; the location doesn't matter. It is the time. It is the moment.

So, even if you could read her mind and today, she wants nothing to do with you; something could sway her mind tomorrow. Ultimately, and as I stated, 'reading her mind' would take a lifetime.

So don't waste your energy...

You want the girls heart? Find out what's already in it. (No not literally, it's tissue, blood, and some other crap if you want to be technical). Some girls love gardening, some girls love Harley's, some girls love dancing, some girls sad movies, some girls like using fruit and vegetables as sex devices. If you truly want this girl, you best ensure she is worth pursuing; because my friend, it is a venture that may or may not be easily traversed.

Most importantly, you should make sure what both your wants are and, above the prior, make sure they coincide (for the most part), as in every relationship there will always be that "give and take" scenario; and it is up to you to decide how much are you willing to give and how much are you willing to take? I can almost guarantee you, that is what she is doing.. well, not just with you, but almost every situation. (That's just how they are, even if they don't want to act it; girls are complicated and, a lot of time, even to themselves.)

So stop over analyzing everything, before you have to change your status to female as well (haha jkjk); and either dive head first, or walk away and forget.

It's just like I said earlier..

It's a leap of faith.

A choice.

Take it or don't; but it all starts with communication. The rest will just come naturally; or you'll wet your pants and she'll laugh at you.

Leap or walk, my friend.

All beginning with a choice.

The same reason guys do.

Love is vulnerability.
Vulnerability is weakness.

People take advantage of weakness.
When your guard is down; that is when you world can be shattered.
Girls, not always, can often fall for guys, without the guy ever even knowing. He already did something, seen something, or just never said anything and was hurt, scarred, or felt exposed.

When you feel exposed, you turn into a turtle, running into your shell. Why? Because it is safe, it is warm, it is something you know. It's natural.

Hiding your feelings is instinctive.

If you've ever loved, and I mean truly loved, someone and you were burned by them. That is why.

If they haven't 'loved', it's probably because they've seen a situation in which someone has. Parent, friend, etc.

Some people are just 'built' like that.

"No one lives in a house with no love."

Meaning, how you were raised, brought up can also influence this.

Ultimately, their are far too many variables to justify or proclaim, 'This is how it is', because you can't. That's why their are so many variations and meanings as to what love is, because it is the exact same for pain. Always has been, always will be.

Don't categorize love, because you can't categorize suffering.

It's that simple.

Once you do that, the rest becomes so much easier.

Now you're no longer focused on the mass perception of an 'idea', but you are focusing on one individual's beliefs. Those are the only perceptions, aside from your own of course, that should matter.

Period.

We, as humans, have a natural instinct to over-analyze everything.

Stop.

Leap. Walk.

It's all summed up by one word:

Choice.

Being a female myself...wait... yes still a female, I agree with M on the fact that, you could spend your life trying to get into a girl's mind and A) that is a scary ****ing place to be and B) once you think you have it all figured out, she will just change again. I find it a subconscious security system "your mental wall has been breached, proceed to door number 2, do not panic it is all under control."

BAM! Now you are stuck getting through a new set of rules, a new system.

My advice, talk to her, see what's up and then enjoy where it takes you. Don't question it all too much, because in the grand scheme of things, chances are she may make you happy, why ruin something that is bringing you happiness with doubt and the inability to communicate?

The two essential things for ANY relationship (lovers, siblings, parent/child, teacher/student, boss/employee, ect.)
1. Respect
2. Communication

Oh, indeed. Respect.

Crucial.

Ty. :P

wondering how anybody can even hope to read another's mind.

The way to the mind of a woman is through the heart of a woman and that my friends is why us men stare at boobies all the time. If we can just sit and stare long enough, we just might unlock the secrets and hidden treasures in there. So please ladies the next time you catch us guys staring at your mammalian protuberances, don't be upset. Instead give us a hug and thank us for taking the time in trying to figure out the wonderful complex puzzles you all are.

You're welcome

You can't. That's why talking was invented.

Oh is that why you guys do that? That's so sweet!

I don't get why you're banging your head on the wall about it. . If you were meant to read a womans mind, our minds would be a book.

Thanks, Patsfan, for putting that into words. I've been trying to explain that to women for years, but could never quite articulate it when confronted..............

MEN...............

WOMEN...........

So now we have to be understanding when you guys drool over our boobs, butts, and legs...Jeezee!!!




OK, I'm good with that!..............................