I dont think most can agree what 'wrong' is in terms of how many people one chooses to swap body fluids with ('risky' may be harder to refute ,,,but I digress)


what is 'wrong' is the deception that is involved if people are being lead on to believe they have something that they dont, if they are being INTENTIONALLY and KNOWINGLY mislead,, something is wrong with that

if people are just willing to satisfy their urges whenever and wherever with likeminded people, and no expectations or deceptions,, thats a personal preference,,,

As I said before I don't think I am misleading , I just let people believe what they want to believe and don't correct it , as it is not my job to do .

you are so unbelievably impressive! wow! yep, i'm such a loser, aren't i boy? already telling me what i am capable of, or not capable of. judged rolled up and locked away....wow. categorized me and everything? are you a king or god?

you get better as the night rolls on stud

what else you got up that sleeve

you keep talking jungle boy but I don't quite follow exactly what it is about hahaha
crazy guy

And thanks for such flattering remarks you put me on the spot more than I put myself on the spot lol

even though i'm a monster, i truly think it's a priviledge to see two women that are enlightened as you two are, and it's becoming more rare all the time, thankyou for revealing that beauty to me. i am honored. (bows with great respect)

i don't have to say another word. as far as me putting YOU on the spot.....naaa, i'm going light with you. you're not bullying people here, so i'm not going after you. i respect your life, and your say, and you do have some honor somewhere, or you would never have gone in the service to begin with. you are also quite intelligent.... you also are very competitive, and like to win, even if you are in the wrong......and you will win anyway, because that is just you. careful to be proud of that boy, greed for rightiousness always wins in defeat.....this is how empires fall, Rome in 475, even the Bysantine empire in the 1500's..... wisdom may or may not catch up with you, that all depends on when your true humility kicks in, and you value all truths. that may take some time. the truth is the hardest thing you'll ever tell, because it can hurt the most.

Truths do hurt the most, I would agree with that .. so I don't say anything and I don't think that is wrong.

What people view and what I view are different things maybe some people think I am wrong because I am smart enough to view from all sides and take it in consideration of other perspectives and and think of the what ifs.


In this thread, I do actually live a crazy unusual life and actually do do this in my relationships ,
am I as brutal in life as in this thread... NO I just like to entertain myself and force a crazy conversation

when it comes down to it I just like to have fun and do my thing , I am careful and caring enough to make sure I don't hurt people deeply or get to emotionally involved to where if someone did find out I wouldn't be such a big emotional loss,
and I am sure eventually I'll find someone to slow my roll and worth changing my style , but I will be satisfied if that time don't come for a long time.

I really feel sorry for you. I think it's a good idea to pay heed to msharmony's comment about deception

players get there payback eventually but by posting on here you are warning thousands....thanks for that anyway

I could go into why you are able to get away with this crapola in asia...but it doesn;t really matter. I don;t think you would be respectful of my ideas anyway

what I do not understand is how somehow can train to fight and go through all the mental preparation and training in honor and then have the attitude you do about women

I'm outspoken, opinonated, and in general a pain - you can just ignore me because I doubt we'd ever see eye to eye


(unless it was my turn to tack you up to the ropes ) (j/k I haven't fought actively in years)

They say lust and love are almost like twins except with lust you have jealousy.. no trust..etc..I wish everyone could find their true mate.. can always hope.. Merry Christmas and safe travelling everyone..:)

I have honor in what I do in life but my career and how I treat people

I got back on Mingle mainly to just check out the forums again and have fun so warning people online is not my concern hahahaha

and you guys say I am deceiving , I think I just know when to keep my mouth shut with girls at time.

And I guess my goals are much different than other people on this site,
I just want a relationship to go out and someone to pass the time with when I am visiting somewhere.

Like I said I travel often so it is nice to have a companion in different countries I visit

and nice to have a gf in the places i frequent often

is that wrong ?

what's interesting is, in the past, more than 30 years ago lol, i had dated more than one girl at a time, as many people do date more than one person, to see who they like.... not uncommon, (although i'll never date again, ever) and you know what? i told them all the truth! you know what happened?


they were a bit aggravated with me at first, but! each one said that after they thought about it, they were glad i was honest with them, and they had more respect for me, and i still dated them! they liked me as a friend, and i still talk to them occasionally to this day.....
just another idea for you....

a lie by omission is not honorable

I don't think dating multiple women is wrong - but deception yes, I feel it is wrong, if you are asking me

Cheating doesn't have anything to do with your partner. Cheaters have issues within themselves that need to be resolved before they can be a healthy partner to another person.

So the cheater can very well love another person and cheat on them but their self love is not healthy so the love they share with others will not be a healthy one either.

Well if you put it that way yes but for it to make sense in love...no. Unless it's o.k for you to love someone and cheat on them too.

I think someone who loves someone might cheat on them if they are having other emotions as well as love

I think someone who is not being deceptive would never consider themself to be 'cheating' in the first place,,,,

Depends if you are married or not.

A marriage that involves a promise or vow to remain faithful means that if you do not do that and you lie about it, then you are cheating.

An unmarried couple does not have this problem unless they also made each other a promise to remain monogamous.

One should not assume a promise of monogamy unless the promise is made and agreed upon.

To have sex with a person once does not a promise of monogamy make.

Yet, some people assume this.

I have known men that will pursue you until you finally have sex with them, and then suddenly they start acting like they own you body and soul.

Not the case. One should never assume that consummation of a relationship means a promise of monogamy.

probably all the more reason to try to 'know' a person and communicate honestly with each other before hopping into bed,,,

less room for those hurtful assumptions,,,

True.

Here is the situation when I was young...

You finally give in to the pressure and give them what they want, (sex) and suddenly they are checking up on you, asking you where you've been every time they call etc. They literally stake a claim on your life.

With some men, everything changes once they have had sex with you. It's like they have staked out their territory. They begin in-crouching on everything in your life.

They didn't want to spend the time to get to know you, they just wanted sex as soon as possible and when they get it, suddenly they think they bought the cow.

Hmmm very well spoken i must say.