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Tough love!!
Sometimes, tough love is the solution. 
I am aware of the tough love program and it is intended for extreme cases - and unless it is a beyond extreme situation I do not agree with it's implementation in a comprehensive sense a little bit of it here & there when absolutely no other option exists might be OK, and as often as not it is the lack of creativity that makes one feel there is no other option Good thing we were just joking around then. 
Oh I know! I wax serious sometimes I am just too much of a softie for that tough love stuff As am I. I can usually persuade people without that. |
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If you live too much in the past, ..it keeps you from moving forward. Learn from it and apply the knowledge to a new friendship/relationship.
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u r right dear but u can`t forget ur past
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Edited by
navygirl
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Thu 12/08/11 12:15 PM
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Sometimes people think if they're single no one can hurt them... but being single and thinking about memories can kill you. You know the best thing about being single is making new memories. There are many couples married or in relationships thinking back about fond memories of being single but I don't see that killing them but some do regret giving up being single. |
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Edited by
42BlackBBW
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Thu 12/08/11 02:38 PM
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IMO, there’s nothing wrong in looking back on the good memories but there is a danger that you’ll slip into the ‘rose coloured glasses’ effect and only see a romantised version of the past e.g. not the argument that lead to the great sex, just the great sex
I know that I want and am looking for a relationship similar to the one I had with one of my ex’s but I know that I don't want my ex back even if it were possible. |
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IMO, there’s nothing wrong in looking back on the good memories but there is a danger that you’ll slip into the ‘rose coloured glasses’ effect and only see a romantised version of the past e.g. not the argument that lead to the great sex, just the great sex
I know that I want and am looking for a relationship similar to the one I had with one of my ex’s but I know that I don't want my ex back even if it were possible. Good post and incidentially; love your new profile picture.
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IMO, there’s nothing wrong in looking back on the good memories but there is a danger that you’ll slip into the ‘rose coloured glasses’ effect and only see a romantised version of the past e.g. not the argument that lead to the great sex, just the great sex
I know that I want and am looking for a relationship similar to the one I had with one of my ex’s but I know that I don't want my ex back even if it were possible. Yeah. When you marry them again there is this dejavu feeling you can get but it seems to happen later rather than sooner. 
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u r right dear but u can`t forget ur past No, but you can move on and enjoy the present and future. |
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yes
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