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Topic: Hi !!
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Tue 01/03/12 04:27 AM
Hi everyone :) please tell me what you think .. ?? I have more pics on the way.

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Tue 01/03/12 09:02 AM

Hi everyone :) please tell me what you think .. ?? I have more pics on the way.


I look at your picture: Two fish and one human being. half your head i chopped off, you wear sunglasses, I can't tell if you are a woman or a man. The t you wear is showing more ambivalence.

On some websites women's user names are in pink, and guys', in blue. That would help here, because I only look at women's profiles, ever. Profiles of guys or "undetermined" get passed.

I am not being snarky or whatever, but really, you ought to make it obvious on the main picutre if you are a guy or a woman.

That's step no. 1.

On the right you look a bit like there was a breast; but your hip is narrow, and your shoulder-to-hip ratio is male-ish. Your waste may be narrower than your hip, but that is not all that obvious on the pic. Plus the fish. And your face (on this picture) is not helping any.

So what do I do, as a man to find a date? Write to you to find out for sure? That's like taking three huge steps back for me before I take the first tiny step forward.

You must not make others work in such manner. Please be polite, or rather, please make it easier for people to get interested in you. It's in your best interest.

luv2roknroll's photo
Tue 01/03/12 12:51 PM


Hi everyone :) please tell me what you think .. ?? I have more pics on the way.


I look at your picture: Two fish and one human being. half your head i chopped off, you wear sunglasses, I can't tell if you are a woman or a man. The t you wear is showing more ambivalence.

On some websites women's user names are in pink, and guys', in blue. That would help here, because I only look at women's profiles, ever. Profiles of guys or "undetermined" get passed.

I am not being snarky or whatever, but really, you ought to make it obvious on the main picutre if you are a guy or a woman.

That's step no. 1.

On the right you look a bit like there was a breast; but your hip is narrow, and your shoulder-to-hip ratio is male-ish. Your waste may be narrower than your hip, but that is not all that obvious on the pic. Plus the fish. And your face (on this picture) is not helping any.

So what do I do, as a man to find a date? Write to you to find out for sure? That's like taking three huge steps back for me before I take the first tiny step forward.

You must not make others work in such manner. Please be polite, or rather, please make it easier for people to get interested in you. It's in your best interest.
Listen to Wux.

He is, as always, completely correct in everything he said.

Not an insult,

just our opinion,

because you did ask for it!

Good luck here on finding whatever your looking for!flowerforyou

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Tue 01/03/12 03:03 PM
Edited by singmesweet on Tue 01/03/12 03:04 PM
There's nothing to your profile. Let us know when you've finished writing it and have added more pictures. Preferably of the tattoos!

Though, I do wish we could hear accents on here. I bet yours is nice.

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Tue 01/03/12 07:19 PM
Ok cool :) have added a little more. Its always hard to talk about yourself haha. I have a few more pics but not sure if it violates the rules.. Shirt off ok ??
My accent is classic Aussie :) g'day mate !

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Wed 01/04/12 02:07 AM
Edited by 42BlackBBW on Wed 01/04/12 02:07 AM
Hiya and welcome to Mingle.

IMO, your profile reads fine. My suggestion would be to add something about the person you are hoping to meet because your screen name could be misinterpreted as someone that’s just after a NSA or short term relationship – absolutely nothing wrong with that but as you state that you’re looking for someone to treat like a princess, it's kinda giving mixed messages.

Good luck in finding what you seek.

ps: I do understand what Wux was saying about your other pic – I wasn’t sure of your gender either...it’s because your pic looks cropped and your face isn’t totally visible as it is when you view it on your profile.

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Wed 01/04/12 02:56 AM
Thanks for that ! Good advice. Im not really a computer person so im not sure how to fix the photos.

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Wed 01/04/12 03:03 AM
I’m not sure that you have to...in your new pic, your body definitely screams MALE :smile:...If someone’s interested, they can read your profile and get a better look at ya face.

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Wed 01/04/12 03:06 AM
Yeah thats what i thought! Haha thanks very much for that. I think what the other people were saying is a first impression thing. See how this one goes i suppose.

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Wed 01/04/12 03:15 AM
Edited by 42BlackBBW on Wed 01/04/12 03:25 AM
Yep, I would say so.

Wux’s humour can be a little off centre but based on what I’ve observed so far, none of his comments are/have been malicious in nature. Both seem lovely and genuine – not that I’ve met any of them in person.

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Wed 01/04/12 07:46 AM
There good folks and was only reaching back at you for what you asked. Good luck and join the theards here you'll be welcome with open arms "Trust Me".., :wink: by the way don't forget your nerve suit. laugh

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Wed 01/04/12 03:16 PM

Ok cool :) have added a little more. Its always hard to talk about yourself haha. I have a few more pics but not sure if it violates the rules.. Shirt off ok ??
My accent is classic Aussie :) g'day mate !


Australians have the sexiest accents ever.

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Wed 01/04/12 05:20 PM


Ok cool :) have added a little more. Its always hard to talk about yourself haha. I have a few more pics but not sure if it violates the rules.. Shirt off ok ??
My accent is classic Aussie :) g'day mate !


Australians have the sexiest accents ever.

Agree and the women...lol they sound hilarious when they curse with their accents!

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Wed 01/04/12 07:29 PM



Ok cool :) have added a little more. Its always hard to talk about yourself haha. I have a few more pics but not sure if it violates the rules.. Shirt off ok ??
My accent is classic Aussie :) g'day mate !


Australians have the sexiest accents ever.

Agree and the women...lol they sound hilarious when they curse with their accents!
noway YOU'VE PISSED ONE OFF??????


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 01/05/12 01:19 AM
Hahaha you dont want to piss an Aussie chick off. Its not the swearing you have to worry about .. Half of them can fight better than most blokes ! Love 'em to death

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Thu 01/05/12 06:29 AM
Hi!! Welcome.
You look great in this pic, except for the finger. Perved your profile and thought what you wrote was very good. Gives us a bit to go with. Aussie accents are very sexy and the ladies do like Aussie guys. So I say you should do OK. Have fun and be nice. We like a good sense of humor in the forums. flowerforyou flowerforyou waving waving winking

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Thu 01/05/12 11:15 AM
Yeah they removed that pic because of said finger. Now i am left with 2 pics of me being headless :) yeah im sexy and i know it . I will try and be nicer just for you mum.

luv2roknroll's photo
Thu 01/05/12 11:27 AM

yeah im sexy and i know it .

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Thu 01/05/12 11:32 AM
Hahaha jealousy is a curse
smokin

luv2roknroll's photo
Thu 01/05/12 11:33 AM
Edited by luv2roknroll on Thu 01/05/12 11:44 AM

Hahaha jealousy is a curse
smokin


OH, YOUR SO RIGHT!

You are just hilarious.


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