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Topic: If someone emails you their mobile/cell numba....
winterblue56 Joined Sun 12/12/10 Posts: 2465	Thu 01/05/12 07:03 PM
i whore out my number like crazy. i get plenty of numbers in messages too. sometimes i want to take them and give them out to other guys who ask for my number. win-win, no?

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 01/05/12 07:05 PM
If I abandon my phone I learn to be human again. Who loses? Think we should do this when it becomes a clutch. Well I do not live on my phone like some do, but lately it always seems to be going off whether I want it to or not. Never anything good most of the time though. That would be a nice change of pace. Maybe dunking it in a bucket of water would do me a world of good. Id say smash on it a la Office Space man it feels good to be a gangster

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Thu 01/05/12 07:08 PM
Made that mistake recently. Were the conversations all that serious? Eh...Id rather pull my teeth out with pliers then bet on him actually having a real back and forth. With anyone for that matter. Talking to him err...trying to scares me immensely. Tired of that it. I have no idea the last time I had a real conversation with anyone save something work related or trying to help someone sort through their problems. I mean more than just a "Hey, how's the weather down there? or some such, but an actual interesting back and forth conversation. I am not so down on it I don't think they exist or such, just that it gets depressing that few seem to understand it.

winterblue56 Joined Sun 12/12/10 Posts: 2465	Thu 01/05/12 07:13 PM
After a few e-mails or chats I will usually offer my cell # to a woman instead of asking for hers. This is the internet after all and I want to make the woman a little more at ease by offering my # and letting her know she can block her # if she would like. Can't be too careful these days. Second smart and caring man on mingle today. Nice new pic

winterblue56 Joined Sun 12/12/10 Posts: 2465	Thu 01/05/12 07:15 PM
After a few e-mails or chats I will usually offer my cell # to a woman instead of asking for hers. This is the internet after all and I want to make the woman a little more at ease by offering my # and letting her know she can block her # if she would like. Can't be too careful these days. Second smart and caring man on mingle today. And I was aiming for first! Now there's a first....a guy that aims. I thought we just used The Force when going the bathroom! I thought that was only when you need to read our minds?

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 01/05/12 07:16 PM
Made that mistake recently. Were the conversations all that serious? Eh...Id rather pull my teeth out with pliers then bet on him actually having a real back and forth. With anyone for that matter. Talking to him err...trying to scares me immensely. Tired of that it. I have no idea the last time I had a real conversation with anyone save something work related or trying to help someone sort through their problems. I mean more than just a "Hey, how's the weather down there? or some such, but an actual interesting back and forth conversation. I am not so down on it I don't think they exist or such, just that it gets depressing that few seem to understand it. Just a buncha jaded individuals. I think its sad but I also think whoever made them so afraid in general is the real culprit. Gotta blame someone. It'd be so easy to say "oh that jerk" but I think its a lot deeper than that. He's still a hopeless romantic..its just buried underneath all the hurt and anger...least in this situation. Don't me get started on his jealously.

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Thu 01/05/12 07:18 PM
This has happened a few times before but the other day, I got a random email that included this guy’s mobile number. I would be lying if I said that I haven't called/texted a complete stranger but nowadays, I won't 'cold call' or give out my number - I’m attached to it and wouldn’t want to change it because I gave it out carelessly but It did get me thinking...under what circumstances would you give out your number? Only after they enter their valid and verified credit card information. Then, "Let's Go Private!"

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 01/05/12 10:37 PM
Made that mistake recently. Were the conversations all that serious? Eh...Id rather pull my teeth out with pliers then bet on him actually having a real back and forth. With anyone for that matter. Talking to him err...trying to scares me immensely. Tired of that it. I have no idea the last time I had a real conversation with anyone save something work related or trying to help someone sort through their problems. I mean more than just a "Hey, how's the weather down there? or some such, but an actual interesting back and forth conversation. I am not so down on it I don't think they exist or such, just that it gets depressing that few seem to understand it. Really? You don't talk to people outside of work?

Tulareman Joined Thu 08/25/11 Posts: 487	Fri 01/06/12 12:27 AM
hell, I give my number to everybody......and nobody ever calls me I know the feeling.

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Fri 01/06/12 05:15 AM
Really? You don't talk to people outside of work? Not to what I classify as a real conversation. Talk to people, yes. Sit down and really talk to anyone, no.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 01/06/12 08:39 AM
Really? You don't talk to people outside of work? Not to what I classify as a real conversation. Talk to people, yes. Sit down and really talk to anyone, no. Why is that?

