Not bothered about male/female/old/young...I just want someone to go with. Not sure when, ...suggest a time of year...just not August...perhaps wew could could even get a group together?

Make 2012 the year you jump off a mountain!

Could think of other ways to torture myself both in terms of activity and country..

Its not a 'nasty' bit of Spain - its the andalucian mountains - quite spectacular, but I take your point anyway!!

Is it me or are there very little people on this site???

Yes, that is a nice part of Spain. Many years ago, I rented a villa in Nerja and have good memories of the place..to date it has been my favourite Spanish destinations.

To answer your second question..I think there are quite a few people on this site from the UK, but for some reason many prefer not to interact in the forums. To be honest, I've had lots of UK based guys view my profile but not very many emails/nudges a part from the usual "do you have a web cam?" or "I'm married...".

Also, because this site isn't your typical dating site - IMO, the ethos on here tends to be about building an online relationship first before ‘jumping’ into things which doesn't appeal to everyone, many don't stay very long. Combined with the fact that most of the active members tend to be from the US, Canada and in the late 30's/40+ age group.

Well, either there are not many here, or no one wants a holiday with me, or no one wants to jump off a mountain tied to a big kite....hopefully the lack of reply is more to do with the kite thing than me!

Or another way of looking at it is that the reluctance is due to not wanting to go away with a stranger regardless of how innocent it may seem but maybe that just me...

Fair point...

(But there's till no-one on this site!)

Byeeeeeee!!