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Topic: Is anyone truly ready for the holidays?
Mzdeeva Joined Sat 12/10/11 Posts: 8	Sat 12/10/11 02:21 PM
Speaking for myself, it seems as if I just finished celebrating bringing in 2011. .. New freedom. But with this new freedom, new fears. Having been married for so long, finally becoming brave enough to address attraction to females..... Holidays seem different without commitment. Somebody, please read this and give me some feedback. Also, please give me some lingo tips. Whats a stud, do I have a label? HELP

Lancelot68 Joined Sat 10/29/11 Posts: 193	Sat 12/10/11 02:33 PM
Ewwwww ! U do indeed need help !

Mzdeeva Joined Sat 12/10/11 Posts: 8	Sat 12/10/11 02:55 PM
Ok, so help me.... U seem to be into this...ive seen your face on quite a few posts..

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 12/10/11 03:00 PM
Ewwwww ! U do indeed need help ! That was awfully rude.

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Sat 12/10/11 03:02 PM Edited by esebulldog on Sat 12/10/11 03:02 PM
Stud basically a badass... this person is really cool. Everyone looks up to them and wants to get with them. This person can be a male or a female gay or straight. studs do not discriminate. STUDS DOMINATE for more help with lingo try http://www.urbandictionary.com/

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 12/10/11 03:03 PM
Speaking for myself, it seems as if I just finished celebrating bringing in 2011. .. New freedom. But with this new freedom, new fears. Having been married for so long, finally becoming brave enough to address attraction to females..... Holidays seem different without commitment. Somebody, please read this and give me some feedback. Also, please give me some lingo tips. Whats a stud, do I have a label? HELP No need for labels. Just be yourself. And the holidays are fine without being in a relationship. Just surround yourself with family and friends and enjoy yourself.

Mzdeeva Joined Sat 12/10/11 Posts: 8	Sat 12/10/11 04:40 PM
Thank you for the reply. I am blessed to have a lot of family and friends. Im sure the other stuff will just fall into place

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sat 12/10/11 05:39 PM
Ewwwww ! U do indeed need help ! Dude, you're the one who needs help.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sat 12/10/11 05:42 PM
Here's my advice if you're just coming out of a long term relationship, especially a marriage. Take it real S L O W. Don't be in a hurry to commit to anything. Just enjoy your new found freedom and give yourself permission to make mistakes in exploring your new self.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sat 12/10/11 08:50 PM
Ewwwww ! U do indeed need help ! WTF?? How could you say something like that? Sounds more like you need help.

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Sat 12/10/11 10:22 PM
Ewwwww ! U do indeed need help ! WTF?? How could you say something like that? Sounds more like you need help. I agree, NavyGirl. That reaction was just plain rude. The OP deserves an apology. We don't need judgemental people coming to this website.

Tulareman Joined Thu 08/25/11 Posts: 487	Sun 12/11/11 12:19 AM
Ewwwww ! U do indeed need help ! WTF?? How could you say something like that? Sounds more like you need help. I agree, NavyGirl. That reaction was just plain rude. The OP deserves an apology. We don't need judgemental people coming to this website. I so agree. In no way was that a right way to treat a person. That lovely woman was asking for help. Not to be put down. Just remember. Nobody came out of thier mother knowing everything. We have to learn. And a great way to learn is to ask.