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Fri 01/06/12 09:44 AM
After a few e-mails or chats I will usually offer my cell # to a woman instead of asking for hers. This is the internet after all and I want to make the woman a little more at ease by offering my # and letting her know she can block her # if she would like. Can't be too careful these days. I must admit, even after I have gotten to know someone, I’m never the first one to give out my number...nor will I ask for his...I will wait until he offers. Sometimes I think that guy's are too quick to give out there numbers.

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Fri 01/06/12 09:50 AM
I don't give it out unless I trust the person. If I feel like we have something to talk about outside of the internet, then I will consider offering/accepting it. I just don't see the point unless you are seriously conversing with the individual. I find it hard to gauge trust when chatting to someone online...maybe it’s just me!

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Fri 01/06/12 09:53 AM
Really? You don't talk to people outside of work? Not to what I classify as a real conversation. Talk to people, yes. Sit down and really talk to anyone, no. That's such a shame. That's why I'm so grateful I have my sister..I have other siblings, family and close friends but my sister is the person that I tend to share my inner thoughts with.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 01/06/12 09:55 AM
After a few e-mails or chats I will usually offer my cell # to a woman instead of asking for hers. This is the internet after all and I want to make the woman a little more at ease by offering my # and letting her know she can block her # if she would like. Can't be too careful these days. I must admit, even after I have gotten to know someone, I’m never the first one to give out my number...nor will I ask for his...I will wait until he offers. Sometimes I think that guy's are too quick to give out there numbers. Usually waiting implies he's actually interested to take things further. I need to learn from you mama. I think they are quick in some cases: hookups, etc. But with the one you've had a few decent conversations with, its worth it to see what happens next.

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Fri 01/06/12 11:31 AM
After a few e-mails or chats I will usually offer my cell # to a woman instead of asking for hers. This is the internet after all and I want to make the woman a little more at ease by offering my # and letting her know she can block her # if she would like. Can't be too careful these days. I must admit, even after I have gotten to know someone, I’m never the first one to give out my number...nor will I ask for his...I will wait until he offers. Sometimes I think that guy's are too quick to give out there numbers. Usually waiting implies he's actually interested to take things further. I need to learn from you mama. I think they are quick in some cases: hookups, etc. But with the one you've had a few decent conversations with, its worth it to see what happens next. Yeah...not sure if I would recommend that He seems decent and someone definitely worth getting to know better but he's in the US and I'm not...

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 01/06/12 11:35 AM
After a few e-mails or chats I will usually offer my cell # to a woman instead of asking for hers. This is the internet after all and I want to make the woman a little more at ease by offering my # and letting her know she can block her # if she would like. Can't be too careful these days. I must admit, even after I have gotten to know someone, I’m never the first one to give out my number...nor will I ask for his...I will wait until he offers. Sometimes I think that guy's are too quick to give out there numbers. I've gotten over the waiting around for guys to act first. If I think we're getting along, I may suggest we chat on the phone. Sometimes they suggest it first. It works either way for me.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 01/06/12 11:43 AM
After a few e-mails or chats I will usually offer my cell # to a woman instead of asking for hers. This is the internet after all and I want to make the woman a little more at ease by offering my # and letting her know she can block her # if she would like. Can't be too careful these days. I must admit, even after I have gotten to know someone, I’m never the first one to give out my number...nor will I ask for his...I will wait until he offers. Sometimes I think that guy's are too quick to give out there numbers. Usually waiting implies he's actually interested to take things further. I need to learn from you mama. I think they are quick in some cases: hookups, etc. But with the one you've had a few decent conversations with, its worth it to see what happens next. Yeah...not sure if I would recommend that He seems decent and someone definitely worth getting to know better but he's in the US and I'm not... Might as well be on different planets, that's too bad.

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Fri 01/06/12 12:05 PM
After a few e-mails or chats I will usually offer my cell # to a woman instead of asking for hers. This is the internet after all and I want to make the woman a little more at ease by offering my # and letting her know she can block her # if she would like. Can't be too careful these days. I must admit, even after I have gotten to know someone, I’m never the first one to give out my number...nor will I ask for his...I will wait until he offers. Sometimes I think that guy's are too quick to give out there numbers. Usually waiting implies he's actually interested to take things further. I need to learn from you mama. I think they are quick in some cases: hookups, etc. But with the one you've had a few decent conversations with, its worth it to see what happens next. Yeah...not sure if I would recommend that He seems decent and someone definitely worth getting to know better but he's in the US and I'm not... Might as well be on different planets, that's too bad. You say that and there was a time when I would have readily agreed with you but I don’t now....I’m pretty open where location is concerned obviously it will be with the view that one of us would be willing to relocate.

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Fri 01/06/12 12:11 PM
i have discovered usually the ones who give out their number that soon are the fast moving type. They want to get right down to business, whatever their business might be. I usually ignore them. They need to at least write a little something first.