Topic: wen datin a guy who is older dan u wit 20yrs,wat kind of rel
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Fri 12/23/11 10:35 PM
Dating a guy who is older dan u wit 20yrs,wat ar u expectin frm d relatnshp or wat kind of relatnshp ar u expected to build

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Fri 12/23/11 10:46 PM
Between me and a guy 20 years older? Probably has children, has had about five divorces, likes black and white films, starts talking constantly about car insurance, does a lot of woodwork in the back yard,..............not sure. lol

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Sat 12/24/11 12:40 AM
Just cos a younger woman might be of child-bearing age, it doesn't always mean they'll get pregnant. Some were just born with faulty ovaries. So it's like a 50% chance of getting pregnant.

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Sat 12/24/11 07:54 AM

Between me and a guy 20 years older? Probably has children, has had about five divorces, likes black and white films, starts talking constantly about car insurance, does a lot of woodwork in the back yard,..............not sure. lol
Hahahaha your funny iv never been divorces cuz i have never been married,i dont have any kids,i dont watch black and white films and i dont do wood work in the back yard lol.So in this case i will have to say you are 100% wrong lol it was a good guess though.

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Sat 12/24/11 08:25 AM
That is a very big age gap. Not impossible, but perhaps a litle more difficult. Age shouldn't matter if there is real love.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sat 12/24/11 08:45 AM


Between me and a guy 20 years older? Probably has children, has had about five divorces, likes black and white films, starts talking constantly about car insurance, does a lot of woodwork in the back yard,..............not sure. lol
Hahahaha your funny iv never been divorces cuz i have never been married,i dont have any kids,i dont watch black and white films and i dont do wood work in the back yard lol.So in this case i will have to say you are 100% wrong lol it was a good guess though.



laugh I know i'm not 100% right about it, as how could i know, given i've never dated a guy of that age. Yes you probably DON'T do half the stuff i listed. I was just thinking a proportion of men might.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sat 12/24/11 08:47 AM


Between me and a guy 20 years older? Probably has children, has had about five divorces, likes black and white films, starts talking constantly about car insurance, does a lot of woodwork in the back yard,..............not sure. lol
Hahahaha your funny iv never been divorces cuz i have never been married,i dont have any kids,i dont watch black and white films and i dont do wood work in the back yard lol.So in this case i will have to say you are 100% wrong lol it was a good guess though.



laugh I know i'm not 100% right about it, as how could i know, given i've never dated a guy of that age. Yes you probably DON'T do half the stuff i listed. I was just thinking a proportion of men might.

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Sat 12/24/11 09:00 AM
Damn you double posting.

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Sat 12/24/11 09:15 AM
I date women 20 to 30 years younger. We just have fun and play around. Because I still like 6 Flags, water parks and activities and it is hard to find a woman my age who enjoys the same that won't talk of marriage.

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Sat 12/24/11 09:37 AM
I dated a guy 20 years older than me when I was 19. I expected him to teach me everything he knew.tongue2


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Sat 12/24/11 09:54 AM

I date women 20 to 30 years younger. We just have fun and play around. Because I still like 6 Flags, water parks and activities and it is hard to find a woman my age who enjoys the same that won't talk of marriage.


I can agree with this - 30 yrs - no that is a bit much - that would be strictly as friends - but you have touched on one of the things attractive about dating younger men

when I go to the gym or do anything active I am almost always the oldest one there - a few years ago when I was still running 5K road - I'd enter runs and be the only one (just about) in my class....age wise...laugh

in terms of music....ya ya I love the beatles too, but c.mon things have happened since 1964...

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Sat 12/24/11 10:25 AM


I date women 20 to 30 years younger. We just have fun and play around. Because I still like 6 Flags, water parks and activities and it is hard to find a woman my age who enjoys the same that won't talk of marriage.


I can agree with this - 30 yrs - no that is a bit much - that would be strictly as friends - but you have touched on one of the things attractive about dating younger men

when I go to the gym or do anything active I am almost always the oldest one there - a few years ago when I was still running 5K road - I'd enter runs and be the only one (just about) in my class....age wise...laugh

in terms of music....ya ya I love the beatles too, but c.mon things have happened since 1964...



I listen to newer bands. Heard the old bands over and over. Thinking of taking one to a Tool concert! Hey, it'll be fun.

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Sat 12/24/11 10:29 AM
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I date women 20 to 30 years younger. We just have fun and play around. Because I still like 6 Flags, water parks and activities and it is hard to find a woman my age who enjoys the same that won't talk of marriage.


I can agree with this - 30 yrs - no that is a bit much - that would be strictly as friends - but you have touched on one of the things attractive about dating younger men

when I go to the gym or do anything active I am almost always the oldest one there - a few years ago when I was still running 5K road - I'd enter runs and be the only one (just about) in my class....age wise...laugh

in terms of music....ya ya I love the beatles too, but c.mon things have happened since 1964...



I listen to newer bands. Heard the old bands over and over. Thinking of taking one to a Tool concert! Hey, it'll be fun.


seeing Tool would be a spectacular treat! There are some older bands I do like though- that I never got to see....sad

I like both the old & the new - it's when one becomes closed minded to new music or new technology that they really do become old

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Sat 12/24/11 01:00 PM
first off,
i think it's basically impossible to find someone you actually like who's twenty years older than you.
if they were your idea of perfection though,
why not?
i just don't see it happening.

indianadave4's photo
Sat 12/24/11 01:33 PM
It's difficult enough having a relationship with someone who has similar experiences in life. As age differences increase so will the complexities of the relationship.

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Mon 12/26/11 01:22 PM
have to say when ive ever been in a steady they were always older than me except for one an she was 4 yrs younger than me seems like the older women have more compassion an understanding .but younger ones are more fun for short term .